MEN: Social Class and Education NOT a Factor in Choosing a GF/Wife?

[papi smith]

Sarap ng problema nyo, walang tagapagmana, ako iniisip ko kung may maipamamana ba kami.

[_Cathy_]

Yan din sabi ng friend ko, kung paano na daw yung mga pinaghirapan ko.. Mapupunta daw sa kamag-anak, kung iisipin ko yun bad trip nga!! Ako nagpakahirap tapos iba ang makikinabang..
Pero sa panahon natin, madami naman paraan/solution ngayon, mamili na lang based sa mga concerns and conditions..
Yung daily life na masaya ka, hindi ko ipagpapalit yun sa bad marriage life.. Ok lang late mag-asawa, mas mature na mag-isip, mahaba na ang pang-unawa at ang pasensya..

Yup in my case we are not in good terms pa sa next heir if I don't get married or have children.

Sarap ng problema nyo, walang tagapagmana, ako iniisip ko kung may maipamamana ba kami.

You're too modest naman, at the minimum, your family home.

[_Cathy_]

My friend gave me shocking news that he's getting married. He doesn't even know where she went for HS! Though I guess he can't be picky too because he didn't get to finish college.

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[uls]

baka maganda

hehe

[viper888]

Reminds me of my friend who is seriously dating this girl he met in bumble

Doesnt know where she graduated HS either and name of the the College was "starts with St."

I think its a bit of elitist question to ask but what are friends for

[_Cathy_]

baka maganda

hehe

she's average saka 39 na may braces pa Seriously, she stuck around with an on and off "relationship" or whatever you call it for 12 years. He never even told me about her and I said I am glad I never dated him so that would have made me the side chick LOL. My friend is problematic kasi (daming bisyo) so the girl deserves a medal for that. I don't even want to add him on FB because I was afraid he would go psycho on my wall (like he used to when I ignore him) I am a magnet for these types of men.

Reminds me of my friend who is seriously dating this girl he met in bumble

Doesnt know where she graduated HS either and name of the the College was "starts with St."

I think its a bit of elitist question to ask but what are friends for

St Scho? St Paul? Those are good schools naman There are some kasi na their parents don't want them to go coed for college

You mean I was being elitist or you were with your friend? LOL I think it's one of the standard (?) questions when learning about a new person (full name, school, work, address, province etc) It's like the dating app matches of my Paulinian friend, she didn't grow up in Manila so she'd always tell me about these guys and see if we have people in common. If you find someone in common kasi you're more comfortable or the person becomes familiar or safe na.

I used to dismiss bumble and think na there's nobody matino there. The one guy that my Paulinian friend matched with, based on his FB profile, I think he's a good catch (minus the height and receding hairline) Sayang my friend wasn't able to secure him LOL.

[dr. d]

[QUOTE=_Cathy_;3326174]she's average saka 39 na may braces pa QUOTE]

a dentist friend told me,
"teeth have memory. if you correct your teeth with braces, then later remove the braces, the teeth will gradually revert to their original form."
one has to brace them from time to time, daw.

[viper888]

she's average saka 39 na may braces pa Seriously, she stuck around with an on and off "relationship" or whatever you call it for 12 years. He never even told me about her and I said I am glad I never dated him so that would have made me the side chick LOL. My friend is problematic kasi (daming bisyo) so the girl deserves a medal for that. I don't even want to add him on FB because I was afraid he would go psycho on my wall (like he used to when I ignore him) I am a magnet for these types of men.



St Scho? St Paul? Those are good schools naman There are some kasi na their parents don't want them to go coed for college

You mean I was being elitist or you were with your friend? LOL I think it's one of the standard (?) questions when learning about a new person (full name, school, work, address, province etc) It's like the dating app matches of my Paulinian friend, she didn't grow up in Manila so she'd always tell me about these guys and see if we have people in common. If you find someone in common kasi you're more comfortable or the person becomes familiar or safe na.

I used to dismiss bumble and think na there's nobody matino there. The one guy that my Paulinian friend matched with, based on his FB profile, I think he's a good catch (minus the height and receding hairline) Sayang my friend wasn't able to secure him LOL.

I thought I was being a bit elitist Because we keep joking on why his standards are falling hehe

[dr. d]

Reminds me of my friend who is seriously dating this girl he met in bumble

Doesnt know where she graduated HS either and name of the the College was "starts with St."

I think its a bit of elitist question to ask but what are friends for

c'mon!
who wouldn't resist doing some research on such an interesting subject, for one's friends!
what with internet...

you should try doing that 40 years ago,
when all we had was the friend of a friend of a friend of one's cousin...

heh heh.

btw,
a school personality known for making school life more memorable for us,
ended up marrying my spouse's nth cousin.
small world.

[Ry_Tower]

baka maganda

hehe

Or hot or magaling....

[babkalakal]

Or hot or magaling....

magaling saan? sa math? hehe

[dr. d]

Or hot or magaling....

magaling sa kagalingan.
heh heh.

[Ry_Tower]

Hahaha....

[_Cathy_]

I want to know what guys think about this.

My friend keeps on telling me OVER and OVER again that the guys I date are high quality. I am in NO WAY HUMBLE BRAGGING. It took me several days if I should post this. Too many receipts/screenshots of her saying this. She made me her "mentor" because she likes the quality of guys I dated but I told her I am the wrong person because none of my relationships are a success.

So I joined the app (to relate to her) and in less than 24 hrs I matched with true green and true blue. Mind blown siya how that happened. She told me she has been there 2 yrs and never got asked on a date. I had no intention to meet anyone, 100% bonus lang si True Green and True Blue. I deleted the app already even if she told me to give it a week as she wanted me to show her my app when we see each other. I think 1 out of 10 lang okay there, and I also experienced ghosting by the most guapo guy I matched with there LOL!

Here's the issue, bakit daw ako lapitin ng "yayamanin", "atenista/la sallista". Dapat ba POOR, non top school, and/or PANGIT ang lumalapit sakin It was true green that made me realize that, why should she even be asking that question. Kaya napaisip ako, oo nga no?

This statement of my friend na I felt was sarcastic and so I asked True Green and he said it was definitely sarcastic

I still love her and I do think when she meets that guy who will take the time to get to know her, hindi na siya papakawalan. She's very maalaga.

[viper888]

I want to know what guys think about this.

My friend keeps on telling me OVER and OVER again that the guys I date are high quality. I am in NO WAY HUMBLE BRAGGING. It took me several days if I should post this. Too many receipts/screenshots of her saying this. She made me her "mentor" because she likes the quality of guys I dated but I told her I am the wrong person because none of my relationships are a success.

So I joined the app (to relate to her) and in less than 24 hrs I matched with true green and true blue. Mind blown siya how that happened. She told me she has been there 2 yrs and never got asked on a date. I had no intention to meet anyone, 100% bonus lang si True Green and True Blue. I deleted the app already even if she told me to give it a week as she wanted me to show her my app when we see each other. I think 1 out of 10 lang okay there, and I also experienced ghosting by the most guapo guy I matched with there LOL!

Here's the issue, bakit daw ako lapitin ng "yayamanin", "atenista/la sallista". Dapat ba POOR, non top school, and/or PANGIT ang lumalapit sakin It was true green that made me realize that, why should she even be asking that question. Kaya napaisip ako, oo nga no?

May isa pang statement friend ko na I felt was sarcastic and so I asked True Green and he said it was definitely sarcastic. Will look for it pa. I do think when she meets that guy who will take the time to get to know her, hindi na siya papakawalan.

Ask her where she stays frequently. Dating apps consider the location of the user in producing matches. The better the area, the better the matches. I have a friend who sometimes goes to Alabang to get matches since she thinks QC folk are all the same. Gas is also expensive, so some would put 10 or 20 km limits. (Yes,were that shallow). I have no idea how a friend of mine matched with someone in Bulacan, but his only excuse was gas was cheap and Skyway 3 was free.

It depends on the profile. Men also read You probably have a well written profile and she has a messy one. Or you chose not to write anything and she wrote a bunch of useless fillers no one wants to read.

New accounts get more matches because they "show up more" in the first 24 hours to entice the user to continue

[_Cathy_]

bakit daw ako lapitin ng "yayamanin", "atenista/la sallista". Dapat ba POOR, non top school, and/or PANGIT ang lumalapit sakin It was true green that made me realize that, why should she even be asking that question. Kaya napaisip ako, oo nga no?

My friend did it again and I am getting so irritated already. She asks me about guys and then she'd comment na "lapitin ka talaga ng Atenista/Lasallista" (at bakit siya hindi?) She didn't even care about schools before we became close One factor I think was she was NOT able to build her network in hs/college and early 20s since she didn't go out naman. I can't say because she did not come from a top school because top schools go out with other schools.

AGAIN, What kind of men does she expect me to be around with? I don't get it at all. If she mentions this one more time I will tell her that na.

[shadow]

Behaviorist ka na rin pareho ni Kags?


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[_Cathy_]

Behaviorist ka na rin pareho ni Kags?


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Hahaha. I uninstalled the app na. My friend has been there 2 yrs and she talks about it a lot so I had to see for myself. I'll make a longer post on my observations.

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[_Cathy_]

Wala ako sinabi heartbreaker ako pero aminado ako I was psycho when I was younger. Now I am matured (physically and emotionally) No reason for me to lie, what satisfaction will that give me. I don't even talk about my dating history with new friends pero siya ma interview. I have a box of all love letters/notes that I showed her. I treasure those more than gifts.

Here I told her true green is DLSZ from prep to HS then DLSU M for college. She said ang yaman ni true green. I said he's middle class. She said how could anyone studying in Zobel be middle class. I think mali yung notion na 100% ng nasa good schools e mayaman

Anyway, parang yung magka uri na word I find it derogatory.

True green also doesn't get her obsession with the background (I have tons more receipts but that's the recent)

True green said if he doesn't like the way a girl chats or talks, unmatch na siya. I am thinking what if we experiment na wag siya mag tagalog when talking to guys so she doesn't get to use gay speak.

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[uls]

dati ko pa sinasabi turn off sa top school guys ang babae gumgamit ng jolog words pero todo tanggol parin

"but if they get to know her they'll discover she has a good heart and is a nurturing woman"

well, sa chat palang turn off na how will guys even get to know her?

sa online dating andami choices

people make up their minds about someone in a few exchanges (parang speed dating)

pag di type move on agad to the next one

sino may patience makilala ung person behind the jolog speak

a process like that takes weeks