MEN: Social Class and Education NOT a Factor in Choosing a GF/Wife?

[_Cathy_]

Young Luke Espiritu is just about my type physically. Pero pag nalaman kong law student sa Ateneo I'd be like "why is this guy talking to me?" HAHAHA. Attachment 41192Attachment 41193

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Oh my! Ang alpha talaga ng aura niya, looks like a bad boy here! I think my ovaries exploded LOL

I hate facial hair but it looks good on him. Physically he is opposite of my type, pero ganun kalakas s3x appeal niya

[bloowolf]

If you’re a single lady in your late 30s or early 40s, halos limited na dating or marrying options mo. Baka sobra ka mapili na Di ka naman madating sa iba.

Unless of course your like Son Ye Jin who happen to get a big hunk like Hyun Bin.

Baka maging bitter ka lang and trapped in your fantasies. May ibang friends yung misis ko na ganyan. Good luck finding your dream guy!


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Tawag namin dyan “naiwan ng last trip[emoji16]”


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[_Cathy_]

"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about"

Hindi niyo alam trauma ng mga tao kaya baka single.

[misseksaherada]

Yung friends ko na gaya mo, tinatanong ko kung open silang mag adopt.ikaw ba? Your thoughts on adopting?

Yup, ok lang sakin.. Yung parents ko inu-open na yung topic sakin.. 1-2 years, baka mag-adopt na ako..
Kung loloobin, sana may bahay na ako nun if not baka atrasado pa din yung sa adoption.. Gusto ko kasi new environment, ayaw ko dito sa bahay namin mainit yung kusina hindi ako nagluluto dito.. [emoji23] And walang dedicated na kwarto para sa bata hindi ako makakapag child proof set up dito..

[Little Missy]

People can be so unkind talaga

Yaan mo lang sila. [emoji4]

I remember nung inaway ako nung misis ng ex ko, sabi niya to insult me "wala ka kasing pamilya" pertaining to me being single and childless. As if naman I would get insulted. Sa sarili ko lang I'm like "kung tulad mo naman na may asawa't anak nga hindi naman makatulog sa gabi sa kakaselos, lahat ng babae dito inaaway, hindi na lang". Marunong pa sa may katawan. Sila ba makikisama, magpapakain at magpapalaki ng anak? [emoji12]

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[_Cathy_]

Yup, ok lang sakin.. Yung parents ko inu-open na yung topic sakin.. 1-2 years, baka mag-adopt na ako..
Kung loloobin, sana may bahay na ako nun if not baka atrasado pa din yung sa adoption.. Gusto ko kasi new environment, ayaw ko dito sa bahay namin mainit yung kusina hindi ako nagluluto dito.. [emoji23] And walang dedicated na kwarto para sa bata hindi ako makakapag child proof set up dito..

Sobrang pressure for us kasi wala tayong heir. I hope to God magka anak pa ko kahit mahal at mahirap mag IVF pero WCS kung hindi ko magka anak, sana widower maging asawa ko para adopt ko anak niya. I will NOT let my evil ex SIL get my shares

Pero minsan iniisip ko baka naman kaya wala akong anak kasi hindi ako aabot ng old age kasi bihira old age sa side ng Dad ko.

[misseksaherada]

Yaan mo lang sila. [emoji4]

"wala ka kasing pamilya" pertaining to me being single and childless. As if naman I would get insulted.

Bakit nga ganun noh? Parang feeling ng mga may asawa at anak na parang mas nakakataas sila sa mga single..
Tapos kung ang single ay babae parang mas lalong awang-awa sila.. Ang saya kaya maging single.. Hindi ko na kailangan ipaliwanag, maiintindihan ako ng kapwa ko single.. [emoji23]
Hindi na lang din ako nagpapa-apekto sa ganyan.. At the end of the day, iba-iba pa din tayo ng goal sa buhay at magkakaiba din tayo ng definition ng success..

[_Cathy_]

Yaan mo lang sila. [emoji4]

I remember nung inaway ako nung misis ng ex ko, sabi niya to insult me "wala ka kasing pamilya" pertaining to me being single and childless. As if naman I would get insulted. Sa sarili ko lang I'm like "kung tulad mo naman na may asawa't anak nga hindi naman makatulog sa gabi sa kakaselos, lahat ng babae dito inaaway, hindi na lang". Marunong pa sa may katawan. Sila ba makikisama, magpapakain at magpapalaki ng anak? [emoji12]

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You remind me of Justice RVG, ang galing sa comeback LOL Being single is used as an insult na nga. Not all married people are happy naman, e I know first hand among my family and friends, loveless marriages, they only stay together because of the finances or the children. Straight from the horse's mouth yan.

Also, for some people it's easy to be in a relationship and get married. Napagusapan din naman ng friends ko yan. Naalala ko yung guy friend ko told me marriage is a lottery, take the risk. Pero I can't e. Like my 5 yr ex na jobless, he told me if we get married and have children baka yun na ang maging motivation niya to work, paano kung hindi??? Mag isa ko bubuhayin mga anak namin? Parents niya bubuhay samin? Though for some girls okay lang na sila breadwinner, not for me, I need a partner not a burden.

Bakit nga ganun noh? Parang feeling ng mga may asawa at anak na parang mas nakakataas sila sa mga single..
Tapos kung ang single ay babae parang mas lalong awang-awa sila.. Ang saya kaya maging single.. Hindi ko na kailangan ipaliwanag, maiintindihan ako ng kapwa ko single.. [emoji23]
Hindi na lang din ako nagpapa-apekto sa ganyan.. At the end of the day, iba-iba pa din tayo ng goal sa buhay at magkakaiba din tayo ng definition ng success..

sa Headquarters namin sa Germany naging issue yung mga may anak gusto nila sila priority sa VL, like they get the best dates/holidays, may single ako na colleague nag escalate siya sa Director na unfair daw na pag single parating mga latak dates ang nakukuha hahaha.

Pero mas worse ang mga pinoy sa panlalait at pag question ng mga single. Ako nga pati caretaker ng kapitbahay namin, guard sa building sa office, suki sa palengke, I always get told na mag asawa na. I don't take offense because I know they mean well pero sa west hindi pwede mga ganyan na comments hehe

[misseksaherada]

Sobrang pressure for us kasi wala tayong heir. I hope to God magka anak pa ko kahit mahal at mahirap mag IVF pero WCS kung hindi ko magka anak, sana widower maging asawa ko para adopt ko anak niya. I will NOT let my evil ex SIL get my shares

Pero minsan iniisip ko baka naman kaya wala akong anak kasi hindi ako aabot ng old age kasi bihira old age sa side ng Dad ko.

Yan din sabi ng friend ko, kung paano na daw yung mga pinaghirapan ko.. Mapupunta daw sa kamag-anak, kung iisipin ko yun bad trip nga!! Ako nagpakahirap tapos iba ang makikinabang..
Pero sa panahon natin, madami naman paraan/solution ngayon, mamili na lang based sa mga concerns and conditions..
Yung daily life na masaya ka, hindi ko ipagpapalit yun sa bad marriage life.. Ok lang late mag-asawa, mas mature na mag-isip, mahaba na ang pang-unawa at ang pasensya..

[papi smith]

Sarap ng problema nyo, walang tagapagmana, ako iniisip ko kung may maipamamana ba kami.

[_Cathy_]

Yan din sabi ng friend ko, kung paano na daw yung mga pinaghirapan ko.. Mapupunta daw sa kamag-anak, kung iisipin ko yun bad trip nga!! Ako nagpakahirap tapos iba ang makikinabang..
Pero sa panahon natin, madami naman paraan/solution ngayon, mamili na lang based sa mga concerns and conditions..
Yung daily life na masaya ka, hindi ko ipagpapalit yun sa bad marriage life.. Ok lang late mag-asawa, mas mature na mag-isip, mahaba na ang pang-unawa at ang pasensya..

Yup in my case we are not in good terms pa sa next heir if I don't get married or have children.

Sarap ng problema nyo, walang tagapagmana, ako iniisip ko kung may maipamamana ba kami.

You're too modest naman, at the minimum, your family home.

[dr. d]

Yan din sabi ng friend ko, kung paano na daw yung mga pinaghirapan ko.. Mapupunta daw sa kamag-anak, kung iisipin ko yun bad trip nga!! Ako nagpakahirap tapos iba ang makikinabang..
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sell it all!
then enjoy the money.

[_Cathy_]

My friend gave me shocking news that he's getting married. He doesn't even know where she went for HS! Though I guess he can't be picky too because he didn't get to finish college.

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[uls]

baka maganda

hehe

[viper888]

Reminds me of my friend who is seriously dating this girl he met in bumble

Doesnt know where she graduated HS either and name of the the College was "starts with St."

I think its a bit of elitist question to ask but what are friends for

[_Cathy_]

baka maganda

hehe

she's average saka 39 na may braces pa Seriously, she stuck around with an on and off "relationship" or whatever you call it for 12 years. He never even told me about her and I said I am glad I never dated him so that would have made me the side chick LOL. My friend is problematic kasi (daming bisyo) so the girl deserves a medal for that. I don't even want to add him on FB because I was afraid he would go psycho on my wall (like he used to when I ignore him) I am a magnet for these types of men.

Reminds me of my friend who is seriously dating this girl he met in bumble

Doesnt know where she graduated HS either and name of the the College was "starts with St."

I think its a bit of elitist question to ask but what are friends for

St Scho? St Paul? Those are good schools naman There are some kasi na their parents don't want them to go coed for college

You mean I was being elitist or you were with your friend? LOL I think it's one of the standard (?) questions when learning about a new person (full name, school, work, address, province etc) It's like the dating app matches of my Paulinian friend, she didn't grow up in Manila so she'd always tell me about these guys and see if we have people in common. If you find someone in common kasi you're more comfortable or the person becomes familiar or safe na.

I used to dismiss bumble and think na there's nobody matino there. The one guy that my Paulinian friend matched with, based on his FB profile, I think he's a good catch (minus the height and receding hairline) Sayang my friend wasn't able to secure him LOL.

[dr. d]

[QUOTE=_Cathy_;3326174]she's average saka 39 na may braces pa QUOTE]

a dentist friend told me,
"teeth have memory. if you correct your teeth with braces, then later remove the braces, the teeth will gradually revert to their original form."
one has to brace them from time to time, daw.

[dr. d]

Reminds me of my friend who is seriously dating this girl he met in bumble

Doesnt know where she graduated HS either and name of the the College was "starts with St."

I think its a bit of elitist question to ask but what are friends for

c'mon!
who wouldn't resist doing some research on such an interesting subject, for one's friends!
what with internet...

you should try doing that 40 years ago,
when all we had was the friend of a friend of a friend of one's cousin...

heh heh.

btw,
a school personality known for making school life more memorable for us,
ended up marrying my spouse's nth cousin.
small world.

[viper888]

she's average saka 39 na may braces pa Seriously, she stuck around with an on and off "relationship" or whatever you call it for 12 years. He never even told me about her and I said I am glad I never dated him so that would have made me the side chick LOL. My friend is problematic kasi (daming bisyo) so the girl deserves a medal for that. I don't even want to add him on FB because I was afraid he would go psycho on my wall (like he used to when I ignore him) I am a magnet for these types of men.



St Scho? St Paul? Those are good schools naman There are some kasi na their parents don't want them to go coed for college

You mean I was being elitist or you were with your friend? LOL I think it's one of the standard (?) questions when learning about a new person (full name, school, work, address, province etc) It's like the dating app matches of my Paulinian friend, she didn't grow up in Manila so she'd always tell me about these guys and see if we have people in common. If you find someone in common kasi you're more comfortable or the person becomes familiar or safe na.

I used to dismiss bumble and think na there's nobody matino there. The one guy that my Paulinian friend matched with, based on his FB profile, I think he's a good catch (minus the height and receding hairline) Sayang my friend wasn't able to secure him LOL.

I thought I was being a bit elitist Because we keep joking on why his standards are falling hehe

[_Cathy_]

Ang weird din ng guys, so I made a new friend sa bumble (true green) and I told him the story why I joined was to relate to my friend, find out the quality of men there and why she has not gotten a date. He asked for my friend's profile and I said she swipes DLSU and ADMU. True green medyo harsh ang reaction napacuss and said why DLSU and ADMU lang. LOL Honestly, true green does NOT like my friend based on my kwento, I told him her reaction kasi when I joined bumble and he said I should watch Clueless

True green is so good looking (SAW ON VC), well spoken and nice job. We also worked in the same company as our first job (salisi kami) He has more red flags than a Chinese communist parade though LOL. Mina match ko kay friend pero ayaw niya looks saka bakla magasalita

Naalala ko rin si viper and his kwento about them teasing their friend na dated a non top school. True green told me something similar na his friends made fun of him when he dated a girl na "di marunong mag English" Of course that's an exaggeration na di marunong