What Do You Do To Overcome Sadness?

[_Cathy_]

Today I'll start making changes in my life. My Mom said now that I don't have work, I should focus on improving myself.

[ninjababez]

Today I'll start making changes in my life. My Mom said now that I don't have work, I should focus on improving myself.

wag ka muna work cathy
focus ka muna sa healthy living, start by sleeping early .. tapos pag gising workout ..

[_Cathy_]

wag ka muna work cathy
focus ka muna sa healthy living, start by sleeping early .. tapos pag gising workout ..

Yup, sabi nga ng Mommy ko focus on improving myself muna, after 1 yr na lang daw ako mag work ulit (not sure I want to wait that long)

I fell asleep again at 6 am then woke up at 9 am kasi yung office messenger may pina receive na papers. I will have a hard time sleeping again

I don't like working out at home because I prefer machines and free weights saka iba pa rin may gym mates. If only I had an incline/flat bench, I could do so much already.

Pero gusto ko talaga ibalik yung dating katawan/hitsura ko, pati ilong ko lumapad na

[_Cathy_]

I wish GOOD PEOPLE could live forever. This evening I found out our Dr family friend passed away, he was so good to us. I can't stop crying because I am reminded of the mortality of "elders". We also have a family friend nun who is connected with a hospital who passed away a few years ago, routine na namin yun for every year of my life, we would pick her up and eat out somewhere nice, whenever Mom would travel I would drop off pasalubong for her. She lived until her 90s also. Natatakot na ko lalo magkasakit because now both of them are gone. I can't explain how I feel knowing na wala na yun mga tao whose presence gave you comfort that my medical concerns will be taken cared of.

[dr. d]

I wish GOOD PEOPLE could live forever. This evening I found out our Dr family friend passed away, he was so good to us. I can't stop crying because I am reminded of the mortality of "elders". We also have a family friend nun who is connected with a hospital who passed away a few years ago, routine na namin yun for every year of my life, we would pick her up and eat out somewhere nice, whenever Mom would travel I would drop off pasalubong for her. She lived until her 90s also. Natatakot na ko lalo magkasakit because now both of them are gone. I can't explain how I feel knowing na wala na yun mga tao whose presence gave you comfort that my medical concerns will be taken cared of.

when someone we love dearly passes away,
it means we have to step up and take their place.

[ray_noel]

wag ka muna work cathy
focus ka muna sa healthy living, start by sleeping early .. tapos pag gising workout ..

Lakas ng glute ng babaeng ito bruh...


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[ray_noel]

Pero gusto ko talaga ibalik yung dating katawan/hitsura ko, pati ilong ko lumapad na

You can do it even better and mas madali... hi Doc Belo!


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[_Cathy_]

Naiyak ako sa sama ng loob kay crush. I know we're not together anymore pero halata talaga how he does not care for my anymore. Matagal na napapansin ni ULS yan but I as usual I turn a blind eye

Example 1: When he tried to call me and I was not able to answer, I told him I had a fever for 3 days. He did not reply but he did call me several times and days after that and I didn't answer his calls anymore because I was too distraught. But why did he not text me? I told him kung namatay ako hindi na niya malalaman, after that he became consistent na in communicating with me

Example 2: He was the first person I messaged when my car won't start. Why? Kasi in my mind siya protector and savior ko. I confirmed with him if there is coding in Makati and my car won't start. His exact reply "Hi. Yes coding in effect" Yun lang??!

I know he did not ask for anything from me, but just to illustrate how important he is to me, I woke up at 9 and was going to Greenbelt because I wanted to buy him a gift for his upcoming birthday. Everyone knows how I do NOT go out for anything else and have not stepped in a mall since March but that is how special he is to me.

Ang laking contrast with the last guy I was inlove with. When we were together pa and I told him my car stalled, he immediately called even if he was in the middle of a meeting and his office was in San Juan. He asked me my exact location and he will go there na. I refused because I didn't wanna hassle him and UF said she will go to me since her house is near lang. But the whole time he was talking to me on the phone and he even asked me to give the phone sa owner ng shop so he could give instructions. After our relationship ended, of course hindi na nag offer to see me dahil may bago na siya, pero when I told him my battery died AT LEAST he gave me instructions on what to do. Grabe si crush one liner and did not even ask how I am or where I am. I replied wala man lang concern. Hindi man lang tumawag to check up on me. I know we are just friends pero diba pag minahal mo isang tao may concern ka naman? Sa board nga ang bilis ng reply ng mga tao, I don't even know the members here personally

Sama ng loob ko sobra. I do appreciate that he helps me with my family issues, aware ako mahal ang oras niya literally, pero looks like beyond that wala na siya paki sakin.

[shadow]

Naiyak ako sa sama ng loob kay crush. I know we're not together anymore pero halata talaga how he does not care for my anymore. Matagal na napapansin ni ULS yan but I as usual I turn a blind eye

Example 1: When he tried to call me and I was not able to answer, I told him I had a fever for 3 days. He did not reply but he did call me several times and days after that and I didn't answer his calls anymore because I was too distraught. But why did he not text me? I told him kung namatay ako hindi na niya malalaman, after that he became consistent na in communicating with me

Example 2: He was the first person I messaged when my car won't start. Why? Kasi in my mind siya protector and savior ko. I confirmed with him if there is coding in Makati and my car won't start. His exact reply "Hi. Yes coding in effect" Yun lang??!

I know he did not ask for anything from me, but just to illustrate how important he is to me, I woke up at 9 and was going to Greenbelt because I wanted to buy him a gift for his upcoming birthday. Everyone knows how I do NOT go out for anything else and have not stepped in a mall since March but that is how special he is to me.

Ang laking contrast with the last guy I was inlove with. When we were together pa and I told him my car stalled, he immediately called even if he was in the middle of a meeting and his office was in San Juan. He asked me my exact location and he will go there na. I refused because I didn't wanna hassle him and UF said she will go to me since her house is near lang. But the whole time he was talking to me on the phone and he even asked me to give the phone sa owner ng shop so he could give instructions. After our relationship ended, of course hindi na nag offer to see me dahil may bago na siya, pero when I told him my battery died AT LEAST he gave me instructions on what to do. Grabe si crush one liner and did not even ask how I am or where I am. I replied wala man lang concern. Hindi man lang tumawag to check up on me. I know we are just friends pero diba pag minahal mo isang tao may concern ka naman? Sa board nga ang bilis ng reply ng mga tao, I don't even know the members here personally

Sama ng loob ko sobra. I do appreciate that he helps me with my family issues, aware ako mahal ang oras niya literally, pero looks like beyond that wala na siya paki sakin.

Matagal na.


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[uls]

Example 2: He was the first person I messaged when my car won't start. Why? Kasi in my mind siya protector and savior ko. I confirmed with him if there is coding in Makati and my car won't start. His exact reply "Hi. Yes coding in effect" Yun lang??!

walang reply na subukan niyo i-troubleshoot?

[Little Missy]

Sabi kasi sayo walk away dahil wala ka na talaga maasahan diyan. Kung may plano siya sa kung anong meron kayo, matagal na dapat.

Sorry Cath pero hindi mo siya pwedeng sisihin dahil wala naman siyang pinangako sayo ikaw lang ang may expectations. Pumayag ka sa ganyan.

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[misseksaherada]

Kung gusto nyo pa rin sj crush Ms. Cathy ok lang yan.. Lilipas ang araw sasaya ka na ulet dahil kay crush.. Wala ka naman sini-set na ultimatum para kalimutan sya.. Kaya tiis-tiis lang.. Ngayon ka lang malungkot kasi merong major event.. The next day tawagan ka nya ulit with his ***y voice, sasaya ka na ulit..
Kung ayaw mo na malungkot, hanap ka na ng iba.. Madami naman may gusto sayo, ayaw mo lang pansinin.. May choice ka na sumaya, nandyan lang oh...
ehem.. <insert name here> [emoji1308][emoji2956]

[uls]

Ms. Cathy ok lang yan.. Lilipas ang araw sasaya ka na ulet dahil kay crush

The next day tawagan ka nya ulit with his ***y voice, sasaya ka na ulit

sabi ko nga kay Cathy kanina -- sumasama loob niya pero pag nag usap na sila nakakalimutan ang sama ng loob

[shadow]

sabi ko nga kay Cathy kanina -- sumasama loob niya pero pag nag usap na sila nakakalimutan ang sama ng loob

Ano yun cliché ng insanity?


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[uls]

Ano yun cliché ng insanity?


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keep repeating something but expecting diff result

pero alam mo shadow i think ayaw bumitaw si Cathy coz she sees hope maibalik ung dati

diba recently she posted meron daw improvement

ung nag memessage na ung crush niya di lang tawag

dahil doon lalo nagkaroon ng pag asa si Cathy

malabo mag walk away yan

sabi ko nga sa kanya kanina permanent fixture na sa buhay niya ung guy

[shadow]

keep repeating something but expecting diff result

pero alam mo shadow i think ayaw bumitaw si Cathy coz she sees hope maibalik ung dati

diba recently she posted meron daw improvement

ung nag memessage na ung crush niya di lang tawag

dahil doon lalo nagkaroon ng pag asa si Cathy

malabo mag walk away yan

sabi ko nga sa kanya kanina permanent fixture na sa buhay niya ung guy

Sa isip lang ni cathy yan. Yan ang gusto niya mangyari pero wala na pagasa.

Ayaw na sa kanya.


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[_Cathy_]

Matagal na.

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ouch

walang reply na subukan niyo i-troubleshoot?

wala. I just got home and I got missed calls from him but I did not hear it because I was in a meeting with my lawyer and my family and got home really late

Sabi kasi sayo walk away dahil wala ka na talaga maasahan diyan. Kung may plano siya sa kung anong meron kayo, matagal na dapat.

Sorry Cath pero hindi mo siya pwedeng sisihin dahil wala naman siyang pinangako sayo ikaw lang ang may expectations. Pumayag ka sa ganyan.

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Natanong ko na ata before pero sa dami ng inputs from tsikoteers nalimutan ko na hahaha! But why does he give me time daily to call, sometimes we would spend over 1 hour talking and I think he enjoys our conversations din naman

Ang hirap din kasi may friends ako na boto pa rin sa kanya and think I should suyo him kasi fault ko naman daw why we broke up before at alam nila kasi ugali ko (topak daw)

Kung gusto nyo pa rin sj crush Ms. Cathy ok lang yan.. Lilipas ang araw sasaya ka na ulet dahil kay crush.. Wala ka naman sini-set na ultimatum para kalimutan sya.. Kaya tiis-tiis lang.. Ngayon ka lang malungkot kasi merong major event.. The next day tawagan ka nya ulit with his ***y voice, sasaya ka na ulit..
Kung ayaw mo na malungkot, hanap ka na ng iba.. Madami naman may gusto sayo, ayaw mo lang pansinin.. May choice ka na sumaya, nandyan lang oh...
ehem.. <insert name here> [emoji1308][emoji2956]

hahaha! You're so funny! Parang nakarma din ata ako kasi my ex of 5 yrs told me I have the same effect on him, kahit anong gawin kong kasamaan, the next day limot na niya and wants me back. Pero lahat ng tao may hangganan, I absolutely will NOT share his body with another woman hahaha!

[_Cathy_]

keep repeating something but expecting diff result

pero alam mo shadow i think ayaw bumitaw si Cathy coz she sees hope maibalik ung dati

diba recently she posted meron daw improvement

ung nag memessage na ung crush niya di lang tawag

dahil doon lalo nagkaroon ng pag asa si Cathy

malabo mag walk away yan

sabi ko nga sa kanya kanina permanent fixture na sa buhay niya ung guy

oo nag improve nga. Saka uls, alam mo naman diba this is biology working kaya hirap ako bumitaw

Sa isip lang ni cathy yan. Yan ang gusto niya mangyari pero wala na pagasa.

Ayaw na sa kanya.


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grabe ka naman e syempre if he really treats me like sh1t, I have dignity naman and I know when to walk away. Tignan natin if he will call me pa even if I missed his calls today.

I was so stressed pa kasi I made a reservation sa mall and they can only hold it for today tapos sabi ng SA maulan na nga matraffic pa baka hindi ako umabot sa closing! Good thing they gave in to my request na mag bank transfer na lang ako tapos i process na nila, so tiwala lang HAHAHA! SSI SA's are THE BEST. Kahit nasaktan ako sa lack of concern ni crush, I still want him to know that he is special to me

Hello kags? SSI the best! They go BEYOND customer expectations! Regaluhan ko nga SA na kausap ko

[Little Missy]

Cath I don't know how you can do it. Ako hindi naman naghahanap ng alpha pero I pay attention to how he treats me. Di naman ako mapapasaya ng good looks niya, ng job niya. Pero how he treats me and respects my feelings naappreciate ko and dun ako kinikilig.

Sometimes I spend time with guys just for the company din but it has to add value to me. When it starts to feel na mas okay pa na I'm alone coz I'm miserable with him, I'm out. I'm just too practical and I start to think long-term after sometime. Like, do I see myself with this in the future okay ba ako sa ganito and how he treats me.

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[ray_noel]

So sad ms cath... really sad...

His happiness is not in you and yet you keep searching your happiness to him... Malabo ang future...


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