Marrying a Single Mom

[minicarph]

lam nyo kung san kaya makakatiklo ng madami single moms, sa toy stores

[minicarph]

You will never replaced the biological father or mother.

But if you have a choice. Just go into a serious relationship with someone without a spawn. It's complicated as it is eh ano pa pag meron anak.

Ang daming tao sa Pilipinas...


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o kaya naman shadow, maghanap na lang kayo ng sngle mom pero yun mga anak nasa tatay nakatira

[sean-archer]

Not all women who bore children can be called survivors. I know women, rich & poor who, right after giving birth handed the baby over to the yaya or their mothers to take care of the child. Meron naman ladies who never got married but overcame odds to get where they are ( like those who devote their lives to the company. My point is, the child is just a factor but not the determining one.

Child bearing could be related to the essence of being a woman. Being professional, it's a different story. A man or a woman could be great if we talk of being professional.

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[sean-archer]

You will never replaced the biological father or mother.



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Whoever said you need to replace the biological parent?

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[_Cathy_]

Child bearing could be related to the essence of being a woman. Being professional, it's a different story. A man or a woman could be great if we talk of being professional.

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This is appalling.

What can you say about women who have fertility issues? That is not their fault

What can you say about women who married men with fertility issues? leave their husbands and find a man who could spawn them a child

I have friends who have been trying to have children since their 20s and even went as far as having IVF, it's a hard journey and I feel sorry that still some people would think that they are not real women IF they fail to have children.

I'm so disappointed in this world

[sean-archer]

This is appalling.

What can you say about women who have fertility issues? That is not their fault

What can you say about women who married men with fertility issues? leave their husbands and find a man who could spawn them a child

I have friends who have been trying to have children since their 20s and even went as far as having IVF, it's a hard journey and I feel sorry that still some people would think that they are not real women IF they fail to have children.

I'm so disappointed in this world

You are blowing this out of proportion. We were just talking about comparing a female who has not bear a child vs one who has. The experience. Yet now you talk of gender issues.

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[_Cathy_]

You are blowing this out of proportion. We were just talking about comparing a female who has not bear a child vs one who has. The experience. Yet now you talk of gender issues.

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I wasn't the one who said the child bearing is the essence of a woman.

So I asked you, how about women who can never bear children? They are not real women then?

[sean-archer]

I wasn't the one who said the child bearing is the essence of a woman.

So I asked you, how about women who can never bear children? They are not real women then?

Yes darling, being a mother. Just like the essence of a man, protect, take care of his family, if I'd follow your logic, a man having disabilities will not comply that criteria. Pero this should not be the basis of such person's meaning or his existence. He or she can excel in other areas. Hindi ko maintindihan pinopoint mo? May issues ka ba sa fertility? FYI I have sisters and relatives who are close to me having fertility problems.

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[_Cathy_]

Yes darling, being a mother. Just like the essence of a man, protect, take care of his family, if I'd follow your logic, a man having disabilities will not comply that criteria. Pero this should not be the basis of such person's meaning or his existence. He or she can excel in other areas. Hindi ko maintindihan pinopoint mo? May issues ka ba sa fertility? FYI I have sisters and relatives who are close to me having fertility problems.

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You just confirmed that only females with children can be called women.

No I don't have fertility issues, I just have empathy for women who did NOT CHOOSE to be infertile or be married to infertile husbands. They cannot be called women pala. Yung second Mom ko pala who raised me since I was a baby, she can't be called a woman pala.

Pakibasa na lang ulit yung explanation ni bloowolf.

[sean-archer]

You just confirmed that only females with children can be called women.

No I don't have fertility issues, I just have empathy for women who did NOT CHOOSE to be infertile or be married to infertile husbands. They cannot be called women pala. Yung second Mom ko pala who raised me since I was a baby, she can't be called a woman pala.

Pakibasa na lang ulit yung explanation ni bloowolf.

You are taking my words out of context madam.

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[rac98]

The word "could" was used...

[ray_noel]

This is appalling.

What can you say about women who have fertility issues? That is not their fault

What can you say about women who married men with fertility issues? leave their husbands and find a man who could spawn them a child

I have friends who have been trying to have children since their 20s and even went as far as having IVF, it's a hard journey and I feel sorry that still some people would think that they are not real women IF they fail to have children.

I'm so disappointed in this world

Ms cath, yung friends mo nagpa ivf successful bah? Saan sila nagpa ivf and magkano daw yung gastos? Have a friend planning to have ivf sooner.. age 34 girl and 36 guy.. tia


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[remzam]

Lighten up guys. Let's agree to disagree. Not everyone will subscribe to our views of the world.

Hinga.

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[remzam]

Pag essence of a woman pinaguusapan naaalala ko Miss U. Di ba tanong yun dati way back?

Eh pano naman yun sa Spain? Transgender yung nanalo na contestant nila for Miss U? First na may sasali dito na "hindi totoong babae"

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[minicarph]

You just confirmed that only females with children can be called women.

No I don't have fertility issues, I just have empathy for women who did NOT CHOOSE to be infertile or be married to infertile husbands. They cannot be called women pala. Yung second Mom ko pala who raised me since I was a baby, she can't be called a woman pala.

Pakibasa na lang ulit yung explanation ni bloowolf.

Hindi kaya wombmen for short is women ... so syrempre kami mga men walang womb,
kaya men lang tawag samin

So ano nalang tatawag sa mga babae di magkaanak m ladies or since she is is still a man. Ladiesmen, Lamen for short. La men, La anak men

[dr. d]

o sige guys.
let us put our money where our mouths are.
everything else being equal, those of you who will choose to marry a single mom over a non-mom... raise your hands.

[MR_BIG18]

o sige guys.
let us put our money where our mouths are.
everything else being equal, those of you who will choose to marry a single mom over a non-mom... raise your hands.

Me...sabi ko nga b4...i almost did...

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[bloowolf]

If her kid is still very young, I’d marry one. One thing with single moms, they are mature thinkers already. They know what they want. At my age, I don’t want to go through the ligawan stage of old, yun bang mind games, going to bars, staying out till 3am etc.... sila kasi, kung gusto ka, gusto. Kung ayaw ka, ayaw.

[remzam]

If her kid is still very young, I’d marry one. One thing with single moms, they are mature thinkers already. They know what they want. At my age, I don’t want to go through the ligawan stage of old, yun bang mind games, going to bars, staying out till 3am etc.... sila kasi, kung gusto ka, gusto. Kung ayaw ka, ayaw.

Kala ko naman yung "ligawan stage of old" ay yung nanghaharana tapos nag se serbisyo sa bahay ng babae katulad ng pag igib ng tubig sa poso at pag sibak ng kahoy pang gatong

Bar pala til 3am hehehe

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[shadow]

Whoever said you need to replace the biological parent?

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Exactly my point. So you have to thread lightly when it comes to your stepkid and if the biological parent is still alive you can't even make decisions for them.





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