How do you deal with being alone?

[_Cathy_]

the more you talk to people, da more nababawasan ang insecurities mo sa buhay..


see, bilis ng thread mo madami gusto maging ka-fwens ka :D

I am so insecure with the way I look kasi. Ewan ko ba.

[redorange]

I am really not that conservative. I think I've done some wild things na rin. hehe.

Somehow reading some of your threads I get the feeling that you are conservative. What would you consider a wild thing that you did?

[testament11]

Hmmmm, siguro ate cathy, you need some self confidence

[uls]

ULS it's like you know me so well. Am I that predictable?

after reading your threads and posts, we know how you think na e

[ab_initio]

Cathy hindi ka nag-iisa! A lot of people are like you. Sometimes I enjoy being alone. It's the freedom to do whatever you want.

Try doing things to improve yourself. Gym (for health). Spa. Study

more.

+true.

[_Cathy_]

Somehow reading some of your threads I get the feeling that you are conservative. What would you consider a wild thing that you did?

People here might not respect me anymore. Oh Well. I love to watch ****.

[Negus]

watching ****? that's normal...

a girl and her girlfriend watching ****..... j/k

[Negus]

double post... nadouble click hataw sa response eh

[ab_initio]

I am so insecure with the way I look kasi. Ewan ko ba.

just try changing at how the way you see some things. i guess everyone has his own share of insecurities...but they have overcome them. if you wanna be happy, pursue it...no ifs, no buts, because if you do you are actually sending mixed signals to the universe. what i am saying is, be definite with what you want, focus on getting it. if self confidence is a problem, you identify what is it that shakes your confidence?

i have difficulty working with a big group, but when you do supervise a lot of people, you'll be left with no other choice but to deal with these different people of exceptional characters, exceptionally.

i have a hard time initiating a conversation, but i do address a big crowd because i have an obligation, and most often i am paid to talk/speak.

i don't like politicizing (politicking and socializing) with politicians but i do survive in their company.

i always find it depressing to be with the poor, homeless, battered and prostituted women, children in conflict with the law, and those whom justice is a bit elusive.

i sometimes yearn to be just in an island and do nothing but sleep, eat, do movie marathon, swim, fly, run, shout...

yes, i am alone but i am happy with the way the universe is working for me, recognizing that not all things are meant for me...there are those which are meant not at this moment but maybe later...tomorrow...a day after next...or maybe i won't get it during this lifetime.

i maybe the best gal in the room but some others may find me to be the worst person to deal with. i just can't please anyone...i don't attempt to do so...if they won't care to like me, i don't give a damn.lonely at times, but it ain't incurable. just have a good outlook in life...share...be generous...most of all, the abc...(audacity, bravery and courage) believing that in a scheme of things we all have a loving and merciful CREATOR. we always have a great chance to redeem ourselves. everyday is a day of redemption. always a day filled with chances to improve ourselves in everything that we do that has the greatest nexus to our own happiness.

[Negus]

a friend of mine recommended me to read the 7 habits of highly effective people. Up until now, i've never read a page of that book. Maybe it will work for you.....

[H1Tman]

Insecure? Just be yourself.

If people can't accept you for what you are, who cares! Di ba?

Sabi nga, you can swing your arms as long as you don't hit others.

[_Cathy_]

watching ****? that's normal...

a girl and her girlfriend watching ****..... j/k

I don't think watching **** for girls is normal. Of course I watch alone.

[_Cathy_]

a friend of mine recommended me to read the 7 habits of highly effective people. Up until now, i've never read a page of that book. Maybe it will work for you.....

I attended the seminar na eh (7 habits)

[Negus]

I don't think watching **** for girls is normal. Of course I watch alone.

You can do a google search on it. we're already in 2009..... but a guy or a girl in a relationship watching **** by him/herself is a bit weird, I agree.......

Mukhang wala nang Yes Man EB.....

[_Cathy_]

So I am weird because I just broke up with my BF of 4 years and we never watched **** together. Kasi if you watched it with your BF/GF eh di you're bringing yourself closer to temptation diba?

What Yes Man EB?

[ab_initio]

I don't think watching **** for girls is normal. Of course I watch alone.

i watched one foreign **** once with my bestfriend, when we were still in highschool...but the player jammed that we failed to get the tape...grabe yung kaba ko at mabuko kami ng mom niya...dinala namin sa isang shop at pina open...wheew!i was so terrified that i no longer attempted to watch it...i took it a sign na kasalanan yun...(personal view ko lang) nag confess din ako sa priest, kakahiya...sa sobrang praning ko, i left the box hastily and mixed myself with the faithful.

other ****s? some are revolting...some are live shows, these are all job related na...

[Negus]

depends on the relationship..... some are quite liberal.
most of us are in our 20's if im correct, let's ask the experienced for their advice....

hmmmmm, log out of tsikot..... go out....drive around.....call some friends kahit di close, don't care if you get turned down...within limits

eto YES MAN, showing na ba ito?

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-Z_CUYh2Sk"]YouTube - Yes Man Trailer[/ame]

[_Cathy_]

Hindi ba tayong mga 20s na ang nakakatanda dito?

[_Cathy_]

i took it a sign na kasalanan yun...(personal view ko lang) nag confess din ako sa priest, kakahiya...sa sobrang praning ko, i left the box hastily and mixed myself with the faithful.

That's why I do my novena after I watch ****. One time nga I watched from 10 am to 2 am ata. hahahha. Some girls there are so beautiful and I love how they have no inhibitions at all

[Negus]

*experienced......ang maganda kasi dito sa tsikot people they come from all walks of life..... but I think you're good tho yung iba punungpuno ng angsta and tend to be self dstructive. at least you acknowledge it.