Yeah, some people don't get matured kahit kasal na sila or hiwalay na sila sa magulang.
Nasa tao na mismo yan. So let's leave it like that.
I can't imagine living with my parents after I'm 30. What's the point? Financial security? Comfort Zone? Tipid? Walang gastusin? Kahit mag-chip in ako sa gastusin, di ko pa rin matiis umalis and be on my own. DO I see my parents as an investment in the future? Stay with em so I can save more money in the end?
I never thought it that way. That's a bad insight.
In the same manner parents think their kids as their life insurance.
Here's the worst advice I got from an "friend": Get married early so that your kids can wipe your ass when you get old. They will take care of you.
Ass wipe. Major. Get filthy rich and hire a maid to do the work. Not your kids. Where did he get that view? I don't know.
I can't remember the movie wherein a guy brings home a girl in his room and when they started making out, the mom knocks on his door. Na turn off ang girl. She left away. That's really funny.
I say being alone teaches you a lot of things, maturity aside. And that's to be responsible and be aware of your spendings.
And a lot of errors with us is we only move out AFTER getting married.
Big mistake.
They never experienced being alone, most of the time both husband and wife, kaya hayun, giyera ang nakakauwian.
And besides, every parent will be proud that their kids can live on their own without their support and guidance. IF the parents insists that they know better than their child, THEN there's something wrong.
And that's never teaching their kids to decide on their own.
Tingin pa rin nila sa anak ay isang "fully grown boy or baby girl".
Spare me the pain kimchy duddy-doodle doo.
The best advice I got from my deceased father was: "You have to rely on your own, I won't be forever at your side."
How I wish he sees me now with all the little success I made.
I know a guy who works but still have a different ATM, from his parents daw, monthly "allowance" daw niya. And he's like 36 or 37. And he still lives with his parents.