What Do You Do To Overcome Sadness?

[_Cathy_]

i'm just imagining...

i dunno... maybe he's truly busy and can only give you that time in the morning

OR that's all he's willing to give you

magkaiba yun:

1 - gusto ka pa niya makausap (sa tanghali o sa hapon o sa gabi) pero di niya kaya talaga

2 - kaya naman niya pero ayaw niya -- sabi niya sa sarili niya "i will only call Cathy once a day in the morning"

Minsan hapon na siya tawag, minsan lunch break, but it is always once a day

Pero omg, that's exactly what I was thinking, I am hoping it is number 1 pero hindi ko maalis yung feeling na it is number 2 kasi dati naman kahit super busy siya he would MAKE time by calling me on his drive home, he said he looks forward to talking to me end of day after a busy day at work, I will never forget when he said that. But it seems like hindi na ako ang stress reliever niya. With the way things are going, I have a bigger chance of making my boss fall for me than crush Pero siyempre bad yun hahaha

Uls, I LOVE HIM SO MUCH! Handa ako tanggapin ang challenges ng relationship namin, alam mo naman yun. Pero why is he giving me a hard time, I think I have a lot to offer naman, I mean iningatan ko naman sarili ko and I'm saving it all for him.

Bakit kaya yun lang ang willing siya ibigay?

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[_Cathy_]

I'm surprised nga my friends love him even with our complications. They've never seen me this crazy over a guy. Remember si 2011 heartbreak? Naligo ng pintas sa friends ko yun diba. Si crush gustong gusto, may payo pa Spanish group ko, dapat daw magka little crush and little cathy LOL

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[uls]

Bakit kaya yun lang ang willing siya ibigay?

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kasi napaso siya

you ghosted him

pinakita mo sa kanya kaya mo siya tiisin

so he goes "ah ganun... ngayon di ko ibibigay lahat"

he's willing to get involved with you again but not too involved

that's my view

[StockEngine]

Uls, I LOVE HIM SO MUCH! Handa ako tanggapin ang challenges ng relationship namin, alam mo naman yun. Pero why is he giving me a hard time, I think I have a lot to offer naman, I mean iningatan ko naman sarili ko and I'm saving it all for him.

Bakit kaya yun lang ang willing siya ibigay?

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Until you both meet in person, I dont think he will give an inch. When did you last meat 2017?

Sino ba yun tsikoteer who wants to see someone so bad? I think thats something special.

[_Cathy_]

kasi napaso siya

you ghosted him

pinakita mo sa kanya kaya mo siya tiisin

so he goes "ah ganun... ngayon di ko ibibigay lahat"

he's willing to get involved with you again but not too involved

that's my view

That's what all my friends think and I should work hard to win him back, but my problem is I don't know how. It is so frustrating

Asked my office girl friend about work and we ended up talking about crush until midnight, hindi na ko naka dinner at hindi ko na nagawa dapat ko gawin! hahaha! She always asks me about crush so na sermonan na naman ako kasi I told her about my getting hurt with the "I miss you" thing, she said it's too much daw, I might scare him away. She said the same na crush is being that way because of what I did in the past.

Then another friend told me, sobra demanding ko daw kay crush dati, pano daw makakapag trabajo, sounds familiar

Until you both meet in person, I dont think he will give an inch. When did you last meat 2017?

Sino ba yun tsikoteer who wants to see someone so bad? I think thats something special.

How will we meet, I contacted him 1 week before the lockdown happened. Anyway, I don't plan to meet him soon, I will fix my looks first, baka ma turn off e hahaha!

PLUS I won't be control myself when I see him, I badly want to hug and kiss him, he's not my BF naman, baka itulak ako hahaha!

[StockEngine]

How will we meet, I contacted him 1 week before the lockdown happened. Anyway, I don't plan to meet him soon, I will fix my looks first, baka ma turn off e hahaha!

3months progess? No more baby steps i hope.

I want to lose 40lbs like alan... his thinking is spot on. Focuz on the prize?

[_Cathy_]

Need to look my best for crush talaga How to be irresistible for him, the way I crave for him 😍

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[dr. d]

3months progess? No more baby steps i hope.

I want to lose 40lbs like alan... his thinking is spot on. Focuz on the prize?

i am wondering,
"why the beard?"

[Gumusut_Amige]

That's what all my friends think and I should work hard to win him back, but my problem is I don't know how. It is so frustrating

Then another friend told me, sobra demanding ko daw kay crush dati, pano daw makakapag trabajo, sounds familiar

How will we meet, I contacted him 1 week before the lockdown happened. Anyway, I don't plan to meet him soon, I will fix my looks first, baka ma turn off e hahaha!

PLUS I won't be control myself when I see him, I badly want to hug and kiss him, he's not my BF naman, baka itulak ako hahaha!

ito muna ang gawin mo... baka si crush mag-request na magkita kayo bigla tapos ikaw naman ang aayaw hahaha.

suppress mo muna ng konti ang feeling mo sa ngayon and divert yourself to reboot to your old physical self. baka epekto lang yan ng lockdown kaya hindi mawaglit sa isipan mo si crush kahit isang sandali man lang.

if you are demanding him to call you every now and then ay talagang sobra na yon. pag ikaw ang nasa katayuan nya, paano mo i-manage ang iyong trabaho kung meron isang tao na nag de-demand ng constant attention every single day?

medyo masyado ka nyang na-spoiled nung kayo pa lang.
tapos tantya mo ay sobra-sobra na ang ginagawa mo to win him back and this is adding to your frustration.

sumagi ba sa isipan mo na baka masyado mo syang nasaktan noon?
baka naman yun ang isang rason kung bakit pinipigil nya ang kanyang sarili sa ngayon?

wala ka bang alam na close friends ni crush para matanungan mo man lang? kung paano nya kinaya ang sakit sa paghihiwalay nyo. kahit ano pa ang sabihin natin, natapakan mo pa rin ang kanyang self-esteem when you call it quits.

[uls]

That's what all my friends think and I should work hard to win him back, but my problem is I don't know how. It is so frustrating

sorry i'm gonna be a bit harsh

he already calls you everyday what more do you want?

i-love-you-i-love-you-too?

if i was in his shoes that's not gonna happen

i'm gonna maintain an emotional distance from you

like 50/50

like ok lang nag uusap tayo araw araw pero ok lang din pag hindi na tayo mag usap uli

[uls]

keep in mind those corporate types don't reach that level of success by being kind and empathic and emotional

you gotta be some kind of special cold calculated species to reach that level




kung kaya niya sa work, kaya niya sa relationships

[BlancNoir]

keep in mind those corporate types don't reach that level of success by being kind and empathic and emotional

you gotta be some kind of special cold calculated species to reach that level




kung kaya niya sa work, kaya niya sa relationships

baka sociopathic traits. masyadong harsh and "psychopath" na term.hehe

Pero agree, you need to detach yourself lalo na when making hard decisions that involves money and laying off workers.

Ultimate goal is power,pleasing the shareholders, and satisfying your deep desire of being worshipped.

[uls]

baka sociopathic traits. masyadong harsh and "psychopath" na term.hehe

Pero agree, you need to detach yourself lalo na when making hard decisions that involves money and laying off workers.

Ultimate goal is power,pleasing the shareholders, and satisfying your deep desire of being worshipped.

well yeah the word should be sociopath

ung post ko above dugtong lang sa post na ito:

sorry i'm gonna be a bit harsh

he already calls you everyday what more do you want?

i-love-you-i-love-you-too?

if i was in his shoes that's not gonna happen

i'm gonna maintain an emotional distance from you

like 50/50

like ok lang nag uusap tayo araw araw pero ok lang din pag hindi na tayo mag usap uli

sinsabi ko lang kay Cathy na kayang kaya ng crush niya mag maintain ng emotional distance sa kanya

sisiw no sweat for people with sociopathic traits

[BlancNoir]

well yeah the word should be sociopath

ung post ko above dugtong lang sa post na ito:

ah hehe di ko nabasa previous post mo.

Hello there fellow dude with minor sociopath tendencies.

[uls]

ah hehe di ko nabasa previous post mo.

Hello there fellow dude with minor sociopath tendencies.

haha me?

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[BlancNoir]

haha me?

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hahaha kidding

[_Cathy_]

ito muna ang gawin mo... baka si crush mag-request na magkita kayo bigla tapos ikaw naman ang aayaw hahaha.

suppress mo muna ng konti ang feeling mo sa ngayon and divert yourself to reboot to your old physical self. baka epekto lang yan ng lockdown kaya hindi mawaglit sa isipan mo si crush kahit isang sandali man lang.

if you are demanding him to call you every now and then ay talagang sobra na yon. pag ikaw ang nasa katayuan nya, paano mo i-manage ang iyong trabaho kung meron isang tao na nag de-demand ng constant attention every single day?

medyo masyado ka nyang na-spoiled nung kayo pa lang.
tapos tantya mo ay sobra-sobra na ang ginagawa mo to win him back and this is adding to your frustration.

sumagi ba sa isipan mo na baka masyado mo syang nasaktan noon?
baka naman yun ang isang rason kung bakit pinipigil nya ang kanyang sarili sa ngayon?

wala ka bang alam na close friends ni crush para matanungan mo man lang? kung paano nya kinaya ang sakit sa paghihiwalay nyo. kahit ano pa ang sabihin natin, natapakan mo pa rin ang kanyang self-esteem when you call it quits.

so you mean yung romantic feelings ko sa kanya dapat i suppress ko muna? Naisip ko nga baka masyado siyang ma overwhelm sakin when he wants to take things slow, mag focus na lang ako into improving myself para nga handa ako when he asks to see me at ng hindi ko siya kinukulit.

nasanay lang kasi ako sa dati na every waking hour we talk to each other, mga friends ko napansin na wala na ko time sa kanila, at ako din nagtataka how he was able to give me so much time back then, kaya I felt so loved. I imagined kasi na after 3 years it will be the same intensity as before, but I was wrong

Today nga hindi siya makakatawag sakin, once a day na nga lang, hindi pa everyday, dati naman he would call me on his drive home, but now he does not do that. I even asked him why, hindi naman sumagot. Wala naman ako karapatan mag demand e we are not in a relationship, ibang iba na talaga

Yun din sabi ng iba kong friends na baka kaya he is keeping distance dahil sa ginawa ko dati, unfortunately, ganyan talaga history ko sa lahat ng ex ko, kaya most guys I dated in the past sinusumpa ako HIndi ko rin maintindihan why I do it, when all this is over, pupunta na talaga ako sa psychiatrist

I just want a stable loving relationship. I won't forget what the guy I dated back in 2011 told me "You can't handle having a normal relationship" Alam ni uls yan, halos ma nervous breakdown ako.

sorry i'm gonna be a bit harsh

he already calls you everyday what more do you want?

i-love-you-i-love-you-too?

if i was in his shoes that's not gonna happen

i'm gonna maintain an emotional distance from you

like 50/50

like ok lang nag uusap tayo araw araw pero ok lang din pag hindi na tayo mag usap uli

Hindi nga tumawag today, may man com daw Yes, I want the i love yous, I want the intimacy, otherwise, we are just friends who talk. He is the only guy makes my blood run hot, I tried my best in 3 years to be attracted to other men, pere wala e, he gave me too much oxytocin when we were together hehe

Are you saying wala na kami pag asa magkabalikan ni crush?

[_Cathy_]

keep in mind those corporate types don't reach that level of success by being kind and empathic and emotional

you gotta be some kind of special cold calculated species to reach that level




kung kaya niya sa work, kaya niya sa relationships

That's what makes these powerful corporate guys hot nga. When you are able to break through that barrier, who was that who said na yung alpha males, they need lambing too, of course the girl who is able to get to that vulnerability ang winner LOL

example si crush, may suplado reputation and he is really serious at work, but when we talk and I can make him laugh and we are intimate, it is SO HOT! Kasi I get to see that side that others CANNOT. Just thinking about it nang gigil na ko! LOL! Kapag beta kasi walang impact

Yung German boss ko rin, hindi nakikipag usap sa Pilipino, so everyone has to pass through me, LOL! Suplado reputation rin, pag naasar ako hindi ko papansinin ng ilang araw tapos magtatanong "are you mad at me?" TANGGAL ASAR KO! hahaha! Minsan amazed pa rin ako na these people na considered "gods" in the corporate world are so normal. Same alpha line sila ni crush "what's wrong" MELTS MY HEART! Alpha males get things done, they are very protective and you can expect na you will be well taken cared of.

And I am also a little crazy so bagay kami? hahaha

[uls]

Are you saying wala na kami pag asa magkabalikan ni crush?

kung mababalik ung tulad dati tingin ko malabo

[_Cathy_]

kung mababalik ung tulad dati tingin ko malabo

hindi na kami magkakabalikan? like we can't have a romantic relationship anymore? yung kina inlove ko nga yung intensity namin e.

so friends na lang talaga? akala ko pag naguusap na kami ni crush hindi na ko iiyak, was I so wrong...