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    #81
    Quote Originally Posted by ray_noel View Post
    Aside from your skill, siguro malaki talaga makukuha mo kasi ginagawa nila lahat para hindi ka maka-alis... kasi yung 2.5years na makuha mo sa panahon ngayon, lalong lalaki expenditures ni company... hehe... yaman naman nito! Pa SB ka naman... matcha greentea frap lang na grande, no whip creme... [emoji4]


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    no, it has nothing to do with the lumpsum kasi hindi pa involved ang HR dito. May order kasi from head office to "keep cathy in the organization". Specialist kasi ako and identified as key man risk. Hindi malaki makukuha ko kasi maliit lang sweldo ko. Super flattered nga ko na LAHAT ng conditions ko binigay ng director, pumayag din na WFH ako indefinitely at according sa mga VP na nakausap ko, sure ball na daw promotion ko sa kasi powerful ang endorsement ng director. Ewan ko ba bakit aalis pa ko but that is what my heart tells me, my mind tells me to stay

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    Quote Originally Posted by ray_noel View Post
    Oi SAP professional kana? Hehehe... been there... Yeah SAP HANA is what most of the industry is availing now... go for it na... SAP originate from Germany, they might send you there for trAining... [emoji108]


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    That is why I considered na i forego lump sum para maka transfer dito. I want to learn SAP Hana kasi saka tuturuan pa ko ng agile system

    Quote Originally Posted by Gumusut_Amige View Post
    told you about this... kaya mo bang i-disappoint ang VP boss mo?
    I don't want to disappoint him pero may pagkukulang din siya.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dr. d View Post
    it would seem,
    they're bending the brick wall just for you.
    they're giving you everything you ask for.

    take it, go to the US, and come back, as scheduled.
    you can always resign later, if you are still professionally unhappy.
    Yes they did the same last year when I went to the US. Ang habang discussion nun, just as so they can keep my headcount while I am away (that has cost kasi) All my friends are saying that nga, na they give me everything and I am so thankful.

    dr, I love my job kaya I am always happy to help and I love an audience I guess people see through that. Minsan kahit hindi ko work, ginagawa ko. Just today:



    Quote Originally Posted by shadow View Post
    Indecisiveness will cost you, everything and everyone has breaking point.


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    SUPER patient nung AVP sa Manila who coordinates with HR, yung June 30 deadline ko umabot na ng July 15 hahaha! I feel so bad nga kasi siya ang naiipit pero she is still very kind to me. Hiyang hiya na ko sa kanya so I am making my decision now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by marky2115 View Post
    ^Exactly. Take the new role now or you'll just disappoint everyone who moved mountains just to retain you. You have to move on, step away from your comfort zone.

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    Hiyang hiya ako sa kanila I hope they would understand my decision

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    Hindi ms cath. Stay ka. Achieve mo muna avp bago aalis... pra satisfying yung kag alis in terms of achievement...


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    Naguguluhan naman ako e. I already rejected the role. Hiyang hiya ako sa director because she gave me eveything I asked for.

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    I woke up feeling so depressed. I'm not sure if I made the proper decision to leave the company. I'm thankful crush called me and it took my mind off of it for a while, napansin niya siguro sa boses ko kaya he talked to me longer than usual which helped me a lot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    I woke up feeling so depressed. I'm not sure if I made the proper decision to leave the company. I'm thankful crush called me and it took my mind off of it for a while, napansin niya siguro sa boses ko kaya he talked to me longer than usual which helped me a lot.

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    Don't worry. Give it time. Hope hindsight will side w/ you. Mistakes? Don't worry about them, too. The other term for those is 'experience'.[emoji120]

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    I'm feeling sad. I heard news that the director of projects is very disappointed in me (for rejecting the position) and all the other VPs. hay!!! Maba bad shot pa ko nito

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    I'm feeling sad. I heard news that the director of projects is very disappointed in me (for rejecting the position) and all the other VPs. hay!!! Maba bad shot pa ko nito
    Did you expect any other reaction from them?

    They moved mountains to keep you so naturally they'll be bummed that you turned them down.

    Impossible to make everyone happy 100% of the time so identify which opinions matter most and take only those into consideration.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jut703 View Post
    Did you expect any other reaction from them?

    They moved mountains to keep you so naturally they'll be bummed that you turned them down.

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    It was this director who said I can go back pero why is she disappointed now to the extent that it was discussed in a management meeting

    I don't know what to do redeem myself

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    It was this director who said I can go back pero why is she disappointed now to the extent that it was discussed in a management meeting
    Siyempre sabi lang niya yun pero that's not the direction she wants you to take.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    It was this director who said I can go back pero why is she disappointed now to the extent that it was discussed in a management meeting

    I don't know what to do redeem myself

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    What exactly were you expecting? Happy? You turned your back to everything you asked/they gave.🤯

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    Quote Originally Posted by travajante View Post
    What exactly were you expecting? Happy? You turned your back to everything you asked/they gave.🤯

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    Confirmed na bad shot na ko. So it looks like there is no going back next year. The VP of branch called me and said to humble myself and take back what I said (declining the role) haayyyyy

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    Confirmed na bad shot na ko. So it looks like there is no going back next year. The VP of branch called me and said to humble myself and take back what I said (declining the role) haayyyyy

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    You have decided naman na to leave your job so there should be no looking back but if you still want or stau then do what's necessary.

    The important thing is to decide then stick with it. Wala ng second thoughts- exons thoughts.


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    Quote Originally Posted by shadow View Post
    You have decided naman na to leave your job so there should be no looking back but if you still want or stau then do what's necessary.

    The important thing is to decide then stick with it. Wala ng second thoughts- exons thoughts.


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    Kasi balak ko pahinga muna habang may China virus tapos punta ko US. Pag balik ko I wanna go back to my old company e I wanna join her department but since na bad shot ako sira plano ko!!! The only way to redeem is accept the role daw

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    Kasi balak ko pahinga muna habang may China virus tapos punta ko US. Pag balik ko I wanna go back to my old company e I wanna join her department but since na bad shot ako sira plano ko!!! The only way to redeem is accept the role daw

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    Do what's best for yourself.


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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    Kasi balak ko pahinga muna habang may China virus tapos punta ko US. Pag balik ko I wanna go back to my old company e I wanna join her department but since na bad shot ako sira plano ko!!! The only way to redeem is accept the role daw

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    Sana naman wag pa dumagdag yung VP ng branch sa mga disappointed sakin. He called me tonight and told me that he just came from a meeting and upper management is asking for efficiency gains (AKA savings on PEOPLE) He won't be replacing the employees that will resign in his department so I am very lucky that several departments offered me roles because there will definitely be no more open roles anymore unless someone resigns in the company. He said wag na ko mapili (same as what my German VP boss said) Saan daw ako makakahanap ng company who gives me the same privileges as the current one (tama siya!)

    Dati kaaway ng alpha boss ko that VP and we went from enemies to him showing concern for me like I am his own staff Maiinis yun na hindi ako nakinig to stay I told him siya kasi gusto ko na boss e wala na talaga opening sa kanila e pinagbabawas pa nga siya (he did arrange for my role in Japan na hindi natuloy because of CHINA VIRUS!!!)

    I have the weekend to think AGAIN!

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    OMG! I am crying! I really disappointed my VP German boss. Sobrang speechless siya that I declined the role. His points na parang I just want to bury my head in sand

    1. He used all his connections to get me a role

    2. I complained that they wanted me to decide if it's a yes or no. He said that MANY people will jump at the opportunity of a role. There are a lot of people who would willingly take that role and the company will not wait for me - In that aspect wala ako self awareness until he told me

    3. CALL the director of Projects NOW and retract

    4. He is frustrated because I don't listen to him

    5. He is frustrated that I don't listen to other management which is to stay (ie VP Branch, VP Compensation, VP Risk)

    6. It's not reason that I can survive jobless (he knows I live with my parents)

    Ang dami pa nyang sinabi pero rinig na rinig ko sa boses niya yung frustration and he did say it. Paulit ulit na lang daw siya sakin He said even my AVP boss will be so sad to hear my decision. If I leave daw mahihirapan na ko makapasok ulit kasi nagbabawas pa nga ng employees

    TAMA BA GINAWA KO?!?!?! I thought I needed to get out of this company because it's the end of the line for me na, but now I am having second thoughts.

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