How do you deal with being alone?

[testament11]

watching **** by yourself, ok lang yun noh ate cathy, hehehe...

pero bakit nga hindi mo sundin mga advices namin dito? just try, wala naman mawawala eh. one way of getting self confidence.

ask lang kita, kasi base sa mga sinasabi mo, is there the "self acceptance" in you? maybe this could help you

[_Cathy_]

Hindi ba wild ang pag nood ng ****? Kasi mga girl friends ko they have never watched **** eh.

Anong self acceptance?

[uls]

watching **** is not wild

acting out what you watch is

[LadyRider]

Hello Sis Cathy! Matanong lang kita. Wag mo sanang mamasamain ha sis.

What do you think would make you happy?

What type of people are you in search of or you would rather be alone?

Honestly, everything naman boils down to you and your outlook in life!

Why not think of "happy thoughts" instead of flushing yourself down the drain with sadness, frustration and of being alone.

Just my two cents as your older sister.

[_Cathy_]

^ Normal lang naman yung HOW sa **** movies yung WHERE ang hindi normal. hahaha.

I guess I am conservative and my friends are extremely conservative. haha.

When I was sick pala and my family was abroad my BF slept in the same room with me and my yaya but different beds. He had to stay kasi I couldn't decide if I needed to be taken to the hospital.

[testament11]

self acceptance, you learn to accept who you are, what you are to your ownself. kasi kung nahihiya ka makipagkita ng pictures mo, or simply you don't accept what you look like, then its one reason you are afraid to go out. kasi, kung sa sarili mo, tanggap mo kung sino ka o ano ka, yun din ang gagawin ng ibang tao sa yo. basta ate cathy, wag ka mahihiya, smile, and say "i'm proud of myself!"

[_Cathy_]

Hello Sis Cathy! Matanong lang kita. Wag mo sanang mamasamain ha sis.

What do you think would make you happy?

What type of people are you in search of or you would rather be alone?

Honestly, everything naman boils down to you and your outlook in life!

Why not think of "happy thoughts" instead of flushing yourself down the drain with sadness, frustration and of being alone.

Just my two cents as your older sister.

I am really happy with my friends but I hate that they are all leaving for abroad.

I will be really happy when I am able to take care of my parents already.

I also think I'll be happy staying at home - cooking, going to the market, cleaning the house, playing with my dogs and gardening.

[_Cathy_]

self acceptance, you learn to accept who you are, what you are to your ownself. kasi kung nahihiya ka makipagkita ng pictures mo, or simply you don't accept what you look like, then its one reason you are afraid to go out. kasi, kung sa sarili mo, tanggap mo kung sino ka o ano ka, yun din ang gagawin ng ibang tao sa yo. basta ate cathy, wag ka mahihiya, smile, and say "i'm proud of myself!"

I feel like when people don't compliment me they don't like me eh.

[testament11]

yan ang kelangan mo alisin. dapat isipin mo na matatanggap ka ng tao. kung baga, be nice pero you cannot please anybody. pero don't try to act like close kayo or something. basta, people accepts you for what you show to them, kaya nga be yourself eh

[_Cathy_]

I'm being myself naman. Marami lang ako inhibitions. hahaha.

[testament11]

naku, yung inhibitions mo eh siguro limit mo. alisin mo yung nakakapagdown sa yo at itago yung mga tingin mo ok sa yo at ok sa paningin ng tao

[moejun2]

you're afraid of rejection and you crave attention. what makes you insecure? is it just the way you look? a failed relationship?

[alwayz_yummy]

hay nakow, kung makikita mo lang ako sa personal, sasabihin mo ang thick ng face ko... "alwayz_yummy" pa ang id nito, di nga ka-yummy-yummy

pero i dont mind, its how you carry yourself. isipin mo nalang, bakit si ai-ai, si pokwang, si etel booba, zoryda, etc.. di naman sila nahiya humarap sa camera.

o yung nagpost sa billboard ng lesofat.. di naman nahiya i-pose picture nya.

nasa nagdadala yan. try mo lng, pakita ka lang sa megamall, 5pm dun sa 5th floor, sa may conference area. mga accomodating mga tao dun. try mo lang experiment yourself. you'll never knew unless ginawa mo...mananatili kang shy. daig mo pa ang madre sa kumbento sa ugali mong yan.

wag ka matakot sa rejection, sa panlalait, sa disappointments....try to go out and meet new people. pag nagtago ka, sino makikilala mo..baka ika-baliw mo pa yan.

i suggest you try.. hang out sa ebs..

or kung gusto mo, sama ka kay sis tina(huggybearkho) or anna(ladyrider) sa clark... wag ka mag-alala harmless mga yan hehehe..

mas lalo ako..harmless

[testament11]

hahaha. makinig ka kay AY, malaman ang mga sinasabi niya

[alwayz_yummy]

nakow, being a former loner, alam ko yun.. pero what the heck, di ako nagalangan sa itsura ko..pero noon sa mapua ako up till nalipat ako sa MLQU, ewan ko ba, napapagroup ako sa girls...di naman ako chickboy...napagkakamalan pa ngang bakla!

pero i just be myself... kung ano ako, yun papakita ko.. kung mahiyain ba ako, siguro di din naman ako magpapakita sa EBs noh?

once you let-go of your "lonely self" you can do everything and you can face the world in full confidence..

[merl26]

hi cathy i read this thread confused ako hehehehhe kasi hanap ako ng solve sa prob ko sa van ko e wala ako makita parehas non. Anyway, i think madali ka maattached sa mga tao who care you and spoil you , i think ur parents left u noong bata ka pa? so ang feeling mo lagi ka na lang iniiwan. well madali lang naman yan, first accept mo un fact na lahat tayo mawawala - etiher na lilipat ng place (abroad) or mamatay. Masakit iyon lalo na kung nakasama mo siya ng matagal. Lagi kang affected niyan. doing those things - watching ****o alone or with other girls or boys

(basta group) :grouphug1: no problem basta alam nyo u watch that do educate. Do not deceived that life ends only because people leave you or betray you. Advise ko lang, una hanapin mo ang Diyos sa puso mo? Think God. Kasi siya definetely Hindi ka niya IIWAN!!!! Try God. :flower::rainbow:

[_Cathy_]

hi cathy i read this thread confused ako hehehehhe kasi hanap ako ng solve sa prob ko sa van ko e wala ako makita parehas non. Anyway, i think madali ka maattached sa mga tao who care you and spoil you , i think ur parents left u noong bata ka pa? so ang feeling mo lagi ka na lang iniiwan. well madali lang naman yan, first accept mo un fact na lahat tayo mawawala - etiher na lilipat ng place (abroad) or mamatay. Masakit iyon lalo na kung nakasama mo siya ng matagal. Lagi kang affected niyan. doing those things - watching ****o alone or with other girls or boys

(basta group) :grouphug1: no problem basta alam nyo u watch that do educate. Do not deceived that life ends only because people leave you or betray you. Advise ko lang, una hanapin mo ang Diyos sa puso mo? Think God. Kasi siya definetely Hindi ka niya IIWAN!!!! Try God. :flower::rainbow:

My parents left for abroad when I was already in my 20s and they go home every 8-12 months. I have no issues with my parents. If there's one thing that I am thankful for it's my parents and my yaya. They really take care of me well.

It is true that I do get attached to people who spoil me. Sabi nga ng ex ko ang swerte ko sa mga kaibigan ko. It just makes me so sad na isa isa silang pumupunta sa ibang bansa.

[_Cathy_]

you're afraid of rejection and you crave attention. what makes you insecure? is it just the way you look? a failed relationship?

Yeah the way I look. Nagyo yoyo kasi yung weight ko which makes me really insecure. I have 3 sets of clothes nga eh: Fat, Normal and Thin.

[alwayz_yummy]

hay nakow, ako nga bandera ang damit ko... ung pantalon ko 3 lang sa washing machine medium level na! pero thick parin face ko noh.. inaalis ko na hiya ko sa katawan..

di naman ako magkakapera if papairalin ko ang "hiya" sa buhay ko..

[_Cathy_]

^^^ You are so funny!!!!

Cute naman kasi ang chubby guys. Sa girls kasi iba eh.