Marrying a Single Mom

[remzam]

Although most have a slightly bigger tummy & they are generally a little fatter than the single girl, their skin and aura has this glow. They look happier to me, maybe because of their child. I also read somewhere that employers nowadays usually prefer mothers (married or single) than singles. It is because mothers are more focused (they have a family to support).

Hindi magreresign agad or pepetiks sa trabaho. May dependent.

Notice ko in my work area, many millenials ambilis umalis ng work. Wala pa one year minsan less than six months ayaw na. Ayaw mahirapan ata hehe

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[dr. d]

so does that mean women who NEVER became mothers are less of a woman than those who bore children? I respectfully disagree.

We've heard dozen of stories of mothers abandoning, selling and allowing their children to be ***ually abused. Not all women are good mothers. My second mom, hindi niya ko pinagbuntis, but I love her as a child to a mother.

there are good survivors, and there are bad survivors.

[dr. d]

Hindi magreresign agad or pepetiks sa trabaho. May dependent.

Notice ko in my work area, many millenials ambilis umalis ng work. Wala pa one year minsan less than six months ayaw na. Ayaw mahirapan ata hehe

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i like workers who show loyalty.
they are an asset to any employer.
how i wish we can match the pirate's offer... knowledge-able people are hard to come by nowadays.

[dr. d]

Naisip ko agad si Vicky Belo haha

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there's a huge difference between rich and filthy reech.
if you can still count your money, you're just rich.

[_Cathy_]

there are good survivors, and there are bad survivors.

But still, women who never bore children cannot be called survivors?

[bloowolf]

Pareho lang din yan kay Mommy D..

True Love? Really now?

The guy is a pussy. Mommy D makes a better fist than him. Perhaps he didn’t have a father to teach him how to make a proper fist.

[dr. d]

The guy is a pussy. Mommy D makes a better fist than him. Perhaps he didn’t have a father to teach him how to make a proper fist.

now we really know who gave manny his fists.

[dr. d]

But still, women who never bore children cannot be called survivors?

they may be. but, unlike single moms whose achievements and de-achievements are more easily visible, one would have to dig a bit harder, to identify these non-mommy survivors.
we are all survivors... of sorts. we just have to dig deep enough, to identify the "enemy" that we had to overcome to survive.
but i think, many will agree with me, that raising a child by oneself, takes more effort than other problems.

[benchph1]

Pareho lang din yan kay Mommy D..

True Love? Really now?

Parang si Ai Ai De Las Alas lang. same scenario..


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[bloowolf]

But still, women who never bore children cannot be called survivors?

Survivor is just a general term for any person that overcomes adversity. Pwedeng galing sa hirap at dahil sa tyaga, yumaman. Hindi nakapag aral ngunit nakapagtayo ng malaking negosyo. A good example is Isko Moreno & Marc Pringis. Survivors never give up. Ang mothers lang nga, iba talaga. Just carrying the baby for 9 months, giving birth then rearing the baby. It’s hard enough with a husband, what more without one. Sabi nga ni Queen sa movie “300”, “only real women give birth to real men”. They may have made bad decisions, but you still have respect for them.

[sean-archer]

But still, women who never bore children cannot be called survivors?

Let's give credit sa mga tao na deserve nila credit. You can never beat experience.

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[sean-archer]

Not where I work. They prefer to hire young and single because fathers/mothers cannot be expected to work longs hours, holidays and weekends.

There is a current issue nga in our department because one employee got pregnant a few months after returning from Maternity leave. Even the other staff are kinda pissed at her because they have to cover for her again. I feel bed for her kasi pinagiinitan na siya ngayon ng management. My office buddy told me that it seems like this employee is getting "managed out" by leadership

BUT when it comes to female bosses, I do prefer mothers, they are more patient and less strict

Who would care more and desperate of getting a decent salary, a single person, or a family Guy/girl? Who would give a more fck if the salary comes in time or not?

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[_Cathy_]

Survivor is just a general term for any person that overcomes adversity. Pwedeng galing sa hirap at dahil sa tyaga, yumaman. Hindi nakapag aral ngunit nakapagtayo ng malaking negosyo. A good example is Isko Moreno & Marc Pringis. Survivors never give up. Ang mothers lang nga, iba talaga. Just carrying the baby for 9 months, giving birth then rearing the baby. It’s hard enough with a husband, what more without one. Sabi nga ni Queen sa movie “300”, “only real women give birth to real men”. They may have made bad decisions, but you still have respect for them.

I agree that single mothers are strong and of course it is hard to raise a child without a husband

BUT dr d's statement is mothers vs non-mothers.

Children or no children, it has little to do with the strength of a woman's character.

Let's give credit sa mga tao na deserve nila credit. You can never beat experience.

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so you also think less of women who did not bear children?

I feel strongly about this topic because I consider myself as having 2 mothers - my biological mother and my mother who helped raise me.

My second mom did not carry me for 9 months but she as a real mother for me.

[_Cathy_]

Who would care more and desperate of getting a decent salary, a single person, or a family Guy/girl? Who would give a more fck if the salary comes in time or not?

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Bakit galit ka? Well then you can talk to our Management because that is the culture in our company. I don't own the company and I am nothing more but an employee.

[sean-archer]

I agree that single mothers are strong and of course it is hard to raise a child without a husband

BUT dr d's statement is mothers vs non-mothers.

Children or no children, it has little to do with the strength of a woman's character.



so you also think less of women who did not bear children?

I feel strongly about this topic because I consider myself as having 2 mothers - my biological mother and my mother who helped raise me.

My second mom did not carry me for 9 months but she as a real mother for me.

My point is, would I have better war stories than my grandpa who had experienced these **** stories on war or something.. I've just experienced street fights. And No, you are not less of a woman because you haven't bore a child, but we have to admit these women who experienced bearing and raising children must have experienced a lesson or two making them more "experts" than us, yes like your folks.

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[chronicle]

Cathy.
I think what the other guys want to say is that the mothers already proved their mettle. They place their child first above their dreams.

Those not yet mothers officially are the wildcard. Can we say that every single non mothers out there want to have a child, be it planned or unplanned?

It is not a which one is better argument. It is just "if you look at the history of a person".



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[bloowolf]

Not all women who bore children can be called survivors. I know women, rich & poor who, right after giving birth handed the baby over to the yaya or their mothers to take care of the child. Meron naman ladies who never got married but overcame odds to get where they are ( like those who devote their lives to the company. My point is, the child is just a factor but not the determining one.

[sean-archer]

Bakit galit ka? Well then you can talk to our Management because that is the culture in our company. I don't own the company and I am nothing more but an employee.

Haha hindi po galit. Peace haha. I know this because above anything else, iuuna ko sweldo ng staff ko kesa other operating expenses na kailangan bayaran. Ang guess sino sa kanila ang talagang importante na maswelduhan silang Tama at on time? Yes, the family guys and girls.

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[_Cathy_]

Not all women who bore children can be called survivors. I know women, rich & poor who, right after giving birth handed the baby over to the yaya or their mothers to take care of the child. Meron naman ladies who never got married but overcame odds to get where they are ( like those who devote their lives to the company. My point is, the child is just a factor but not the determining one.

THANK YOU!

This is what I have been trying to say all along.

[bloowolf]

Sometimes, I can be really bad. I have friends who will not get married (either by choice or by circumstance). I suggested to a few of them to why not have a baby or child na lang. Me kasi, I really love having kids more than anything & I am a proactive father (no driver or yaya).