Get out and live his own life he would be able to buy himself a second hand corolla, he needs to pay his electric water phone internet cable bills on his own. He would have to budget 300/day for his fastfood meals. Wash his own laundry, clean his car, clean the house Probably get out of the country once a year to hongkong through budget airfares. When he needs to leave his car in the casa would need to take a taxi back home. But he would be more fullfilled and happy I believe thats what I advised him.
He doesn't sound 'kawawa' in this scenario. This sounds pretty much like an above average lifestyle still. Buti pa nga siya may pang-HK pa.