Telling a Lie to your partner

[Lucius]

DL, I was also thinking the same. Maybe he loves his lifestyle more than he loves me that is why instead of finding a job, he just let me go instead so he could go about his old ways.

One ex of mine had the same thing in mind. Maybe your boyfriend has YET to grow up. I don't know, I'm just 22 and I still can't leave my vices and friends behind. Like bro's before ho's, yup sometimes I prioritize other things than women

And it also hurts that he didn't even call to greet me a Merry Christmas. Ano ba naman yun? I guess I wasn't too hurt the first few days that he wasn't calling me because I was expecting that he'd call on Christmas day kaya lang wala eh.

I don't even remember myself calling an ex even on her birthday -- there were few exceptions, I guess in your case hindi ka na for him

[Lucius]

Yup, GH's right. And remember, he's keeping his body in shape. He can find women anytime. Just imagine logging in to facebook and uploading his latest "progress" guess you already know how it works. Comments leads to messages, messages leads to calls, calls leads to dates, dates end up with check-ins

[deathlance]

I'm just afraid that I won't find a man with as much patience as he did with me.

DL, I was also thinking the same. Maybe he loves his lifestyle more than he loves me that is why instead of finding a job, he just let me go instead so he could go about his old ways.

And it also hurts that he didn't even call to greet me a Merry Christmas. Ano ba naman yun? I guess I wasn't too hurt the first few days that he wasn't calling me because I was expecting that he'd call on Christmas day kaya lang wala eh.

Nadagdag pa that someone harrassed me last night, parang I lost my faith on other guys. Natakot na ko bumalik sa dating scene.

ako masasabi ko how will i find a woman as patient as you cmon how many years were you waiting for him to get a job, same goes for you uber patient ka, tell me sinung guy ang ayaw ng patient girl unless if your talking about ahem... you know what i mean..

[_Cathy_]

Yup, GH's right. And remember, he's keeping his body in shape. He can find women anytime. Just imagine logging in to facebook and uploading his latest "progress" guess you already know how it works. Comments leads to messages, messages leads to calls, calls leads to dates, dates end up with check-ins

Wow Lucius you're only 22. I thought you were in your 30s (compliment)

I am quite certain that he won't have an easy time replacing me. He's also not they type to jump from one relationship into another. If there's one thing about our relationship kasi, infidelity was never an issue with us. Pareho kasi kaming walang periphal when in a relationship (we don't notice members of the opposite ***) The reason why I liked him wasn't really physical in nature. It's his intellect that appealed to me eh. He's in his mid 30s and he has no job. Sino papatol sa kanya? AKo lang na tanga

[_Cathy_]

ako masasabi ko how will i find a woman as patient as you cmon how many years were you waiting for him to get a job, same goes for you uber patient ka, tell me sinung guy ang ayaw ng patient girl unless if your talking about ahem... you know what i mean..

Thanks DL. My ex was also patient with me whenever I have tantrums But I guess it was because he had no choice but to deal with it. Sayang lang kasi ang bait bait pa naman ng family niya sakin. Kaya dun din ako nanghihinayang. Pati mga family outings nila like bohol or davao niyayaya ako kaso di naman ako makasama kasi hindi naman maganda na mag overnight ako kasama ng BF ko eh hindi naman kami kasal saka ayoko din na gastusan nila ako eh katulad niyan nag hiwalay kami. Pero I appreciate his parents gesture of treating me like family. Hirap na makahanap ng ganiyan. Karamihan ng inlaws kontrabida.

[deathlance]

Wow Lucius you're only 22. I thought you were in your 30s (compliment)

I am quite certain that he won't have an easy time replacing me. He's also not they type to jump from one relationship into another. If there's one thing about our relationship kasi, infidelity was never an issue with us. Pareho kasi kaming walang periphal when in a relationship (we don't notice members of the opposite ***) The reason why I liked him wasn't really physical in nature. It's his intellect that appealed to me eh. He's in his mid 30s and he has no job. Sino papatol sa kanya? AKo lang na tanga

hay nako inde ka po tanga, your just plain inlove! but you know unique kasi tlga ung preference mo eh.. :D

[_Cathy_]

Unique na ba ngayon ang matalinong lalaki? heehee

[testament11]

ganito lang yan...

mahal ka niya, alam nyang mahal mo siya, yet he is the one who really does not see what you really are to him. kung baga eh, nagbubulag-bulagan siya. at hindi niya ginagawa ang part niya para sa inyong 2. sort of, you do your part for us, and i'll be receiving those. one way relationship...

[deathlance]

Unique na ba ngayon ang matalinong lalaki? heehee

hahaha nde, unique ung tulad mo na mahilig sa mga lalakeng walang trabaho, kidding..

but really its not your fault you loved/liked someone na meju nahihirapan sa sariling buhay.. just dont let yourself be dragged to the bottom.

wouldnt it be better to find someone who would carry you up rather than drag you down? dami pa dyan diba?

dami pang matalino, gwapo patient and mabaet dyan, pakalat kalat pero di mo lang napapansin or wala sa area mo :D

[Psylocke]

cathy hate to be blunt but i think you also have issues that you need to resolve...

[shadow]

Cathy, don't want to push it but tingin ko you and deathlance are meant for each other, pareho kayo meron problema sa partners niyo eh...hehehe

[deathlance]

Cathy, don't want to push it but tingin ko you and deathlance are meant for each other, pareho kayo meron problema sa partners niyo eh...hehehe

hahaha yan ka nnaman!

[_Cathy_]

hahaha nde, unique ung tulad mo na mahilig sa mga lalakeng walang trabaho, kidding..

Ironic nga na yun ang isa pinakaayaw ko sa isang lalaki pero I ended up with someone na walang trabajo.

but really its not your fault you loved/liked someone na meju nahihirapan sa sariling buhay.. just dont let yourself be dragged to the bottom.

wouldnt it be better to find someone who would carry you up rather than drag you down? dami pa dyan diba?

Parati ko sinasabi na magtulungan kami para pareho kami maging successful pero para sa kanya my success is his success and he doesn't need to succeed on his own anymore. To give him credit naman, malaki din ang hirap niya sakin para makatapos ako ng MBA.

dami pang matalino, gwapo patient and mabaet dyan, pakalat kalat pero di mo lang napapansin or wala sa area mo :D

Ang problema, gusto ba nila ko? heeehee Saka ang mahirap kasi hanapin yung kapareho ko ng wave length. Kanina nag market ako naisip ko na naman siya kasi dami ko food na gusto dalhin sa bahay niya that I know he would like. I have nobody to share my happiness with anymore.

[_Cathy_]

cathy hate to be blunt but i think you also have issues that you need to resolve...

Insecure ako at iniisip ko ang transaction cost (having to start all over again) of finding a new BF.

[deathlance]

Ironic nga na yun ang isa pinakaayaw ko sa isang lalaki pero I ended up with someone na walang trabajo.



Parati ko sinasabi na magtulungan kami para pareho kami maging successful pero para sa kanya my success is his success and he doesn't need to succeed on his own anymore. To give him credit naman, malaki din ang hirap niya sakin para makatapos ako ng MBA.



Ang problema, gusto ba nila ko? heeehee Saka ang mahirap kasi hanapin yung kapareho ko ng wave length. Kanina nag market ako naisip ko na naman siya kasi dami ko food na gusto dalhin sa bahay niya that I know he would like. I have nobody to share my happiness with anymore.

well oo malaki hirap nya sa pag mba mo, eh ung hirap mo sa pag intindi sa kanya? quits lang kayu eh... pero dapat meet halfway naman, if hes thinkin bout your future together he should be looking for work na di naman pede ikaw lang mag work panu ang family nyu?

kung happiness lang ang ishare, you have friends right? for the mean time cook for your friends, and make kwento that will be a good pass time.. hehehe

[Lucius]

Love is always conditional whether you like it or not

Go workout din magpa***y ka ulit tapos post mo mga "progress" pictures sa mga profile mo malay mo an old friend likes you, and he could be very successful right now unlike your ex. Madami pang opportunities wag kang umasa sa isang ex na walang gusto mangyari sa buhay nya

[ab_initio]

Insecure ako at iniisip ko ang transaction cost (having to start all over again) of finding a new BF.

this is an outlook too personal that you only can resolve. but then again, nag invest ka narin lang ngayon sa kanya. diversify. as i have said try hitting the dating tracks again.

[_Cathy_]

I tried just that but I ended up getting traumatized. I met up with my classmate who's been asking me out for the longest time (even before I met my BF) but then he ended up harrassing me which made me hesistant to go back to the dating scene again. I really felt so violated. I don't understand why he did that to me eh I don't have loose morals naman. In fact I never agreed to seeing him and I was ignoring him when I was in a relationship. He went as far as investigating where I live and waiting for me at the lobby after class ( we were no longer in the same school then). So when I broke up with my BF, I figured I might as well give him a chance. He's the first guy disrespected me naman because all the other guys that I dated in college were very kind to me. Bad timing rin kasi just when I broke up with my BF eh this guy harrasses me. Considering that he's old enough to be my Dad eh I was surprised with the way he acted. I still get shivers when I think about what happened. Hirap kasi I do not know how to react to aggressive guys since I always dated guys that are very gentlemanly.

[uls]

stalker mo pala yung na-date mo hehe

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don't date yet

just go out with friends

[ab_initio]

^^isolated case lang yun. if you're gonna tone your muscles, do boxing or taekwondo or any martial arts. para kontra manyak na rin...hehehehe.

hirap ng kalagayan mo...kasi when you're in love, it must be a good feeling.

layuan mo muna yang ex mo...muni muni ka...hibernate...withdraw from the world...embrace the pain til your system runs out of prostaglandin and you'll never feel the pain anymore.

time is of the essence, there must be a timetable for crying and be in pain. somehow it has to end...soon