Do you believe in second chances?

[_Cathy_]

cathy sa lahat ng nag post dito similar sa advice ni eq, di ka nakinig? [emoji28]
genuinely am happy for you, progress yan pero eyes on the prize. wag mo tigilan, best defence is offence [emoji123][emoji123]

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wala naman e. Si EQ lang nag post ng EXACT STEPS or WORDS that I have to tell him to help win back his heart, which is exactly what I have been asking about. Ewan ko bakit napunta na sa kung saan saan topic. I want this to be a light hearted positive thread sana

Thank you ninj Good mood na good mood ako ngayon! Eyes on the prize!!!

[jut703]

I don't know how to grab or lalamove. Kaya sa online sellers, if that is their only mode of delivery, I can't order. May isa sabi ko siya na mag arrange sa app, instead she just brought it to my house free of charge lol!

Saka kung motor dapat hindi mabilis masira or matunaw.

Madali lang aralin yan. Everyone started from not knowing how to Grab or Lalamove.

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[dr. d]

Eyes on the prize!!!

sige,
baka kayo ma-dapa.
tingin naman sa lupa, pa-minsan-minsan.
heh heh.

[_Cathy_]

Madali lang aralin yan. Everyone started from not knowing how to Grab or Lalamove.

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Yeah, this could be my reason why na Marami talagang positive effect si crush sakin

[_Cathy_]

sige,
baka kayo ma-dapa.
tingin naman sa lupa, pa-minsan-minsan.
heh heh.

Doc, this is an example of what I have to deal with regularly. That's my generous neighbor who dropped off some fruits when another neighbor passed by. Mahirap talaga maging single in your 30s, dunno kung matatawa ako o maiinis but my eyes are only for crush! I am attracted to him only. Eyes on the prize!!!





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[jmc21420]

EQ!!! It worked! I asked him today and he said "talk to me like this" .I almost fainted from kilig. And then he said I have no idea of the stress he has to go through at work. I asked him "Do I destress you" and he said "oo naman" He did not notice it but while we were talking, tears were streaming down my face because at least there is progress here! It reminded me of when we were still together and he told me that he looks forward to me at the end of a busy working day, one of the sweetest things he ever told me!

Anyway, we got into talking about my family issues again and I said "hayaan mo ba ko makulong?" and he said with conviction "of course not" And I knew hindi yun galing ilong ha! I wouldn't do anything that will get me in trouble, he has enough stress, but it is good to that I have my knight in shining armour! My friend in my spanish group was right na, no matter what complications we may have, he will make sure that I am taken cared of. He is so intelligent talaga, I have trouble verbalizing my thoughts and he can put into words what I am trying to say! I also like how I can be open with him with finances - and that is a very very intimate topic.

I will do the other steps next time. Crush isn't into food kasi, so I have to find out what he likes and how I can send because we don't have a driver now (I don't want to risk him going out, quarantine pa rin siya! haha)

This is great news.

Congratulations!

Now, you need to up the ante.

If you have the opportunity (and do this in a perfect timing, not just out of the blue, but a segue of sort) you tell him what you want out of life, what are your plans for the future, what aspirations or goals you want to achieve. And how you maybe able to achieve them.

For example, you want to be an executive of the World Bank or ADB in 5 or 8 years from now. Or you will take a master’s degree at Oxford, and this you will achieve because you apply as a Chevening scholar.

Show him that you are a much better person now than before when the two of you were together.

And don’t call him “crush” because he wasn’t; he was your ex. You name the problem; you specify the objective.

That way, the objective or problem is clearer for you to adopt an effective strategy. You are not going to lock him in for the first time.

Remember, no problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.


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[EQAddict]

Hot diggy-dee-dang!!!!!!!!!!


Thats more like it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When you listen to us good things happen!!!!!!!!!


Keep going !!!!!! Am actually happy for you. Was a testing day but this is good news indeed.

I know i can be sometimes your "frenemy" but hey, its nice to see you winning !


Trust me...the e-numan, kick ass playlist, easy (not heavy) conversation should be your next move.




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[_Cathy_]

Hot diggy-dee-dang!!!!!!!!!!


Thats more like it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When you listen to us good things happen!!!!!!!!!


Keep going !!!!!! Am actually happy for you. Was a testing day but this is good news indeed.

I know i can be sometimes your "frenemy" but hey, its nice to see you winning !


Trust me...the e-numan, kick ass playlist, easy (not heavy) conversation should be your next move.

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hahaha! You give me brutally honest talk but you still help me in the end and wish me well, I appreciate that

Yes! My next plan is to send him the food, I will find out what he likes the most I already asked my UF to teach me how to grab and lala, I can use card daw so everything is paid when it is delivered

BTW, no malice but I don't think I can stay just friends with him. He is so smoking hot, so hard to control. I think we are chemically compatible

[BlancNoir]

hahaha! You give me brutally honest talk but you still help me in the end and wish me well, I appreciate that

Yes! My next plan is to send him the food, I will find out what he likes the most I already asked my UF to teach me how to grab and lala, I can use card daw so everything is paid when it is delivered

BTW, no malice but I don't think I can stay just friends with him. He is so smoking hot, so hard to control. I think we are chemically compatible

Congrats Cathy!

Next dtep na. Hehehe

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[_Cathy_]

Congrats Cathy!

Next dtep na. Hehehe

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Thank you I'm so happy that even my office girl friend was so kilig when I told her the story about crush today! We talked for 3 hrs on the phone and she told me not to ruin it with crush, control my topak daw LOL! She also told me to send some food over It was so funny when she said to get back to my ideal weight so when crush sees me it's gonna be BOOM. hahaha!