Cathy,
I would not let them in, if I was in your position.
6 mos stay - medyo malabo yan, considering that they still have a debt to your family that is long overdue. Para sa akin ang pagbabayad ng utang sa napagkasunduang panahon (na hindi sinisingil ha) ang isang mabigat na sukatan ng katapatan ng isang tao. Palabra de honor. Kung doon pa lang ay bagsak na ang driver nyo, I will not trust him completely to honor his "6 months only" promise.
Maapektuhan talaga ang privacy nyo, hindi maiiwasan yan. May ibang tao eh, hindi man directly sa loob ng bahay, pero nasa same bakuran pa din.
There are so many unknowns kapag pinatuloy mo sila. So why bother thread that part? May problema ba sa part mo kapag di mo sila pinatuloy? Wala naman di, ba?
If you are only being bothered about the issue of not helping others especially those in need, pwede mo naman silang tulungan sa ibang paraan. Provide them small monetary assistance, especially if they decided to rent an apartment, among other things. Madaming paraan. But surrendering your privacy, comfort and security that your home provides, I deem, is not one of them.
Please listen to the overwhelming advice of other tsikoteers here Ms. Cathy.
Hinde na kailan lahat yan security system dahil hinde naman pa patirahin ni cath sa kanila
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Bawasan nyo na lang po utang nila.. Na equal sa rent ng bahay bilang tulong para maluwag sa loob yung pagtanggi nyo sa pagpapatira nyo sa bahay nyo..
Pwede nyo din po sabihin na ang pagtanggi nyo ay hindi magdadamot or hindi nyo pagdamay sa oras ng pangangailangan nila.. Kaya nyo po ginagawa ang pagtanggi ay dahil pinahahalagahan nyo ang relationship na na build nyo at sa mahusay nilang pakikisama ba ayaw nyo masira.. Dahil di natin alam ang pwede pang mangayari at pwedeng maging problema.. Ipaliwanag nyo lang po ng mahusay na sa tingin nyo po yun ang makakabuti para sa lahat.. Na nandyan po kayo for extra support hindi lang sa paraan na naisip nila at sa finacial.
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Yung pinsan ko nung pinatira niya yung boy nila sa water refilling station sa bahay nila mismo. nung una nakikinood lang sa kanila ng TV, bandang huli siya na may hawak ng remote habang nakataas pa isang paa sa sofa.
Itong tangang pinsan ko ayaw palayasin kasi mahirap daw maghanap ng boy. Sabi ko t*nga ka, tignan mo yung bunso mo kamukha nung boy mo!
Don't know how to feel. My Mom stopped speaking to my Tita because when my Tita had her house renovated (which is near our house), my Mom told my Tita she could stay and move her things at our house rent free. The renovation lasted 6 months. After my Tita left, my Mom went home to check our house, the door to the kitchen was damaged and the furniture was misplaced. My Mom spoke to my Tita's help and she denied that they damaged it. This really pissed off my Mom. My issue is, why is she mad at my Tita, malay ba ng Tita ko because she was in US most of the time. So now I am the only speaking to my Tita e I need her to bring some stuff from Manila to US
Ibang bahay pa yan, nagka tampuhan na. Looks like set na Mom ko to have our driver's family stay with us, ako pa fino follow up when![]()