Would You Let a Whole Family Move In (Temporarily)?

**cast_no_shadow** · February 25th, 2020 09:19 AM

No! You already listed the reasons na din naman hahaha ano pa dapat ang pag isipan.

Extended family nga pag iisipan ko pa, what more yaan na stranger na nga hindi pa pala full time na driver.

Pinaka ayoko yung ako yung asa bahay ko tapos ako yung makikisama.

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**shadow** · February 25th, 2020 10:34 AM

Originally Posted by cast_no_shadow

No! You already listed the reasons na din naman hahaha ano pa dapat ang pag isipan.

Extended family nga pag iisipan ko pa, what more yaan na stranger na nga hindi pa pala full time na driver.

Pinaka ayoko yung ako yung asa bahay ko tapos ako yung makikisama.

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Ako kahit extended family hinde pa rin.

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**jaggerx3** · February 25th, 2020 12:53 PM

Just pay their rent siguro mga 2 months and tell their eldest na humanap ng work while studying para makatulong sa gastos nila sa bahay.

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**shadow** · February 25th, 2020 01:21 PM

What contract? Walang kwenta yan contract-contract!

Huwag mo na patirahin diyan. Kahit sa bodega or anywhere else.

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**shadow** · February 25th, 2020 01:47 PM

Sakit sa ulo yan! Maghanap sila ng bahay na uupahan nila. nagpapasok ka lang ng sakit ng ulo.

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**_Cathy_** · February 25th, 2020 02:05 PM

Originally Posted by dr. d

for agricultural land... with conditions.
urban squatters...? heh heh.

the bottomline is,
it is much easier, dis-allowing them from entering, than it is, asking them to leave later.
it took a long time for our non-paying apartment-renters to agree to leave.
support them in paying for their temporary rent na lang.
it's potentially less complicated.

It also happened to us doc, our tenant was a lawyer pa. Dapat hahatakin na yung kotse and stuff ng sheriff biglang naglaho. From then on we don't rent na to lawyers and police etc

Originally Posted by shadow

Sakit sa ulo yan! Maghanap sila ng bahay na uupahan nila. nagpapasok ka lang ng sakit ng ulo.

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Hard to explain pero ang lungkot kasi sa bahay namin, pero sobra naman nga yung plus 6 [emoji23]

Oo nga, bakit kaya hindi sila umupa? Siguro dahil 6 mos lang, and contracts are annual?

I can't support sa rent e ako nga hirap din sa pera. Hanggang June na lang ako sa position ko. The only way I can help is to let them live rent free
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**shadow** · February 25th, 2020 02:06 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

It also happened to us doc, our tenant was a lawyer pa. Dapat hahatakin na yung kotse and stuff ng sheriff biglang naglaho. From then on we don't rent na to lawyers and police etc

Hard to explain pero ang lungkot kasi sa bahay namin, pero sobra naman nga yung plus 6 [emoji23]

Oo nga, bakit kaya hindi sila umupa? Siguro dahil 6 mos lang, and contracts are annual?

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Hinde totoo yan! Walang minimum yan mga apetment na mura. 2 months 3 months ok lang yan.

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**_Cathy_** · February 25th, 2020 02:16 PM

Paano yan, I convinced my Mom na to let them move in, though I have the final decision. Nagui guilty kasi ako na I have a chance to help sana.

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**shadow** · February 25th, 2020 02:27 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Paano yan, I convinced my Mom na to let them move in, though I have the final decision. Nagui guilty kasi ako na I have a chance to help sana.

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You're still gonna help them by subsidizing their rent.

Unconvinced your mom.

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**_Cathy_** · February 25th, 2020 02:33 PM

Originally Posted by shadow

You're still gonna help them by subsidizing their rent.

Unconvinced your mom.

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I won't haha. They still owe us money from 2017 nga

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**CVT** · February 25th, 2020 02:27 PM

You can always change your mind.

Then go to a solution that is win-win for both parties...

You own the house,- you make the decision.

**Gumusut_Amige** · February 25th, 2020 05:08 PM

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**Gumusut_Amige** · February 25th, 2020 05:15 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Paano yan, I convinced my Mom na to let them move in, though I have the final decision. Nagui guilty kasi ako na I have a chance to help sana.

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you are indeed a compassionate person ms cath but don't feel guilty. there's a limit in everything. i know how you feel but if this act will just add up to your stressors, not worth it!

pwedeng ikunsidera kung yung nanay at bunso lang pero sobra naman kasi yung bilang nila... isang barangay na. full stop!

**_Cathy_** · February 25th, 2020 07:11 PM

Originally Posted by Gumusut_Amige

you are indeed a compassionate person ms cath but don't feel guilty. there's a limit in everything. i know how you feel but if this act will just add up to your stressors, not worth it!

pwedeng ikunsidera kung yung nanay at bunso lang pero sobra naman kasi yung bilang nila... isang barangay na. full stop!

Thanks. I treat help at home as family kasi (hello shadow

) Dream ko malaking family (what is so sad is if I do get married impossible na ko to have a big family) Kaya naisip ko masaya na rin madaming tao sa house

Pero masyado nga madami ang 6! Buti pa sila ang dami ng anak samantalang parents ko, dapat 4 din kami magkakapatid (Mom had miscarriages) so ending mag isa lang ako

Malungkot talaga

BTW, heard my Mom and Aunt talking ang pino problema nila pag UMALIS after 6 mos

**ray_noel** · February 25th, 2020 07:50 PM

Keep chasing your dream ms cath... kaya pa yang big family na dream mo... [emoji4] 4 kids siguro para masaya ang 6 seater na dinning table... pero pwede na rin 3 bah?

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**_Cathy_** · February 25th, 2020 08:26 PM

Originally Posted by ray_noel

Keep chasing your dream ms cath... kaya pa yang big family na dream mo... [emoji4] 4 kids siguro para masaya ang 6 seater na dinning table... pero pwede na rin 3 bah?

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12 seater dining table namin ROFL! Malabo na, I am in my late 30s, kelan pa ko mag asawa at mag anak. Unless my husband can afford for multiple IVFs hahe. I do think 3 is ideal.

**ray_noel** · February 26th, 2020 03:05 AM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

12 seater dining table namin ROFL! Malabo na, I am in my late 30s, kelan pa ko mag asawa at mag anak. Unless my husband can afford for multiple IVFs hahe. I do think 3 is ideal.

Dapat magpa check na tayo yan... para ready na sa ivf...

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**ninjababez** · February 26th, 2020 11:32 AM

pakiramdam ko within a month, may bago nanaman reklamo si cathy dito sa tsikot RE: parasites LOL

**_Cathy_** · February 26th, 2020 11:51 AM

Ang nakikita kong main issue, yung tataas kuryente at tubig namin pero I told my Mom na they should pay. Pero how do we know magkano yung kanila. They don't pay rent so dapat di sila mag complain sa kuryente at tubig kasi kami mababa consumption namin. Yung privacy ang next issue kasi di na ko pwede basta makalabas ng bahay wearing whatever

Ano pa ba potential stressors? I have a few more weeks pa naman to decide pero mind blown talaga ako na ALL said no except for kags haha. Diba sa Pinoy, normal magpatira ng ibang tao or relatives sa bahay?

**uls** · February 26th, 2020 12:00 PM

ipakita mo sa tatay ung bills niyo for the past 6 months then show him the new bill

ung itinaas singilin mo sa kanila

round number di naman kailangan exact amount

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