Telling a Lie to your partner

[_Cathy_]

Yes of course he's still my ex. Kaya lang I couldn't help but update him with all the things that happened to me in the 3 weeks that he didn't call. The daily diary thing is what killed me the most during the time that we weren't talking.

I also told him that I met up with my classmate (who's been asking me out since 2003) last Christmas and he didn't sound jealous at all.

Why should I be thankful that he called?

[uls]

so your ex becoming an ex-ex is out of the question?

[_Cathy_]

I don't think it's going to work out as a bf-gf thing anymore. I resent the fact that I'm working and he's not.

[ghosthunter]

I don't think it's going to work out as a bf-gf thing anymore. I resent the fact that I'm working and he's not.

And did that topic come up? ... "The ex-bf is still your ex-bf" kind of thing during your conversation with him? IF not, he might be thinking you guys might be on your way back being together. :lovehug:

[_Cathy_]

No. But I told him about my new plan for life and he's not included anymore.

[uls]

wow... ice queen

cool

[ghosthunter]

No. But I told him about my new plan for life and he's not included anymore.

wow... that's cold. :luvmenot:

And how did he react (if at all)? Did he get your meaning when you didn't include him in your lifeplan?

[_Cathy_]

I thought that was a subtle way of telling him that we can't get back together anymore.

[uls]

what if he finally gets a job?

would it change your mind?

[ghosthunter]

I thought that was a subtle way of telling him that we can't get back together anymore.

Maybe it was too subtle that he didnt get it. Did he show any signs of "getting it"?

[ghosthunter]

what if he finally gets a job?

would it change your mind?

It's not just a matter of getting a job. It's also a matter of keeping it for more than a week or so.

[_Cathy_]

^Exactly. I don't want to take the risk of him suddenly deciding that he doesn't want to work anymore like he did more than 10 years ago. I have to make sure that he is serious about earning a living. The problem with him is that he is contented with just eating thrice a day and working out 2 hours a day. But that can't send his children to the best schools naman.

[_Cathy_]

Maybe it was too subtle that he didnt get it. Did he show any signs of "getting it"?

I think he did. I was talking about marriage in 3rd person eh

[uls]

^Exactly. I don't want to take the risk of him suddenly deciding that he doesn't want to work anymore like he did more than 10 years ago. I have to make sure that he is serious about earning a living. The problem with him is that he is contented with just eating thrice a day and working out 2 hours a day. But that can't send his children to the best schools naman.

may goal ba sya sa pag workout nya?

sasali ba sya sa bikini open?

[vito corleone]

No. But I told him about my new plan for life and he's not included anymore.

go girl!

:congrats:

this thread should be renamed "telling the truth to your ex partner" hehhe

[_Cathy_]

may goal ba sya sa pag workout nya?

sasali ba sya sa bikini open?

I guess his body is the only aspect in his life which he has complete control of.

Ang hina pa kumain (which really offends me). I like a man who could really eat.

[actor21]

I guess his body is the only aspect in his life which he has complete control of.

Ang hina pa kumain (which really offends me). I like a man who could really eat.

ako malakas kumain hehehehe pero payat

[woohoo]

I guess his body is the only aspect in his life which he has complete control of.

Ang hina pa kumain (which really offends me). I like a man who could really eat.

Ooooooh.... :naughty2:

[pancho 5]

are you gonna fall for him again now that he's back in the picture? c'mon, with all those negative traits, you are so entitled to choose a more deserving guy.. (unless you can't let go of the body? hehe) let "ex" be ex! it's "Y" time!

[chua_riwap]

you should have told him GH is askin' you out. that'll make him so jealous

He-he! General, ikaw ha.......