which do you prefer?
do u believe in testing the water first before marriage??? do u think this will insure that ull have a better marriage? no separations?
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May 30th, 2003 01:13 PM #1
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May 30th, 2003 01:45 PM #2ok lang living in pag wala pang kids tsaka wala kayong problema sa finances.....
now if u wanted to invest on a house or house and lot....that's another story coz if u want to combine ur finances, loan officer would need ur marriage certificate as a requirement........
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May 30th, 2003 02:10 PM #3as long as you love the guy/girl, live-in arrangement is okay if ur reason of not jumping into marriage is purely for financial reasons. but if ur reason is to have an easy way out when things don't go as you want, then i don't approve of it.
my 2 centavos. :wink:
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May 30th, 2003 03:09 PM #6check mo muna kung productive baka baog he he,
just kidding, marriage siyempre, lalo na pag sa babae, sila lagi talo sa ganyang situation:mrgreen:
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May 30th, 2003 04:58 PM #9My vote goes for live-in first. Though this won't guarantee a successful marriage after 10 years. Mas mabuti na yung nakikilala mong mabuti yung makakasama mo. Dun mo lang naman makikta ang tunay na ugali if you have been living with each other for quite sometime.
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May 30th, 2003 08:08 PM #10wag lang siguro gagawa ng baby ay pwede na din siguro sa, panahon ngayon, ang living-in. kung after three years of living-in ay gusto nyo pa din mag sama, dapat pakasal na kayo para you can start na contributing to human race :D
kasi after three na nag sasama kayo sa isang kama ....eerrr... sa isang bubong eh labas na lahat ang ugali nyo, masama man o mabuti. at saka makilala nyo na din ng husto mga ugali ng mga in-laws nyo kung dapat nga ba silang maging kapamilya mo o hindi. :roll:
at saka mahirap ang matagal na living-in. kasi baka pag naisipan nyo na hind pala kayo sa isa't isa eh lusyang na yung babae at tuyot naman si lalake. paano na yung susunod na gustong tumotoo sa inyo??? :mrgreen:
pero hindi guarantee na no separations kapag nag living-in ng three years or more :|
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May 31st, 2003 03:55 AM #13The Bible says we should marry so that we don't sin in this regard.
Tough one, but it's the right thing to do.
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May 31st, 2003 08:30 AM #14kasal muna, una kaslanan ang live-in, pangalawa kawawa naman ang girl kung gagawin testingan
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May 31st, 2003 12:44 PM #15agree din ako, and living in is indeed a good way of getting to know ur partner.
Originally Posted by Karding
very well said mantoy 8) Originally Posted by mantoy
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May 31st, 2003 01:07 PM #16pero bakit parang sa ibang traditions ayaw ng ganito..
hinde ba masama ito? :roll:
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June 1st, 2003 04:49 PM #17i prefer live-in first.... dami nagseseperate pag kinasal na eh... at least ud have a chance of getting to know more of each other... may chance pa kayo kumalas if things didnt work out... saka na cguro marriage pag financially, physically, and emotionally stable na... but the prob is, papayagan ba ako ng parents ko if ever??? :cry:
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June 1st, 2003 07:19 PM #18and if what you get to know is not to your liking, paano na? separate?agree din ako, and living in is indeed a good way of getting to know ur partner.
why not change the question. how about "why not get to know each other well before jumping into bed?" or "do i love her/him enough that i will spend the rest of my life with her/him?"
i believe a live-in relationship is one of the most selfish relationships. it offers an easy way out. it gives either party the reason not to be faithful, to wander about and "test" other relationships. dahilan kasi nyan eh "sus, live-in lang naman kami, libre pa ako". is this the kind of life you want?
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June 1st, 2003 07:24 PM #19well, kung ganun man ang outlook nila sa living-in, then why live-in pa di ba kung may balak man kayong maging unfaithful... depende naman sa reasons and purpose nyo bakit kayo naglilive-in eh... one of the reasons is security... gusto makasiguro sa isa't isa... minsan, financial instability, di pa talaga kaya ng budget... depends nga sa reason nyo... IMHO
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June 1st, 2003 08:16 PM #20don't know why, pero yung mga kakilala kung nag live-in, di rin sila ang nagkatuluyan, tapos nakipag live in uli sa ibang partner, tsk, trial and error yata ginawa eh.
But i totally disagree sa live in, kasi main reason eh takot sila na baka pag kasal eh parang nakatali na sila, I mean kung sa lalake dapat ini intindi na niya yung magiging
situation ng babae, kasi sa pinoy di magandang tignan sa babae na may ka live in pero pag sa lalake ay ok lang, maawa naman siya sa partner niya, kung lalake ka talaga eh panagutan mo na yung pagsasama niyo sa isang bubong.:|
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