MEN: Social Class and Education NOT a Factor in Choosing a GF/Wife?

[uls]

doc:

it is sometimes not the background, but how one comports his/herself.

yes madami naman relationships nag form from serendipity

pero sa dating market (specially when looking for a mate online) many people look at a person's specs before meeting the person

it's like shopping for a phone specs tinitingnan

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kahit sa match-making

like you wanna introduce a female friend to a guy, tatanongin sayo ng girl "what does he do? where did he graduate from?"

it's that important

[dr. d]

doc:


yes madami naman relationships nag form from serendipity

pero sa dating market (specially when looking for a mate online) many people look at a person's specs before meeting the person

it's like shopping for a phone specs tinitingnan

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kahit sa match-making

like you wanna introduce a female friend to a guy, tatanongin sayo ng girl "what does he do? where did he graduate from?"

it's that important

"programmed matching" versus professional or educational geographic matching versus chance happenstance matching.

mas madali makahanap ng spouse sa escuela or opis.
at least doon, they already share some interest, they already know a bit of something about the other, they are more or less on the same societal floor, and they are already physically close to each other.
" 'wag ka lang pipili nang gf na nakatira sa boondocks. mahal gasolina. "
heh heh. jok po.

[_Cathy_]

may kilala ulit kami,
another couple.
the girl married below her class,
the guy married above.
while the girl was comfortable in her state, the guy was not comfortable all the time.
that love conquers all, may not exactly be true all the time.

That's why my elders from both my Dad and Mom's side told us it's important to marry within our class. Marriage is hard enough, choose the least amount of complications.

My cousin's long time GF is rich, industrialist lolo level. My Lola told my cousin our family would look kawawa when they get married since lalaki samin yet yung babae ang angat na angat financially. Though my cousin grew up in a country club environment, his then GF was on a whole different level lang talaga. Kaya hindi pasado sa lola ko yung GF among other factors such as not Roman Catholic. Being rich is not always a plus point, not everyone is impressed by money, it could be a negative pa nga.

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[uls]

"programmed matching" versus professional or educational geographic matching versus chance happenstance matching.

kaya may topic na "top school"

coz both men and women use school to narrow down their mate choices

to filter out people they don't wanna date

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coz of their strict criteria i think they may be missing out on a lot of people who may be good partners

pero yan ang gusto nila eh

[dr. d]

kaya may topic na "top school"

coz both men and women use school to narrow down their mate choices

to filter out people they don't wanna date

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coz of their strict criteria i think they may be missing out on a lot of people who may be good partners

pero yan ang gusto nila eh

"safe bet" versus "luck of the lottery".
the choice is not difficult.

kahit hindi "top school".
vasta may good idea kung ano ang pagkatao ng nilalang.

[kagalingan]

paano kung top school kaso sobra flat chested as in "back to back" or in tagalog utong-agad. Paano na secxually?

Hindi na pwede tawagin lamas. Its lapirut

[uls]

mas madali makahanap ng spouse sa escuela or opis.
at least doon, they already share some interest, they already know a bit of something about the other, they are more or less on the same societal floor, and they are already physically close to each other.
" 'wag ka lang pipili nang gf na nakatira sa boondocks. mahal gasolina. "
heh heh. jok po.

yes doc i've come across data that shows couples who met at work have the highest relationship success (or lowest relationship failure rate)

tama ung sinabi mo -- someone you see / interact with everyday at work makikilala mo ng husto

and you'd see them in their good days and bad days

bago mo pa makarelasyon kilalang kilala mo na

[uls]

kahit hindi "top school".
vasta may good idea kung ano ang pagkatao ng nilalang.

i mean pag class AB gusto lang class AB ang maka-date they use "top school" to filter out the non-ABs

[_Cathy_]

Hindi naman porque top school automatic maganda background. What if anak ng japayuki or starlet kaya nakapag aral sa top school? I'm not gonna apologize but that is not a good way to earn money. Lalo na ngayon daming new money sa internet with social media. For example, who wants Toni Fowler as an in law, there is always drama.

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[uls]

paano kung top school kaso sobra flat chested as in "back to back" or in tagalog utong-agad. Paano na secxually?

Hindi na pwede tawagin lamas. Its lapirut

well for men who aren't open to meeting women from lower social class, meron naman boobsie galing top school

hanap hanap lang

[_Cathy_]

I'm sure we all went through this, standard question ng parents when making conversation with a new person their son or daughter is dating

1. Where do you live
2. Where do you study or work
3. What is your Surname
4. Where is your Province
5. What do your parents do

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[uls]

ginagawang lang filter ang school pero di ibig sabihin papatulan agad

kung may nakilala taga top school pero bakla magsalita e di huwag i-date

[uls]

a filter saves you the trouble of meeting a whole lot of people you wouldn't entertain in the first place

but it doesn't find you THE ONE agad

syempre you still have to get to know the people who the filter allowed in

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like sa shopping site click mo mga filter like brand, color, etc

para ma-narrow down mga choices

[kagalingan]

well for men who aren't open to meeting women from lower social class, meron naman boobsie galing top school

hanap hanap lang

madalang.

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cathey pag lalake bihira ganyan qualification. Usually ano vital statistics.

Dami may pera lalake ang inasawa maganda katawan pero bakla magsalita. Naulol sa libog.

[_Cathy_]

madalang.

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cathey pag lalake bihira ganyan qualification. Usually ano vital statistics.

Dami may pera lalake ang inasawa maganda katawan pero bakla magsalita. Naulol sa libog.

What classification?

Parang Dingdong and Marian. 100% of my friends and family, couldn't wrap their heads around that. Even my Paulinian friend who uses gay lingo thinks Marian is palengkera [emoji23]

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[uls]

Dami may pera lalake ang inasawa maganda katawan pero bakla magsalita. Naulol sa libog.

kabit mga yun

ung legit wife top school

haha

[kagalingan]

cathey,

yung binanggit mo criteria. Ang dami foreigner, filam, yung mga pinoy na english sa bahay nung bata pero inasawa starletspeaking pero ganda katawan.

Ang term ko jan naulol sa libog.

[_Cathy_]

cathey,

yung binanggit mo criteria. Ang dami foreigner, filam, yung mga pinoy na english sa bahay nung bata pero inasawa starletspeaking pero ganda katawan.

Ang term ko jan naulol sa libog.

Hindi ko criteria yan, sa lawyer friend ko and his friends. Pero marami ako friends na guys ayaw din sa bakla magsalita

Mga foreigner na pumapatol sa starlet mga bottom of the barrel yan sa ibang bansa kaya dito naghahanap. My lawyer friend just mentioned that din. Samin mga expats namin bihira pumatol sa pinay, puro mga blonde and blue eyed wives. May isa may pinay GF pero model (na tunay) at well off family daw sa Cebu

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[kagalingan]

If the purpose of marriage eh secxual watch out hindi kayo masasatisfy.

cathey tingnan mo nangyayari sa mundo wag fantasy too prim & proper.

Yung mga nag-asawa ng top school eventually mangabit yan ng starlet to fullfill secxual needs.

so cut the chase magpakatotoo hahaha!!!!!

[_Cathy_]

If the purpose of marriage eh secxual watch out hindi kayo masasatisfy.

cathey tingnan mo nangyayari sa mundo wag fantasy too prim & proper.

Yung mga nag-asawa ng top school eventually mangabit yan ng starlet to fullfill secxual needs.

so cut the chase magpakatotoo hahaha!!!!!

It's not s3xual, I told my lawyer friend I am not comfortable dating because of my weight and he said it does not matter much pag gf, marami pang ibang factors. Yung naghahanap ng 36 24 36 kasi pang s3x nga. Sweet din naman si Atty. Saka bakit si SO kahit mataba na ko, he didn't treat me different, though he wants me to lose weight for health reasons.

Saka bakit napunta sakin e hindi naman ako may criteria niyan na turn off pag hindi well spoken, yung lawyer friend ko and his friends. Aminado naman siya nag s3x sila ng starlet nung kabataan nila pero never na GF. True enough naman ang taas ng specs ng ex niya, he's a lawyer and she's a doctor.

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