Telling a Lie to your partner

**v6dreamer** · April 24th, 2008 10:38 PM

Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you

She said she wanted to break up but didn't want to end up as enemies.

Anyway, major reason why she wants to break up is because her BF has been jobless for so long. When she met her BF she tought that the guy was seriously helping in the family business but it turned out that he wasn't pala so my friend asked him to find a ral job. He's been promising my friend that he'll be getting a job but it's been 3 years already and my friend is starting to think that the guy really has no intention of finding a job.

Guy said the reason why he can't visit my friend is because he doesn't have money daw. He said he stopped taking money from his parents so he'd be motivated to find a job. E I think even if he's left with just a cent in his pocket e he still won't be motivated.

So should she feel guilty about breaking up or tiis pa rin at baka magbago yung guy?

Ganoon naman pala eh! Tell your friend to call it QUIT. My god darling if she really want to break up this person the time is now and why wait listening those baloney excuses. Guilty! What guilty we were talking here? Advice your friend not to bite more than he could chew......period.

**_Cathy_** · April 24th, 2008 10:47 PM

Kasi the guy might change daw. hehe.

**chua_riwap** · April 24th, 2008 10:50 PM

Originally Posted by shadow

^^^nagsasawa na kami sa mga stories ng friends mo..hehehhe, story mo naman ang i-share mo dito....

Nye-he-he! Konti pa Bro Shadow, magkukuwento na yan si Cathy........

**_Cathy_** · April 24th, 2008 11:13 PM

What kind of kwento do you want?

**CVT** · April 24th, 2008 11:19 PM

Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you

So should she feel guilty about breaking up or tiis pa rin at baka magbago yung guy?

This reminds me again of the conversation between husband and wife after x years of marriage (I posted this in another thread):

Wife: "I married you, hoping that you will change, but you did not"..

Husband: "I married you, hoping that you will not change, but you did"....

In general, love will not change a person,- sa komiks lang iyan....

5909:burn:

**_Cathy_** · April 24th, 2008 11:23 PM

Hindi ba masakit sa pride ng guy kung jobless siya tapos yung girl may job?

**Lucius** · April 24th, 2008 11:28 PM

Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you

Hindi ba masakit sa pride ng guy kung jobless siya tapos yung girl may job?

Ha? That should be none of the girl's business. Bakit live-in ba sila? Kung oo kapal ng mukha nung guy. But if the guy affords to pay for their dates then wala dapat paki ang babae. Depende na din sa guy yan, if he has low self-esteem magwa-whine lang yan all the time.

Sorry to say this but your friend is pathetic. Kung gusto nya breakan o di breakan nya na agad. Dami dami pa nya sinasabi, ano gusto nya habulin pa sya? Nakakatawa naman yang friend mo, tell her to get a life. Ginagago pa nya yung ex nya malamang nga suntukin nya yung first guy na makita nya with your friend.

**CVT** · April 24th, 2008 11:28 PM

Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you

Hindi ba masakit sa pride ng guy kung jobless siya tapos yung girl may job?

Ako "mayabang", kaya mahirap tanggapin...

Pero sa panahon natin,- marami nang makapal ang mukha kaya okay lang. Ang masama nito,- wala ng trabaho,- ayaw pang gumawa sa bahay.....

5909:burn:

**_Cathy_** · April 24th, 2008 11:44 PM

Originally Posted by Lucius

Ha? That should be none of the girl's business. Bakit live-in ba sila? Kung oo kapal ng mukha nung guy. But if the guy affords to pay for their dates then wala dapat paki ang babae. Depende na din sa guy yan, if he has low self-esteem magwa-whine lang yan all the time.

Sorry to say this but your friend is pathetic. Kung gusto nya breakan o di breakan nya na agad. Dami dami pa nya sinasabi, ano gusto nya habulin pa sya? Nakakatawa naman yang friend mo, tell her to get a life. Ginagago pa nya yung ex nya malamang nga suntukin nya yung first guy na makita nya with your friend.

They don't go out nga kasi parati wala pera BF. My friend offers to pay but the guy refuses.

I understand my friend kasi sakin kasi importante where the guy's money comes from e kung galing sa masama or hingi lang sa parents e wag na lang. Isip ng friend ko baka naman daw magising na lang isang araw at gusto ng magtrabajo. hehe.

Anyway, the guy knows na that my friend lied about having a third party. Guy promised that he will change and get a job DAW.

**_Cathy_** · April 24th, 2008 11:47 PM

Originally Posted by CVT

Ako "mayabang", kaya mahirap tanggapin...

Pero sa panahon natin,- marami nang makapal ang mukha kaya okay lang. Ang masama nito,- wala ng trabaho,- ayaw pang gumawa sa bahay.....

5909:burn:

Yan ang magandang klaseng yabang.

Di ko nga alam kung bakit ibang iba na generation ngayon. Ang dami talagang guys na ayaw mag trabajo at okay lang na umasa sa gf nila.

**v6dreamer** · April 24th, 2008 11:57 PM

Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you

Yan ang magandang klaseng yabang.

Di ko nga alam kung bakit ibang iba na generation ngayon. Ang dami talagang guys na ayaw mag trabajo at okay lang na umasa sa gf nila.

Heto pa.. Ang mga bayani namamatay ng maaga, kaya sabihin mo doon sa kaibigan mo huwag magpakabayani. Kapag nasakal este nakasal pala sa lalaking iyon di bugbog sa lahat ng gawain, aba gisingin mo siya at bangongot na yan.

Why not invite your friend to come aboard? Siguradong maraming DR. Phil dito like, yours truly.....hehehe. You see, this is not a bad IDEA at all so, bring it in.

**iho250** · April 25th, 2008 12:15 AM

Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you

She said she wanted to break up but didn't want to end up as enemies.

Anyway, major reason why she wants to break up is because her BF has been jobless for so long. When she met her BF she tought that the guy was seriously helping in the family business but it turned out that he wasn't pala so my friend asked him to find a ral job. He's been promising my friend that he'll be getting a job but it's been 3 years already and my friend is starting to think that the guy really has no intention of finding a job.

Guy said the reason why he can't visit my friend is because he doesn't have money daw. He said he stopped taking money from his parents so he'd be motivated to find a job. E I think even if he's left with just a cent in his pocket e he still won't be motivated.

So should she feel guilty about breaking up or tiis pa rin at baka magbago yung guy?

Professional Bum in the flesh!! :hysterical:

tiis? -- the guy is not worth it..

**Lucius** · April 25th, 2008 12:27 AM

Hahahaha that's just plain ridiculous. Maghahanap daw ng work? How long will it take the guy to land a job.

1. Look for a job - 1-2weeks
2. Initial interview/exam then the results - 1 week
3. Final interview - after a week

Matagal yan sobra. Kung gusto nya talaga breakan yan kahit anong iyak pa nung guy wala na magagawa. Ibang girls talaga gusto hinahabol or mag "change" yung partner. Let the partner change on his/her own. Don't be the reason for that change, kasi in the end baka isumbat pa yun sa kayna.

**mbeige** · April 25th, 2008 01:09 AM

Both your friend and her BF have a problem. The guy is too proud, if the girl pays he refuses. Come on, kung magiging kayo rin naman tanggapin niyo na wag na sila magkunyari pa. Kung hindi, I guess that's why he's refusing (?).

As for your friend, if she really wants to let go, then let him go. Enemies aren't made that way, just bitter friends. Well, now that she lied...well...I guess that didn't help.

**chua_riwap** · April 25th, 2008 04:30 AM

Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you

Hindi ba masakit sa pride ng guy kung jobless siya tapos yung girl may job?

Ha?........uso ngayon yan, Ma'm.

**Yoda** · April 25th, 2008 07:51 AM

Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you

Anyway, the guy knows na that my friend lied about having a third party. Guy promised that he will change and get a job DAW.

For the nth time?

So does this mean sila pa rin? Aw c'mon, enough is enough.

This reminds me of all those stories of battered women. Girl threatens to leave, guy promises to change, beats her again anyway. And so on, ad infinitum.

**_Cathy_** · April 25th, 2008 09:54 AM

Originally Posted by Lucius

Hahahaha that's just plain ridiculous. Maghahanap daw ng work? How long will it take the guy to land a job.

1. Look for a job - 1-2weeks
2. Initial interview/exam then the results - 1 week
3. Final interview - after a week

Matagal yan sobra. Kung gusto nya talaga breakan yan kahit anong iyak pa nung guy wala na magagawa. Ibang girls talaga gusto hinahabol or mag "change" yung partner. Let the partner change on his/her own. Don't be the reason for that change, kasi in the end baka isumbat pa yun sa kayna.

kasi naman nakaka melt ng heart pag umiiyak na ang guy eh

**_Cathy_** · April 25th, 2008 09:59 AM

Originally Posted by Yoda

For the nth time?

So does this mean sila pa rin? Aw c'mon, enough is enough.

This reminds me of all those stories of battered women. Girl threatens to leave, guy promises to change, beats her again anyway. And so on, ad infinitum.

Yup. They reconciled. Guy promised to find a job. hay...

**malagu** · May 31st, 2008 08:26 AM

Masakit malaman ang kasinungalingan, pero mas masakit malaman ang katotohanan.......pero mas ok na masaktan sa katotohanan..........

**oliver1013** · May 31st, 2008 12:10 PM

Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you

Hindi ba masakit sa pride ng guy kung jobless siya tapos yung girl may job?

Meron ako kilala napakaganda ng girl, yung guy sus wag na...wala pang trabaho, pero mahal na mahal nung girl

Yung girl btw may work...tuwing pinagsasabihan pinaglalaban pa nung girl yung lalake..mundo nga naman..

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