Telling a Lie to your partner

[_Cathy_]

My friend has been trying to break up with her BF of 3 years but her BF won't agree to breaking up. She finally decided to tell a lie that she's in love with someone else which let her BF really really mad. Now her BF hates her. Now she's not sure if she should just tell the truth because she doesn't want her BF to hate her forever.

[Memphis Raines]

Although it must have been very frustrating for your friend to get rid of her BF, I think it's a bad move because her BF might become obsessive about her to the point that he might attack the very first guy that he sees with your friend-even if he ain't her BF.

Yikes! :praning:

[kha]

the truth will set her free hehehe

[v6dreamer]

Lie is a lie. If you lied, then you are unwilling to set the limit.

[chua_riwap]

My friend has been trying to break up with her BF of 3 years but her BF won't agree to breaking up. She finally decided to tell a lie that she's in love with someone else which let her BF really really mad. Now her BF hates her. Now she's not sure if she should just tell the truth because she doesn't want her BF to hate her forever.

Ito ba yung friend mo, na may BF na afflicted with Halitosis? Dapat ngang i-break na.

[_Cathy_]

Wow! Galing naman ng memory mo chua_riwap. Pero magkaiba sila eh.

[iho250]

it's going to be very hard for her bf not to hate her...masakit kaya na malaman mo na ipinagpalit ka sa iba...

maybe it would have been less painful if she told him the truth...

btw...ano nga ba dahilan bat nya gustong hiwalayan...at umabot pa ng 3 yrs?

[SIZE=1]sorry chismoso lang...[/SIZE]

[_Cathy_]

Her BF made her a promise even before they became a couple. Until now he hasn't delivered so my friend is thinking that he will never do so talaga. Saka my friend asks that they see each other once a week lang. E for the past 5 months nangyayari e once every 2 weeks. Minsan once a month pa. Masyado na complacent yung guy.

[albert_b]

your friend cant have it all. Is she expecting her bf to just agree and even be happy about it?!

I suggest she gets over it and move on. From how you describe the situation, I think she's better off without him.

Have her go out with friends, mingle!

[iho250]

Her BF made her a promise even before they became a couple. Until now he hasn't delivered so my friend is thinking that he will never do so talaga. Saka my friend asks that they see each other once a week lang. E for the past 5 months nangyayari e once every 2 weeks. Minsan once a month pa. Masyado na complacent yung guy.

sana nga sinabi na lang nya totoo...mas madali matatanggap ng isang tao ang pagkakamali kung alam nyang sya mismo may pagkukulang kaysa malalaman nya na ipinagpalit sya sa iba...

ang lumalabas pa ngayon nyan ay yung friend mo may kasalanan kasi nagka 3rd party...

as always...the truth shall set her free

[chua_riwap]

Her BF made her a promise even before they became a couple. Until now he hasn't delivered so my friend is thinking that he will never do so talaga. Saka my friend asks that they see each other once a week lang. E for the past 5 months nangyayari e once every 2 weeks. Minsan once a month pa. Masyado na complacent yung guy.

Kala ko yan yung friend mong may problem sa BF nyang may BB.

Anyway, may katuwiran namang dapat i-break na. Wala nang time yung BF nya sa kaniya. Halos di na sila magkita.

Sana sabihin nya na lang yung totoo para maayos nila problema.

[Lucius]

Pinapanget nya lang image nya (your friend) -- stupid. Why hurt your own credibility in the end where the guy was really the problem.

Anyway since madami ka friends na may problem why don't you invite them to join us here

[shadow]

*TS, kwento nanaman ng friend mo!? I say medyo maraming mga problema mga friends mo medyo lumayo ka muna..hehehehe

friend mo ba talaga or personal experience na ba yan :thumbup:

[_Cathy_]

Pinapanget nya lang image nya (your friend) -- stupid. Why hurt your own credibility in the end where the guy was really the problem.

Anyway since madami ka friends na may problem why don't you invite them to join us here

Her BF won't agree to breaking up with her when she tells him her real reason. Basta parating sagot he'll change ng he'll change ng he'll change tapos ganun pa rin naman

[_Cathy_]

*TS, kwento nanaman ng friend mo!? I say medyo maraming mga problema mga friends mo medyo lumayo ka muna..hehehehe

friend mo ba talaga or personal experience na ba yan :thumbup:

Good Influence naman mga friends ko except yung isa pero mabait sila lahat.

[CVT]

Let her be the villain for him forever. At least she got what she wanted.

Move on, but don't do it again, okay?....

5909:burn:

[shadow]

^^^nagsasawa na kami sa mga stories ng friends mo..hehehhe, story mo naman ang i-share mo dito....

[_Cathy_]

I live a boring life nga eh. heehee.

[mbeige]

I don't get it, you don't have to agree to breaking up if you've already gone past your threshold. My guess is she wants him to let her go, but doesn't want to take the responsibility of cutting ties. Now she feels guilty of what she did.

If she really wanted out, she would have done it no matter what.

[_Cathy_]

She said she wanted to break up but didn't want to end up as enemies.

Anyway, major reason why she wants to break up is because her BF has been jobless for so long. When she met her BF she tought that the guy was seriously helping in the family business but it turned out that he wasn't pala so my friend asked him to find a ral job. He's been promising my friend that he'll be getting a job but it's been 3 years already and my friend is starting to think that the guy really has no intention of finding a job.

Guy said the reason why he can't visit my friend is because he doesn't have money daw. He said he stopped taking money from his parents so he'd be motivated to find a job. E I think even if he's left with just a cent in his pocket e he still won't be motivated.

So should she feel guilty about breaking up or tiis pa rin at baka magbago yung guy?