MEN: Social Class and Education NOT a Factor in Choosing a GF/Wife?

[dr. d]

I asked true green and true blue what made them swipe me. I deleted my bumble na so I can't ask others anymore.

They are not to particular with the school. It seems like pic and profile in general. So my friend can get Atenean and Lasallite pa rin

True Green he liked na I don't know what I am looking for. Kasi I didn't really sign up naman talaga to find men there. May stereotype pa rin ako with people in dating apps kasi

True Green







True Blue

"he's fishing for a fish. don't care what type, basta fish."

[_Cathy_]

But why would they swipe her pic if they don't find her attractive?

*dr d, these men also have standards because they read the profile. The Atenean said he is particular with subject verb agreement (pareho kami) but not so much with the school

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[dr. d]

But why would they swipe her pic if they don't find her attractive?

*dr d, these men also have standards because they read the profile. The Atenean said he is particular with subject verb agreement (pareho kami) but not so much with the school

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good luck, then.

[uls]

profile pic good enough to get a few swipes but there's something wrong with her personality coz she can't keep men interested

men not even asking her to meet up

[uls]

which makes me go back to looks

if a woman is good looking enough kahit may konting problema sa personality gusto parin ma-meet ng lalake

unless she's not good looking enough and the personality flaw made it worse

kaya wala nagyaya mag meet

[dr. d]

profile pic good enough to get a few swipes but there's something wrong with her personality coz she can't keep men interested

men not even asking her to meet up

something men notice but women do not...

[uls]

something men notice but women do not...

nakakatawa nga when women are advising women pagdating sa lalake

[_Cathy_]

That's the mystery nga why can't she keep men interested. I don't get it at all.

Yung atenean with runway bride, she showed me the convos, he even said that she sounds like the ideal partner pero nawala na din. I thought he would ask for a meet up but IIRC he met with a female lawyer first, baka yun ang nagustuhan. Theory ng friend ko maybe he chose the lawyer kasi mas trophy

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[uls]

she's boring

[viper888]

Another angle

Does your friend have any close male friends? Non-romantic friends that she would have met early on in life

[_Cathy_]

Another angle

Does your friend have any close male friends? Non-romantic friends that she would have met early on in life

I don't think so. There is one guy at work but everyone thinks that guy is gay.

She went to a coed school for college though she said she was never ligawin. The first guy that courted her sinagot niya and they were together 10 yrs. She's single since they broke up several years ago. Sobrang date down ginawa niya with that ex.

She also didn't go on nights out or parties in college, up until in her 30s she isn't the type to party kaya she didn't meet a lot of guys.

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[viper888]

I don't think so. There is one guy at work but everyone thinks that guy is gay.

She went to a coed school for college though she said she was never ligawin. The first guy that courted her sinagot niya and they were together 10 yrs. She's single since they broke up several years ago. Sobrang date down ginawa niya with that ex.

She also didn't go on nights out or parties in college, up until in her 30s she isn't the type to party kaya she didn't meet a lot of guys.

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I think she just doesnt know how to keep a guy interested in a conversation, which makes her boring

[uls]

but she has a good heart and maalaga siya

hehe

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wala kasi ka-landi-landi ung girl

and don't tell me "turuan natin lumandi"

at 38??

kung hindi niya nature yan huwag na pilitin

kasi katawa tawa ang magiging resulta niyan

[_Cathy_]

bakit daw ako lapitin ng "yayamanin", "atenista/la sallista". Dapat ba POOR, non top school, and/or PANGIT ang lumalapit sakin It was true green that made me realize that, why should she even be asking that question. Kaya napaisip ako, oo nga no?

My friend did it again and I am getting so irritated already. She asks me about guys and then she'd comment na "lapitin ka talaga ng Atenista/Lasallista" (at bakit siya hindi?) She didn't even care about schools before we became close One factor I think was she was NOT able to build her network in hs/college and early 20s since she didn't go out naman. I can't say because she did not come from a top school because top schools go out with other schools.

AGAIN, What kind of men does she expect me to be around with? I don't get it at all. If she mentions this one more time I will tell her that na.

[viper888]

My friend did it again and I am getting so irritated already. She asks me about guys and then she'd comment na "lapitin ka talaga ng Atenista/Lasallista" (at bakit siya hindi?) She didn't even care about schools before we became close One factor I think was she was NOT able to build her network in hs/college and early 20s since she didn't go out naman. I can't say because she did not come from a top school because top schools go out with other schools.

AGAIN, What kind of men does she expect me to be around with? I don't get it at all. If she mentions this one more time I will tell her that na.

Is this He Huang but not funny? She is probably just jealous. People simply hang out with other people they relate too

[uls]

Is this He Huang but not funny? She is probably just jealous. People simply hang out with other people they relate too

haha yes the boring he huang and bakla mag salita

pano siya magiging type ng top school guys

[uls]

pero huwag malawan ng pag asa

makakahanap ng asawa yan

hwaiting!

[_Cathy_]

Is this He Huang but not funny? She is probably just jealous. People simply hang out with other people they relate too

Yes that's her. True Green said the same but I am in denial because I want nothing but the best for her.

Sometimes it's really hard to be friends with women. I even backed her up to get promoted and told my boss to give good feedback to her boss (aside from mine)

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[_Cathy_]

Just to add, minsan mahirap kausap friend ko because I always have to explain things Familiarity breeds contempt na ata because we are chatting almost everyday since the pandemic.

Last night I told her I was impressed that True Blue asked me for afternoon tea and then she thought it was literally just drink tea in the afternoon (well sort of) so bakit ako na impress. I had to explain IMO it's kinda fancy for a first meet up, which places offer it, what is served and the nice plates etc

[viper888]

Just to add, minsan mahirap kausap friend ko because I always have to explain things Familiarity breeds contempt na ata because we are chatting almost everyday since the pandemic.

Last night I told her I was impressed that True Blue asked me for afternoon tea and then she thought it was literally just drink tea in the afternoon (well sort of) so bakit ako na impress. I had to explain IMO it's kinda fancy for a first meet up, which places offer it, what is served and the nice plates etc

If you wanna teach her, take her to afternoon Tea. A place like TWG for example. The place is usually full of Titas anyway