What Do You Do To Overcome Sadness?

[monty_GTV]

My employee morale is so low. I can't believe this. They plan to put all employees in one building and very few floors. In our old office, we had a large space and few people per square feet/meter. I loved all my previous work areas, ngayon para kaming sardinas I can't help but think this company is NOT going to recover

effect ng recession pa rin. halos lahat ng companies are now finding ways to reduce expenditures. in our case, they get rid of the 60 yrs and above, then they cut the allowances, then now they are implementing localization. soon all of us expats are going to be replace by locals. and the same situation like you, inilipat kami sa office na mas masikip kesa dati. pahirapan din mag-apply ngayon kaya kapit muna sa lamesa

[_Cathy_]

effect ng recession pa rin. halos lahat ng companies are now finding ways to reduce expenditures. in our case, they get rid of the 60 yrs and above, then they cut the allowances, then now they are implementing localization. soon all of us expats are going to be replace by locals. and the same situation like you, inilipat kami sa office na mas masikip kesa dati. pahirapan din mag-apply ngayon kaya kapit muna sa lamesa

I'm so upset I had LBM. I don't want to show up at work anymore. Sana forever work from home na lang ako Marami nga na upset samin because of everything that's happening. The atmosphere is not good.

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[_Cathy_]

Crush's birthday is coming up and I thought of greeting him. It's been 7 months since we last spoke to each other.

My unicorn friend was all praises for crush but she thinks I should move on na. It's rare for her to give me an advise as direct as this

I'm starting new in 2018...



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[monty_GTV]

Crush's birthday is coming up and I thought of greeting him. It's been 7 months since we last spoke to each other.

My unicorn friend was all praises for crush but she thinks I should move on na. It's rare for her to give me an advise as direct as this

I'm starting new in 2018...



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your friend is right. you can't start anew if you dont move on and away from the shadow of your crush. 1st step..no need to greet him [emoji16]

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[Niner_seven]

I take long walks -- as in 1hr walks. Enough to take me from the office to the house.

If that doesn't work, I try to talk to someone about....anything.

Posting in forums also help -- especially when you're as anonymous as the next person.



...it also helps to have young kids -- sometimes it's different to see the world in the eyes of a child.


...then again, it also helps sometimes to just let it all out and shed some tears privately.

[Yuesford]

Extrovert - Socialize with friends
Introvert - Playing computer games

Sometimes i feel extrovert, sometimes i feel introvert. Depends on the case which makes me happy either way. I guess our taste depends on our age.

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[MR_BIG18]

beer helps...sometimes....

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[_Cathy_]

your friend is right. you can't start anew if you dont move on and away from the shadow of your crush. 1st step..no need to greet him [emoji16]

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I just met with my unicorn BFF and we talked about crush. She wants me to move on from him but she admits that anyone, even she will fall in love with crush (that's a huge statement because my unicorn friend is very picky and busted a lot of eligible men)

It's funny because the men we fell in love with had similar profiles (same school and job), they even sleep and wake up at the same time! OMG! Very disciplined daw the men we love hahaha.

I know I should be happy but I just ended up crying in my car for some reason. I want to forget but crush really made a mark in my life. He's really everything I want My unicorn friend and I were talking about what a real man is, check check check talaga si crush - a man who is take charge and makes a woman feel secure and protected.

I wonder if he still thinks about me... crying as I type this

beer helps...sometimes....

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I appreciate beer now ever since I spent time with our VP. He orders beer for me when we have lunch or dinner. Masarap pala beer with a meal

[CVT]

Years ago, a bar of Snickers and cold water.... And a long drive....

[sean-archer]

I just met with my unicorn BFF and we talked about crush. She wants me to move on from him but she admits that anyone, even she will fall in love with crush (that's a huge statement because my unicorn friend is very picky and busted a lot of eligible men)

It's funny because the men we fell in love with had similar profiles (same school and job), they even sleep and wake up at the same time! OMG! Very disciplined daw the men we love hahaha.

I know I should be happy but I just ended up crying in my car for some reason. I want to forget but crush really made a mark in my life. He's really everything I want My unicorn friend and I were talking about what a real man is, check check check talaga si crush - a man who is take charge and makes a woman feel secure and protected.

I wonder if he still thinks about me... crying as I type this



I appreciate beer now ever since I spent time with our VP. He orders beer for me when we have lunch or dinner. Masarap pala beer with a meal

Try to stay away from all the things associated with him. Mahirap pero try.

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[dr. d]

de-scrooge!
stop whining, and give joy to others!

regalujan nyo yung hindi makaka-ganti sa inyo!

[jigeloh]

I just met with my unicorn BFF and we talked about crush. She wants me to move on from him but she admits that anyone, even she will fall in love with crush (that's a huge statement because my unicorn friend is very picky and busted a lot of eligible men)

It's funny because the men we fell in love with had similar profiles (same school and job), they even sleep and wake up at the same time! OMG! Very disciplined daw the men we love hahaha.

I know I should be happy but I just ended up crying in my car for some reason. I want to forget but crush really made a mark in my life. He's really everything I want My unicorn friend and I were talking about what a real man is, check check check talaga si crush - a man who is take charge and makes a woman feel secure and protected.

I wonder if he still thinks about me... crying as I type this



I appreciate beer now ever since I spent time with our VP. He orders beer for me when we have lunch or dinner. Masarap pala beer with a meal

Bakit hindi mo sya harapin ulit, ibuhos mo lahat ng nararamdaman mo, huwag kang magtitira. Kung kayo, kayo. Kung hindi, move on. At least you did your part. Para walang “what if”.


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[MR_BIG18]

Bakit hindi mo sya harapin ulit, ibuhos mo lahat ng nararamdaman mo, huwag kang magtitira. Kung kayo, kayo. Kung hindi, move on. At least you did your part. Para walang “what if”.


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pag nag comment ako baka may magalit
..haha

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[_Cathy_]

Try to stay away from all the things associated with him. Mahirap pero try.

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I try to but it's like everything reminds me of him. My friends asked me about who I am dating now and I told them none because I am still heartbroken. I told them the story about crush, no names or places, just the situation. They both said that I am wrong and they believe crush Anyway, I told them that crush did not contact me anymore and they said "wala na" I should date other people and if crush really wants me he will come back.

Naasar pa ko sa friend ko na mayabang. How I wish crush were mine, he's the type of man talaga na maipagmamalaki ng kahit sinong babae. I don't even need to make yabang anymore, taob sila lahat.

I miss him more now

Bakit hindi mo sya harapin ulit, ibuhos mo lahat ng nararamdaman mo, huwag kang magtitira. Kung kayo, kayo. Kung hindi, move on. At least you did your part. Para walang “what if”.


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If he really wanted me, shouldn't he have texted or called me? Kaya feeling ko masasayang or mapapahiya lang ako pag hinarap ko siya ulit. I don't even know how to contact him now.

[sean-archer]

I try to but it's like everything reminds me of him. My friends asked me about who I am dating now and I told them none because I am still heartbroken. I told them the story about crush, no names or places, just the situation. They both said that I am wrong and they believe crush Anyway, I told them that crush did not contact me anymore and they said "wala na" I should date other people and if crush really wants me he will come back.

Naasar pa ko sa friend ko na mayabang. How I wish crush were mine, he's the type of man talaga na maipagmamalaki ng kahit sinong babae. I don't even need to make yabang anymore, taob sila lahat.

I miss him more now



If he really wanted me, shouldn't he have texted or called me? Kaya feeling ko masasayang or mapapahiya lang ako pag hinarap ko siya ulit. I don't even know how to contact him now.

Ayus lang mam mapahiya or masaktan, kesa ihaunt tayo ni what-if monster for the rest of our life.

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[EQAddict]

Hi Cathy,

Can i give my virtual 2 cents?

Either do something about it and take charge of your situation or just let go.

Your constant bemoaning of your fate and your wistful recollections of his perfection are slowly but surely driving you into emotional and mental hell. Yes we all know how perfect he is and how he towers over other men in stature, IQ, EQ, looks, manners, power, etc. Yet everytime you write about it, you increase the weight of depression and longing that you are already carrying.

Call him. Greet him. Say anything to him. But do something . Even forgetting him is doing something. But doing nothing will just sink you ever deeper into a black pit of depression which all of us Tsikoteers are witness to. I dont want to sound mean and condescending but your musings are getting more and more pitiful. And im using the gentlest words i can find.

As Yoda said: 'there is no try....only Do'






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[_Cathy_]

Hi Cathy,

Can i give my virtual 2 cents?

Either do something about it and take charge of your situation or just let go.

Your constant bemoaning of your fate and your wistful recollections of his perfection are slowly but surely driving you into emotional and mental hell. Yes we all know how perfect he is and how he towers over other men in stature, IQ, EQ, looks, manners, power, etc. Yet everytime you write about it, you increase the weight of depression and longing that you are already carrying.

Call him. Greet him. Say anything to him. But do something . Even forgetting him is doing something. But doing nothing will just sink you ever deeper into a black pit of depression which all of us Tsikoteers are witness to. I dont want to sound mean and condescending but your musings are getting more and more pitiful. And im using the gentlest words i can find.

As Yoda said: 'there is no try....only Do'






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I appreciate your advice. Even harsh words (calling shadow bigyan mo nga ko) would be better, I need it

I know it's pathetic how I long for someone who doesn't think of me anymore. If he still cared for me, he would have done something already. I know I need to forget about him. I just wish we could have remained friends but I guess he didn't want that.

Honestly, he possesses a major deal-breaker and I would never have considered him if I knew the truth BEFORE I fell in love with him. I just convinced myself that it can be compromised but at the back of my mind I know it will always be an issue. I don't even know until now what really is the truth. My friends tell me I should trust his word BUT I can't get rid of the feeling that something just isn't right.

My childhood friend said if we end up together, I will never be the priority because she has a friend who was in the same situation. Dalaga ako, I deserve ng binata.



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[falken]

Hi Cathy,

Can i give my virtual 2 cents?

Either do something about it and take charge of your situation or just let go.

Your constant bemoaning of your fate and your wistful recollections of his perfection are slowly but surely driving you into emotional and mental hell. Yes we all know how perfect he is and how he towers over other men in stature, IQ, EQ, looks, manners, power, etc. Yet everytime you write about it, you increase the weight of depression and longing that you are already carrying.

Call him. Greet him. Say anything to him. But do something . Even forgetting him is doing something. But doing nothing will just sink you ever deeper into a black pit of depression which all of us Tsikoteers are witness to. I dont want to sound mean and condescending but your musings are getting more and more pitiful. And im using the gentlest words i can find.

As Yoda said: 'there is no try....only Do'






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+1 on this.

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[sean-archer]

"If he still cared for me, he would have done something already"

Ito lang po ang nakikita kong dapat ma confirm. Kaya sabi ko kanina ok lang masaktan or mapahiya as long as you got the final answer or confirmation. You gotta know the real score so you'd know if you still need to fight for him or give up and let go.

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[_Cathy_]

"If he still cared for me, he would have done something already"

Ito lang po ang nakikita kong dapat ma confirm. Kaya sabi ko kanina ok lang masaktan or mapahiya as long as you got the final answer or confirmation. You gotta know the real score so you'd know if you still need to fight for him or give up and let go.

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Yung hindi niya pag communicate for 8 months, isn't that confirmation that he does not care anymore? Lumipas birthday ko, birthday niya, pasko, hindi naman siya nagparamdam.