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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    Timid will be the last adjective that describes him. Alpha stance nga lalo na pag nagsalita, no joke. I've heard him in meetings. At sa work niya hindi siya aabot at that level kung hindi siya strong personality

    Clear naman na as it is now wala siya Romantic feelings, yun ang ina ask ko pano ibalik. Yun nga thread title, second chances. Is there a possibility kahit konti I want to do all I can

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    wala ka na dapat gawin, nagawa mo na lahat...nasa kanya na yan...but move on seiously, he's dragging you down...magagaya ka lang sa kanya na walang magiging partner...

    big time sa work, highest paid, alpha stance pati pag salita..tapos tele-telebabad lang pala oag dating sa babae..HS thug!

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    Quote Originally Posted by shadow View Post
    tyope in the sense na hinde alam kung ano gusto.. tele-telebabad parang TGIS a show dati
    Lockdown nga [emoji52]
    Quote Originally Posted by misseksaherada View Post
    Kapag malulunggkot ka lang at mag self destruct (like you said, suicide) kung hindi mangyari yung expectation mo.. Don't go further.. Tama na.. Mas gusto ko iprioritize mo yung welfare mo..
    You're so kind to me, pero 3 yrs nga ko self destruct nung wala siya sa life ko. Kahit sa US ako siya pa din isip ko
    Quote Originally Posted by shadow View Post
    wala ka na dapat gawin, nagawa mo na lahat...nasa kanya na yan...but move on seiously, he's dragging you down...magagaya ka lang sa kanya na walang magiging partner...

    big time sa work, highest paid, alpha stance pati pag salita..tapos tele-telebabad lang pala oag dating sa babae..HS thug!
    Maganda nga specs ng ex niya, I don't wanna talk about his past love life but I guess I came at the right time in 2017, though sabi ko nga sana 15 yrs earlier, pero baka naging young mother ako if that happened lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    Lockdown nga [emoji52]

    You're so kind to me, pero 3 yrs nga ko self destruct nung wala siya sa life ko. Kahit sa US ako siya pa din isip ko

    Maganda nga specs ng ex niya, I don't wanna talk about his past love life but I guess I came at the right time in 2017, though sabi ko nga sana 15 yrs earlier, pero baka naging young mother ako if that happened lol

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    Eh saan na nga mga exessss niya? Na realized nila na he's not the man they thought he is. Kaya nag moved na sila and living a happy life with real alpha.


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    #544
    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    Timid will be the last adjective that describes him. Alpha stance nga lalo na pag nagsalita, no joke. I've heard him in meetings. At sa work niya hindi siya aabot at that level kung hindi siya strong personality

    Clear naman na as it is now wala siya Romantic feelings, yun ang ina ask ko pano ibalik. Yun nga thread title, second chances. Is there a possibility kahit konti I want to do all I can

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    Both of you grew separately ng matagal e. Baka getting to know stage ulit yan o catch up..

    Bka kase different person na din sya.. Iba na trip nya gawin.. Priorities, Different needs na din ..

    Taking chances is also a test of patience. Lalo na when you're sure na i- regret mo yung not trying.

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    Guys naman, may hints naman pag may question sa manhood ng guy. Haha. Have you seen any screenshot conversation from him? A pic so you'll see what he wears? His activities? Fav songs nya? Artists? Ano cover photo nya sa fb? You know, things like that. Baka may mga na post na si mam cath such info before para mawala na doubts nyo.

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    #546
    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    You're so kind to me, pero 3 yrs nga ko self destruct nung wala siya sa life ko. Kahit sa US ako siya pa din isip ko
    Kung nahirapan ka na for 3 years.. Mas mahihirapan ka pa kapag well invested ka na sa time at feelings mo.. Nagawa mo na ang dapat Ms. Cathy.. Yung I miss you na tinawanan ka lang hindi cute yun.. Insulto yun sa honest feelings mo.. Right timing na yun to settle things tapos tawa lang.. Kung ano yung naramdaman mo.. Masakit di ba.. Yun na yung sagot.. Indirectly he said no..
    Ang lalaki kapag manligaw sa babae mahaba na 3 months.. kung gusto mo na yung guy sasagutin mo di ba..
    Hindi na issue ito ng past kung may kasalanan ka man na kailangan pagbayaran.. Mukhang move on na sya dun..
    Nanligaw ka na.. Nag I miss you na after more than 3 months.. Di ka pa rin miss.. Ikaw na mag interpret..

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    If you're hurting na sa huling sinabi ko.. Wag mo ituloy ang pagbasa neto.. Mas masasaktan kita..
    Yung isang assessment ko kaya hanggang ngayon hindi mo matanong sa kanya yung hard questions kasi ayaw mo malaman ang masakit na katotohanan.. You are delaying things kasi masaya ka sa false hope na pinaniniwalaan mo.. Na kapag malaman mo yung totoo masisira na ang lahat ng magaganda sa imagination mo..
    Sana mali ang naiisip ko..
    Basta main focus ko yung welfare and mental health mo. self destruct and bringing up suicide is not a joke.. Sorry everytime na naririnig ko yan..warning sign sakin yan..
    Kaya please stop ka na.. Seek for experts help.. Yun muna gawin mo. Unahin mo ang sarili mo..

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    #548
    Last edited by StockEngine; June 6th, 2020 at 05:31 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    Lockdown nga [emoji52]

    You're so kind to me, pero 3 yrs nga ko self destruct nung wala siya sa life ko. Kahit sa US ako siya pa din isip ko

    Maganda nga specs ng ex niya, I don't wanna talk about his past love life but I guess I came at the right time in 2017, though sabi ko nga sana 15 yrs earlier, pero baka naging young mother ako if that happened lol

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    So much discussion walang progress. I don't get why you just don't DTR.

    Bakit ayaw mong tanungin during one of your telebabads, "hey ano ba talaga tayo?"

    Hanggang hindi mo tinatanong yan bet ko +20 pages na tong thread na to wala pa ring nangyayari.

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    Come on!

    Dont talk to us!

    None of us here is gonna change how he sees you. ONLY YOU!


    Talk to him! And ask him!


    You can spend 100,000 words on this thread and answer so freely and readily and timely.

    But for the love of your life, the guy who occupies your thoughts 24x7 for the past 24,000 hours... you cant even ask 6 simple words:" What Do I Mean to You?"


    Come on!!!!!!!!!!!!




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    Quote Originally Posted by jut703 View Post
    So much discussion walang progress. I don't get why you just don't DTR.

    Bakit ayaw mong tanungin during one of your telebabads, "hey ano ba talaga tayo?"

    Hanggang hindi mo tinatanong yan bet ko +20 pages na tong thread na to wala pa ring nangyayari.

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    Because I know the answer to that question. We're friends.

    Ang question ko naman what I can do to change that, to transition from friend zone to GF.

    Also, April pala kami we didn't communicate because I did not respond to his messages. Buti nga pinansin ako ulit. That was the time I was at the peak of my anxiety. Pero May we talk regularly na

    I hate myself for sabotaging my happiness

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    #552
    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    Ang question ko naman what I can do to change that, to transition from friend zone to GF.
    Ms. Cathy, yan na iniisip mo ni hindi mo pa alam kung may asawa na sya at 3 anak.. Kung may gf na or kung nagbago na ba ***ual orientation..
    Kapag alam mo na sagot dyan.. Tsaka natin pag isipan yang friends to lovers.. Siguraduhin mo muna at baka mistress pala labas mo nyan..

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    #553
    Ask him:

    How can i make your day lighter?

    Do you wanna try a home cooked meal i made for you, i can grab it to your office. Just micro and enjoy.


    Why dont we do e-numan? I have a smashing playlist i wanna let you listen to over zoom. Lets a pop a bottle and reminisce !


    Etc.




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    Quote Originally Posted by uls View Post
    Cathy i'm not talking about age

    what i meant by naghahanap ka ng tatay is you're sick and tired of being the man of the house taking care of stuff and everyone in the house
    YES! Ilang taon na rin na ako ang "in charge" dito sa family namin. I am thankful that my Dad raised me to be independent but ultimately, babae pa rin ako and I want a man who is stronger than I am na alam ko masasandalan ko kung kailangan.

    Quote Originally Posted by uls View Post
    you're looking for a guy who will take that burden away from you and tell you "ako bahala"
    And I found that with crush. When I met him, I felt so protected and safe. I did NOT even ask that from him, I just felt it. Para ako nabunutan ng tinik sa dibdib, finally I can let loose, there is a person who can take care of me.

    Quote Originally Posted by uls View Post
    eh dahil may strong personality ka you tend to dominate men who can't impress you kaya maliit ang dating pool mo

    most men don't meet your standards kasi
    unfortunately. Kahit sa barkada ko na puro guys, they tease me about it, alam mo naman yung nickname ko na B.

    It's not just about the specs of the guy, he could be good looking, intelligent and successful, I still won't be attracted if he does not have my respect. So far I have not seen anything negative with crush, in fact I love him more each day (that sounds like a song)

    Quote Originally Posted by uls View Post
    kaya mga CEO type gusto mo kasi di mo sila kaya

    you tend to act like a baby (literally) with those men

    gusto mo bine-baby ka

    kaya ko sinabi naghahanap ka ng tatay
    Yes, my AVP boss literally says that he has a daughter na kindergarten at work (ME) hahaha! Technically same level na kami sa org because we report to the same person but until now I still call him boss :P

    I am just using the word alpha basta a guy with strong character, decisive, protective and in charge.

    Sawang sawa na ko with people pushing me kung kani kanino, but it is NOT easy for me to like a guy.

    SO that is one of the few reason why I am so heavily invested emotionally with crush

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    Quote Originally Posted by EQAddict View Post
    Ask him:

    How can i make your day lighter?

    Do you wanna try a home cooked meal i made for you, i can grab it to your office. Just micro and enjoy.


    Why dont we do e-numan? I have a smashing playlist i wanna let you listen to over zoom. Lets a pop a bottle and reminisce !


    Etc.




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    Thanks. This is the answer I was looking for. What I can do or say to win him back. Sana marami pang ibang ideas [emoji4]

    BTW I am not techy kasi gusto ko sana we are seeing the same screen. I wanna do a reaction to "my heart went oops" with him

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    Last edited by _Cathy_; June 6th, 2020 at 09:10 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by uls View Post
    haha

    sorry Shadow i kennat

    wala tayo magagawa kung Captain America tingin ni Cathy sa crush niya
    Cap lost in the first round, dut to the absurdities of the profession.
    good thing he had super friends and was able to wangle out a successful second round.

    bakit hindi derechohin ni C si C... "will you marry me?"
    who knows... the answer might be , "..thought you'd never ask."
    sagot ko ang cake.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    Thanks. This is the answer I was looking for. What I can do or say to win him back. Sana marami pang ibang ideas [emoji4]


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    maganda na idea ni eq
    bakit di mo pa gawin? pag pumalpak tska kana magtanong ng ibang ideas


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    Quote Originally Posted by ninjababez View Post
    maganda na idea ni eq
    bakit di mo pa gawin? pag pumalpak tska kana magtanong ng ibang ideas


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    Sinabi ko nga na gagawin ko e. I want more ideas, hindi naman ikaw ang gagawa, ako

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    Thanks. This is the answer I was looking for. What I can do or say to win him back. Sana marami pang ibang ideas [emoji4]

    BTW I am not techy kasi gusto ko sana we are seeing the same screen. I wanna do a reaction to "my heart went oops" with him

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    Share screen command in Zoom. U will both see d same thing.

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