Would You Let a Whole Family Move In (Temporarily)?

**cast_no_shadow** · February 25th, 2020 09:19 AM

No! You already listed the reasons na din naman hahaha ano pa dapat ang pag isipan.

Extended family nga pag iisipan ko pa, what more yaan na stranger na nga hindi pa pala full time na driver.

Pinaka ayoko yung ako yung asa bahay ko tapos ako yung makikisama.

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**oj88** · February 25th, 2020 09:20 AM

No.

Sobrang dami nila. Kung yung wife and grade school child lang, I might consider. And only if they can live in an isolated room or some sort of outhouse (if you have a compound or a big front/back yard), no access to your home interior or is bordered by your front door.

If you do agree to let them stay for 6 months, have hm sign a binding contract and have it notarized.

Worst case, you may have to let him go and advice him to go and seek out help from extended family. Yung 50% na natitirang utang, well, you can either give it to him as balato nalang (as motivation to leave and not bother you anymore) or negotiate a mechanism for him to pay you back. Pero once you let him go, consider it a write-off. Kung nagbayad pa rin, bless his soul, bonus na yun.

**StockEngine** · February 25th, 2020 09:22 AM

Gently refuse and offer rent assistance.

**akosijhay** · February 25th, 2020 10:07 AM

No, hindi ako papayag. Kung afford nila na magpagawa ng bahay, tingin ko kaya nila mag rent ng bahay temporarily. Meron naman nag o-offer ng affordable monthly rental fee eh.

Isa pa ung 3 teenagers, kung ung age is between 14-18 years old tapos puro lalaki, nakakatakot lalo na babae ka. May mga teenagers ngayon na maloko na.

**uls** · February 25th, 2020 10:14 AM

once they move in mahirap na paalisin yan

**shadow** · February 25th, 2020 10:34 AM

Originally Posted by cast_no_shadow

No! You already listed the reasons na din naman hahaha ano pa dapat ang pag isipan.

Extended family nga pag iisipan ko pa, what more yaan na stranger na nga hindi pa pala full time na driver.

Pinaka ayoko yung ako yung asa bahay ko tapos ako yung makikisama.

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Ako kahit extended family hinde pa rin.

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**_Cathy_** · February 25th, 2020 11:32 AM

Originally Posted by oj88

No.

Sobrang dami nila. Kung yung wife and grade school child lang, I might consider. And only if they can live in an isolated room or some sort of outhouse (if you have a compound or a big front/back yard), no access to your home interior or is bordered by your front door.

If you do agree to let them stay for 6 months, have hm sign a binding contract and have it notarized.

Worst case, you may have to let him go and advice him to go and seek out help from extended family. Yung 50% na natitirang utang, well, you can either give it to him as balato nalang (as motivation to leave and not bother you anymore) or negotiate a mechanism for him to pay you back. Pero once you let him go, consider it a write-off. Kung nagbayad pa rin, bless his soul, bonus na yun.

Wow I am surprised that only one person (kags) said yes. This is not the first time a family asked to move in with us, several years ago, it was the family of our neighbor's caretaker, after our neighbor sold their house. I refused because I thought they were too many (5 ata) and we just gave money (along with other neighbors) to help them start off.

Now, my feelings are different because I am the only "young" person in our house, puro seniors na and the extra company would be good pero sana nga 3 lang sila.

They will be living separately from the main house, we have an old bodega with one bathroom that is completely empty and would be comfortable for one or two persons to live in, but 6, definitely not. I am thinking they might want to get out asap because the place is too small for 6. They can also enter and exit the house through our other gate but then that is permanently closed because its sira and to fix the gate, it will cost at least P20k, so we are not spending on that. They can pass through our gate but that is less privacy on our side

I will discuss with my Mom and thanks, I will let them sign a contract if I decide to let them stay. Lately nga puro advance sa sweldo, so they must be really having a hard time with money

**mda** · February 25th, 2020 11:34 AM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

They will be living separately from the main house, we have an old bodega with one bathroom that is completely empty and would be comfortable for one or two persons to live in, but 6, definitely not. I am thinking they might want to get out asap because the place is too small for 6. They can also enter and exit the house through our other gate but then that is permanently closed because its sira and to fix the gate, it will cost at least P20k, so we are not spending on that. They can pass through our gate but that is less privacy on our side

I will discuss with my Mom and thanks, I will let them sign a contract if I decide to let them stay. Lately nga puro advance sa sweldo, so they must be really having a hard time with money

Mas hindi mo pa yan maisisipa if they don't want to leave, contract or no contract... lalo they can squat in your home. Not saying they will, just saying na if magsama balak ng mga yan...

**_Cathy_** · February 25th, 2020 11:37 AM

Originally Posted by akosijhay

No, hindi ako papayag. Kung afford nila na magpagawa ng bahay, tingin ko kaya nila mag rent ng bahay temporarily. Meron naman nag o-offer ng affordable monthly rental fee eh.

Isa pa ung 3 teenagers, kung ung age is between 14-18 years old tapos puro lalaki, nakakatakot lalo na babae ka. May mga teenagers ngayon na maloko na.

Yun din naisip ng Mom ko, 3 kasi ang teenagers, yung eldest na lalaki college na, yung 2 babae HS. Ayaw ng Mommy ko na magdadala ng barkada or GF/BF. Pwede ko ng anak mga yun, kung naging dalagang ina ako LOL

**_Cathy_** · February 25th, 2020 11:49 AM

Originally Posted by mda

Mas hindi mo pa yan maisisipa if they don't want to leave, contract or no contract... lalo they can squat in your home. Not saying they will, just saying na if magsama balak ng mga yan...

really? does the law apply yung pag nakatira sa lupa mo for x number of years? Mabuting tao naman pagkaka kilala ko sa kanila