Marrying a Single Mom

[Egan101]

Marrying means you love the other person and you accept them to be your partner in life. I guess there is no reason not to get into it if you have key conditions to be met.


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[dr. d]

Marrying means you love the other person and you accept them to be your partner in life. I guess there is no reason not to get into it if you have key conditions to be met.


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marriage now is becoming both thalamus and cerebral cortex. one has to... "think ahead".

[thenightcrawler]

Di ba relatively mas madali if yung anak ni single mom ay baby or toddler pa? Or yung "wala pang muwang" kesa sa may isip na.

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This is not the first time I heard this. Pero in the situation if maghihiwalay couple.

if you think about it has a point.

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[chronicle]

Di ba relatively mas madali if yung anak ni single mom ay baby or toddler pa? Or yung "wala pang muwang" kesa sa may isip na.

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Very true.
Mahirap para sa bata mag adjust. Sometimes, may resentment pa.

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[dr. d]

Very true.
Mahirap para sa bata mag adjust. Sometimes, may resentment pa.

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"i don't like you. you made my dad/mommy go away."
- it's not whether it's true or it's false. it's what the child believes.

[MR_BIG18]

You must be in a very difficult situation back then. Panu nanyari yun?

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Maybe i was too young then, didnt know if i really fell for her, maybe it was the s3x...it was good frankly, iba kasi pag bawal..

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[chronicle]

"i don't like you. you made my dad/mommy go away."
- it's not whether it's true or it's false. it's what the child believes.

Bingo. Kahit na anong paliwanag at pakisama, mahirap sa bata ang mag adjust sa new scenario.

Isang case pa is pag nasanay na yung bata na yung singlemom/dad lang ang parent nya tapos may biglang darating na new player.



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[thenightcrawler]

"i don't like you. you made my dad/mommy go away."
- it's not whether it's true or it's false. it's what the child believes.

Ang hirap talaga. Pero there are many din na maganda ang naging entrance and exit ng parties..

Siguro the guidance of the parents really play a critical role sa pag ready sa kids sa ganito situation.

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[shadow]

You will never replaced the biological father or mother.

But if you have a choice. Just go into a serious relationship with someone without a spawn. It's complicated as it is eh ano pa pag meron anak.

Ang daming tao sa Pilipinas...


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[dr. d]

"...ang dami-daming brand new... for the same price... why choose second-hand?"
there must be a very compelling reason, why one would choose the latter...
heh heh.

[benchph1]

This topic reminds me of the movie “Daddy’s Home” by Mark Wahlberg.

The struggle that the guy goes through in marrying a single mom, just watch that movie.


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[thenightcrawler]

You will never replaced the biological father or mother.

But if you have a choice. Just go into a serious relationship with someone without a spawn. It's complicated as it is eh ano pa pag meron anak.

Ang daming tao sa Pilipinas...


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I don't think naman the new party intend to replace the biological mom and dad pag ganun.

You have a point about finding somebody else. Pero can you choose who you'll fall in love with?
Oh no, parang kailangan ibang thread ata to. Haha





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[shadow]

I don't think naman the new party intend to replace the biological mom and dad pag ganun.

You have a point about finding somebody else. Pero can you choose who you'll fall in love with?
Oh no, parang kailangan ibang thread ata to. Haha





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Yes. Love at first sight only happens in the movie. People always has a choice they just ignore it.


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[_Cathy_]

Yes. Love at first sight only happens in the movie. People always has a choice they just ignore it.


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It happened to me though

But I totally agree that one always has a choice. My Kuya told me when I was in high school pa, and it stuck with me: First with the mind, then with the heart.

[thenightcrawler]

"...ang dami-daming brand new... for the same price... why choose second-hand?"
there must be a very compelling reason, why one would choose the latter...
heh heh.

This is a very typical reaction or advice.

And I guess there really is a very compelling reason for someone who chooses to be in the situation -- isn't love not enough? Compatibility?

Sabi nila there's this one person destined to be our forever. Haha





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[thenightcrawler]

I was a single dad & I used to date a single mom. At the time, she had a daughter in hs while mine was in gs. I felt that her daughter did not really like me & everytime I’d go visit the mum, it’ll be so awkward. Looking ahead, I did not find it a good setup. Dalawa kasi kailangan ko ligawan.

It's another thing pala talaga to consider pag ganyan no? Mas challenging pag both parties may kids..

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[_Qwerty_]

pano kung mayaman yung Single Mom??

[dr. d]

pano kung mayaman yung Single Mom??

that is a question every single man, may have difficulty in answering truthfully.

[uls]

Di ba relatively mas madali if yung anak ni single mom ay baby or toddler pa? Or yung "wala pang muwang" kesa sa may isip na.

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but if you think ahead, the child will learn parin di ka totoong father niya

and there's still this view na mahirap i-accept na you have to raise a child that's not yours so it doesn't matter kung baby pa yan or malaki na

[thenightcrawler]

that is a question every single man, may have difficulty in answering truthfully.

bigla napaisip? Haha

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