How do you deal with being alone?

[alwayz_yummy]

hay nakow, depende sa tumitingin yan. being chubby is not a reason para magseclude ka sa mundo. bakit si ruby rodriguez.. o mataba yun, di naman siya nahihiya i-balandra sarili nya sa tv tuwing tanghali.

basta i believe you need some "beefing-up" in the "character department".

its all in your "ATTITUDE".

your attitude will be the deciding factor...diba text message yun:

attitude = 100...

so if you project a positive attitude, you'll get +100...

but if you give a neative attitude you'll get -100..

its your choice. as i said your attitude will be the deciding factor in the end...


ps: 9 pages na tayo! yehey.com!

[Negus]

^^ If you have friends like AY talaga naman parang ang katumbas ay 10 tao (not talking about weight) hehe. Nakakahawa kasiyahan ni AY!

[_Cathy_]

OO nga eh. Nakakatawa si AY!

May flaw ba sa character ko? heehee

[moejun2]

you crave acceptance from others yet you want to play it safe thus you stick to a few select persons whom you can count on. one word for that - BORING. you're scared of being turned down or criticized by others, scared of getting hurt.

it's apparent that you're conflicted when it comes your morals. you claim to be pure and virginal (or i read between the lines too much) yet you feel that watching ****o is wrong.

[alwayz_yummy]

hay nakow.. bumaba na timbang ko, from 250, bumalik na ako sa 200, and still lowering...

hay the advantage of high fuel prices+a big engined car hehehe

anywayz... be with people, and you'll feel you're not alone..as i am now (wala asawa ko,mga anak ko..nandun sila sa province)

cathy - as a flaw in your character - ikaw na makaka evaluate nyan sa sarili mo...

[_Cathy_]

it's apparent that you're conflicted when it comes your morals. you claim to be pure and virginal (or i read between the lines too much) yet you feel that watching ****o is wrong.

That's not a contradiction. Those values are in accordance with each other. I never claimed to be pure and virginal by the way.

I know that watching **** is wrong but I still do it. That is me being wild.

I don't mind some people see me as boring, it's all subjective anyway.

[_Cathy_]

one word for that - BORING...

I've got one word for you too - judgemental

[alwayz_yummy]

just collect all others people's comments about you and you'll be able to assess yourself.

from there malalaman mo strong and weak points mo.. ikaw makaka evaluate nyan sa sarili mo..we're just here to accompany you in life... but in the end, i'll bet a 1 week check of my networking side business, hahanap ka ng "partner-in-life" mo..

kasi di mo man aminin ngayon, dadating ang time na maghahanap ka ng gusto mo maging companion for life. someone whom you'll be with till you grow old. thats a fact. no 1 person could live alone.

[_Cathy_]

Of course. Ultimate dream ko nga maging housewife. heehee.

[alwayz_yummy]

as a professional, i doubt na gugustuhin mo lang maging "house wife"..as per experience....

sabi ko sayo if you meet more people, madami ka malalaman. madami ka makikilala. and who knows, isa sa mga nakilala mo yu pala magpapaligaya sa yo for the rest of your life.. or magpapayaman sa yo...di mo alam...

pero un nga kung nagmukmok ka lang sa corner, wala mangyayari sa yo..mapagiiwanan ka lang ng mundo...

anyways, may mga signs na-- either attend ka ng tsikot EB para mameet mo naman most of the people you talk here.. or try mo lang for yourself na makihalubilo ka sa circle of friends mo.

ako, kahit literally mag-1 lang ako dito, i make it a point na di ako magiging lonely..i focuses on the businesses i am setting up, i go my mom's house... and just sleep here..alone hehehe


anyways, if ever someone sa mga nagpost dito yayain ka mag-exchange-view ng webcam mo sa YM, would you accept it? its a start.

[moejun2]

you're right, that's not a contradiction.

further, i'd have to say opinionated, not 'judgemental' as what you said.

you definitely need to do some soul searching, but i'm sure you've done that already.

[jozef_10]

one word for that - BORING.

I've got one word for you too - judgemental

i got one word for youse two: howaboutadate?

[_Cathy_]

anyways, if ever someone sa mga nagpost dito yayain ka mag-exchange-view ng webcam mo sa YM, would you accept it? its a start.

AY, I'm not a professional. heehee.

Friendster. Multiply and Myspace nga wala ako. Webcam pa. Napaka unforgiving pa naman ng webcam. hahah. Bakit kailangan pa ng webcam? Hindi ba pwede mag usap lang?

[Memphis Raines]

Sometimes the webcam can be a good tool to determine the sincerity of the person on the other end.


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[chua_riwap]

Eto palang si Cathy, nagiging religious after watching a **** movie.......

[redorange]

I feel like when people don't compliment me they don't like me eh.

You need to stop caring what others think of you since you can't make everybody like you. In order for them to compliment you on how you look you need to feel comfortable in your own skin and be able to compliment yourself before expecting others to do the same.

BTW if you consider watching **** wild you need to get out more and live life.

I think people in this thread have given you enough advice but ultimately it is still up to you to make your own happiness. If you are not happy it's because you choose to not be happy. You have a choice to be happy or not. You can choose to dwell on the fact that your friend is leaving and you will be alone or you can choose to be happy and meet new people that could possibly become good friends.

[moejun2]

^ amen to that

[alwayz_yummy]

yan ang sinabi kahapon pa....sa dami ng advices natin if cathy will not put it into action, wala parin.

if you know some gatherings punta ka try to assess yourself, kaya nga niyayaya kita sa grand launching ng company namin, not to recruit you, but to help you learn to be with people...(mamaya yun sa megamall * 5pm 5th floor conference area, near the trade hall), added bonus nalang sa akin if you'll like our company.

then kung ayaw mo dun, sa tsikot EB sa clark, sumabay ka kay madam anna(Ladyrider)

makita mo lang si madam LR, maboboost confidence mo sa sarili.. bakit siya kaya nya...take it as a callenge not a comment.

[_Cathy_]

I am trying hard to change but I can't do it overnight. I've been an introvert all my life kasi.

It's easy to meet new people but it's not easy to find someone as kind as my friend who is leaving for Australia.

[_Cathy_]

BTW if you consider watching **** wild you need to get out more and live life..

What is considered wild nowadays?