Originally Posted by
Jun aka Pekto
C'mon. We all know Pinoys are very judgemental. Narrow pointy nose, light complexion, how someone dresses, where you go to college, even what province you're from..... Little things that get scrutinized and decide how people look at you. I was on the lucky side. But, I didn't like the double standard either. Gossip was just around every corner.
When I first arrived there, my legs were so white that girls kept rubbing their hands on my thighs.
"Shoo. Go away. Leave my legs alone."
This forum is full of the stereotyping if you look long enough and that's just the ones typed in English.
Back in New York, we had an old lady who just arrived from the PH. The very first thing she asked me (even before my name) is where did I graduate? I'm like, "What? I graduated college here in the US. But, I attended Mapua while I was there."
Another is when we attended a Fil-Am party where no one knew me. When I walked in, everybody suddenly became silent and started whispering. My wife said one of them remarked to her, "I didn't know your husband was Hispanic." Once my wife explained everything, then they welcomed me in.
That happened twice in two different Fil-Am parties.