MEN: Social Class and Education NOT a Factor in Choosing a GF/Wife?

[shadow]

Behaviorist ka na rin pareho ni Kags?


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[_Cathy_]

Behaviorist ka na rin pareho ni Kags?


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Hahaha. I uninstalled the app na. My friend has been there 2 yrs and she talks about it a lot so I had to see for myself. I'll make a longer post on my observations.

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[Ry_Tower]

baka maganda

hehe

Or hot or magaling....

[babkalakal]

Or hot or magaling....

magaling saan? sa math? hehe

[dr. d]

Or hot or magaling....

magaling sa kagalingan.
heh heh.

[Ry_Tower]

Hahaha....

[_Cathy_]

I want to know what guys think about this.

My friend keeps on telling me OVER and OVER again that the guys I date are high quality. I am in NO WAY HUMBLE BRAGGING. It took me several days if I should post this. Too many receipts/screenshots of her saying this. She made me her "mentor" because she likes the quality of guys I dated but I told her I am the wrong person because none of my relationships are a success.

So I joined the app (to relate to her) and in less than 24 hrs I matched with true green and true blue. Mind blown siya how that happened. She told me she has been there 2 yrs and never got asked on a date. I had no intention to meet anyone, 100% bonus lang si True Green and True Blue. I deleted the app already even if she told me to give it a week as she wanted me to show her my app when we see each other. I think 1 out of 10 lang okay there, and I also experienced ghosting by the most guapo guy I matched with there LOL!

Here's the issue, bakit daw ako lapitin ng "yayamanin", "atenista/la sallista". Dapat ba POOR, non top school, and/or PANGIT ang lumalapit sakin It was true green that made me realize that, why should she even be asking that question. Kaya napaisip ako, oo nga no?

This statement of my friend na I felt was sarcastic and so I asked True Green and he said it was definitely sarcastic

I still love her and I do think when she meets that guy who will take the time to get to know her, hindi na siya papakawalan. She's very maalaga.

[viper888]

I want to know what guys think about this.

My friend keeps on telling me OVER and OVER again that the guys I date are high quality. I am in NO WAY HUMBLE BRAGGING. It took me several days if I should post this. Too many receipts/screenshots of her saying this. She made me her "mentor" because she likes the quality of guys I dated but I told her I am the wrong person because none of my relationships are a success.

So I joined the app (to relate to her) and in less than 24 hrs I matched with true green and true blue. Mind blown siya how that happened. She told me she has been there 2 yrs and never got asked on a date. I had no intention to meet anyone, 100% bonus lang si True Green and True Blue. I deleted the app already even if she told me to give it a week as she wanted me to show her my app when we see each other. I think 1 out of 10 lang okay there, and I also experienced ghosting by the most guapo guy I matched with there LOL!

Here's the issue, bakit daw ako lapitin ng "yayamanin", "atenista/la sallista". Dapat ba POOR, non top school, and/or PANGIT ang lumalapit sakin It was true green that made me realize that, why should she even be asking that question. Kaya napaisip ako, oo nga no?

May isa pang statement friend ko na I felt was sarcastic and so I asked True Green and he said it was definitely sarcastic. Will look for it pa. I do think when she meets that guy who will take the time to get to know her, hindi na siya papakawalan.

Ask her where she stays frequently. Dating apps consider the location of the user in producing matches. The better the area, the better the matches. I have a friend who sometimes goes to Alabang to get matches since she thinks QC folk are all the same. Gas is also expensive, so some would put 10 or 20 km limits. (Yes,were that shallow). I have no idea how a friend of mine matched with someone in Bulacan, but his only excuse was gas was cheap and Skyway 3 was free.

It depends on the profile. Men also read You probably have a well written profile and she has a messy one. Or you chose not to write anything and she wrote a bunch of useless fillers no one wants to read.

New accounts get more matches because they "show up more" in the first 24 hours to entice the user to continue

[_Cathy_]

Ask her where she stays frequently. Dating apps consider the location of the user in producing matches. The better the area, the better the matches. I have a friend who sometimes goes to Alabang to get matches since she thinks QC folk are all the same. Gas is also expensive, so some would put 10 or 20 km limits. (Yes,were that shallow). I have no idea how a friend of mine matched with someone in Bulacan, but his only excuse was gas was cheap and Skyway 3 was free.

It depends on the profile. Men also read You probably have a well written profile and she has a messy one. Or you chose not to write anything and she wrote a bunch of useless fillers no one wants to read.

New accounts get more matches because they "show up more" in the first 24 hours to entice the user to continue

She's in the heart of BGC. Stone's throw away from One Bonifacio Mall. On weekends she's in the province just outside MM. Although I think her location range is wide. Mine is up to 60 kilometers but most of my matches are less than 10 km away.

You're right I did NOT write anything. I only filled in the required or those with choices. My friend also asked me how my profile looks so I took a SS. I have 2 photos and that's it

I may have lied a little about the job and smoking. It doesn't seem to matter naman pala to men that I am, as dr d would say "in between jobs". I quit smoking 10 yrs ago naman

[uls]

work banker, education post grad

syempre top school guys lang magiging curious sa ganyan

kaya blues and greens lang mag match

most men won't bother

most men would think such a woman would have very high standards

only blues and greens have the confidence

no brainer

[uls]

"may 1 na naman lalake waiting masaktan..."

why would her friend say that?

baka kwento niya RE:relationship history she's always the one who dumps/ghosts her boyfriends

kaya tingin sa kanya ng friend niya heartbreaker

[_Cathy_]

Wala ako sinabi heartbreaker ako pero aminado ako I was psycho when I was younger. Now I am matured (physically and emotionally) No reason for me to lie, what satisfaction will that give me. I don't even talk about my dating history with new friends pero siya ma interview. I have a box of all love letters/notes that I showed her. I treasure those more than gifts.

Here I told her true green is DLSZ from prep to HS then DLSU M for college. She said ang yaman ni true green. I said he's middle class. She said how could anyone studying in Zobel be middle class. I think mali yung notion na 100% ng nasa good schools e mayaman

Anyway, parang yung magka uri na word I find it derogatory.

True green also doesn't get her obsession with the background (I have tons more receipts but that's the recent)

True green said if he doesn't like the way a girl chats or talks, unmatch na siya. I am thinking what if we experiment na wag siya mag tagalog when talking to guys so she doesn't get to use gay speak.

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[shadow]

First off, why bother by your friend’s love life or lack of it? Parang nagiging kags ka na rin na pinoproblema yin hinde naman dapat.


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[uls]

dati ko pa sinasabi turn off sa top school guys ang babae gumgamit ng jolog words pero todo tanggol parin

"but if they get to know her they'll discover she has a good heart and is a nurturing woman"

well, sa chat palang turn off na how will guys even get to know her?

sa online dating andami choices

people make up their minds about someone in a few exchanges (parang speed dating)

pag di type move on agad to the next one

sino may patience makilala ung person behind the jolog speak

a process like that takes weeks

[uls]

even if she uses pure english sa chat and she is able to maintain a guy's interest for more than a few days, eventually mag uusap sila verbally and her jolog speak will come out

good luck

[kagalingan]

tsikoteers,

ano kwenta ng dayting eh puro kayo image. Kung wala C.I.M or SWALLOW eh walang kwenta mga ginagawa nyo. Manuod na lang kayo ng p0rno hahahah!!!!

topschool puro image lang not productive mga ngah-ngah this pandemic.

may isa pa ako favorite na nacoined "may pera pero pahtay"

[_Cathy_]

First off, why bother by your friend’s love life or lack of it? Parang nagiging kags ka na rin na pinoproblema yin hinde naman dapat.


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Kasi ako ginagawa niya mentor. Tulungan ko daw siya to get guys to like her. Pressured naman ako. I do think she deserves a great guy.

I think she sees kasi sa office puro boys barkada ko and I am close with my German bosses and in her words, parati ako pinagbibigyan. Na reinforce pa when I joined bumble and matched with True Blue and True Green (they both asked me out on a date)

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[uls]

tsikoteers,

ano kwenta ng dayting eh puro kayo image. Kung wala C.I.M or SWALLOW eh walang kwenta mga ginagawa nyo. Manuod na lang kayo ng p0rno hahahah!!!!

topschool puro image lang not productive mga ngah-ngah this pandemic.

may isa pa ako favorite na nacoined "may pera pero pahtay"

mag download ka ng bumble

gawa ka babaeng profile

lagay mo banker ka and post grad

sigurado top school guys din ma-attract mo

[uls]

pag gusto niyo naman maka attract ng lalake katulad ni kagalingan

ilagay sa profile work NONE

education SOME COLLEGE

kids 2

haha

[viper888]

She sounds a bit frustrated but "gay linggo" is a turn off. I think she has a bad concept of the average person who came from a "top school". I mean a lot of us (us is used loosely since I came from the worst of the group) are in the middle class.

For example, she doesnt understand that those who came from DLSZ can be middle class, but most students are IMO since they attract a lot of students from around Muntinlupa and surrounding areas. A lot go to school in a school bus. Same with other schools.

I think she put the idea of "true green" or "true blue" in a pedestal and it sort of ruins the way she approaches and talks to men