Do you believe in second chances?

[misseksaherada]

may tanong sana ako sa summary ni Sir Uls kaso past is past..
ayan.. sana meron makabigay advice kung klaseng "diskarte" or gesture yung may pride pa din pero parang sinasabi "hey, i still like you..do you think there's still a chance for us?"

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[_Cathy_]

ookaay there's a reverend and a Rhonda Byrne...

simple lang eto...

it's pride

Cathy walked away from the guy and resisted contacting the guy (pride)

then 3 years later asked help from the guy

she's lucky the guy is even talking to her

now it's all business

di na tulad dati

syempre may pride din ung guy

wala na sa control ni Cathy kung maibabalik ung dati

it's up to the guy

ok sige nasa diskarte na ni Cathy kung kaya niya amohin ung guy hanggang maibalik ung dati

3 kayo nagsabi niyan sakin na dapat ko talaga amuhin and that I'm lucky he still talked to me, so that means there's still a chance... kaya I'm asking people here

First I need to work on being the best version of myself, then I have to make him amo. But honestly ang sakit talaga when he is being all business with me



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[_Cathy_]

may tanong sana ako sa summary ni Sir Uls kaso past is past..
ayan.. sana meron makabigay advice kung klaseng "diskarte" or gesture yung may pride pa din pero parang sinasabi "hey, i still like you..do you think there's still a chance for us?"

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Yan din tanong ko initially, how to win him back. Kahapon I made him laugh, ang saya saya ko [emoji4]

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[uls]

3 kayo nagsabi niyan sakin na dapat ko talaga amuhin and that I'm lucky he still talked to me, so that means there's still a chance... kaya I'm asking people here

First I need to work on being the best version of myself, then I have to make him amo. But honestly ang sakit talaga when he is being all business with me



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if you want him dapat mo tiisin ung all business treatment niya sayo

not only that, kailangan mo siya suyuin

so now it's a question of perserverance

gaano katagal mo kaya tiisin ung cold treatment niya sayo at gaano katagal mo kaya suyuin before your pride kicks in

[jmc21420]

Want an idea of crush's body type?



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A beta body, not alpha.
The smile is also beta.

I hope it’s only the body type.



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[misseksaherada]

Yan din tanong ko initially, how to win him back. Kahapon I made him laugh, ang saya saya ko [emoji4]

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Nice! Good vibes..
Ayan sana may maka sagot na Tsikoters coming from a man's perspective..
Wag natin masyadong laliman at i-dissect.. Wala tayo need i-resolve pa.. First base muna tayo.. yung swabeng pagpapansin lang para balik closeness pero may konting sign na mapunta sa romance.. hihihihi [emoji4]

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[_Cathy_]

Why expect this person to share his or her life with you, everything with you and for you, if you don't believe that you have the power to change or affect him.

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I want a relationship where we bring out the best in each other but I don't really want or expect to change crush. I want him for how he is now

Parang imposible din atang mapagbago ang isang tao.. Ang pagbabago sa sarili personal choice yun.. and agree din ako dun na kapag ginusto mo yung isang tao.. Package na yun kahit yung unlikeable/unlovable side nya..
Ang inaabangan ko Ms. Cathy dito ay meron makapag advice ng kung paano magpapansin sa crush ng swabe lang.. yung hindi agressive pero ***y or cute yung may impact.. Small gestures na yung mapapaisip ang guy.. Kaso ang tagal na ng paghihintay ko walang makasagot.. Hehe
Naku normal yan Ms. Cathy.. Dumating pa ako sa level dati na kapag naglalakad ako sa mall akala ko minsan sya yung tao na kasalubong ko..may picture sa office na akala ko sya.. Hahaha akala ko nga sa pelikula lang pero nangyari sakin yun.. Pero matibay paninindigan ko nilabanan ko ng todo feelings ko.. nagwagi naman ako.. hehehe..
Kaya your choice po kung pipiliin mo pa din si Mr. Crush or just move on.. either sa choice na yun magiging maligaya ka.. pili ka lang kung saan ka pede masaktan din ulet at kung worth it ba..

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Yup since puro guys dito, maganda din malaman what men want. Wala na rin pride ko (but I still have self respect and dignity) I just want him back

Naku when I watch shawn mendes siya naiisip ko. Haha. I'm so crazy for him. Siguro totoo nga na some people are biologically compatible with each other kasi I really lust for him pero with other men 0 lust talaga.

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[misseksaherada]

But honestly ang sakit talaga when he is being all business with me

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Ok lang yan Ms. Cathy.. Maging motivation mo sana yung magandang future nyo together.. At wag sana mangyari yung sinabi ni Sir Uls na magkick-in ulet pride mo.. Ang tagal ng tiniis mo.. at di naging madali yun.. kaya go.. if buo na ang loob mo ulet na masaktan panindigan mo na.. kesa pagsisihan mo yung mga "what ifs" na di mo nagawa..

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[uls]

haha si Miss-eks

mukhang meron gustong suyuin na lalake

huy dalhan mo ng pagkain personally

[_Cathy_]

if you want him dapat mo tiisin ung all business treatment niya sayo

not only that, kailangan mo siya suyuin

so now it's a question of perserverance

gaano katagal mo kaya tiisin ung cold treatment niya sayo at gaano katagal mo kaya suyuin before your pride kicks in

Parang my heart is being stabbed every he gives me those business lines that are cold as ice tapos kahit malambing sagot ko, ako ang "last to reply"

Yun lang, kilala mo talaga ko hahaha! Dahil I'm afraid I can only take so much "rejection" Di ko gawain maghabol ng lalaki (I think it's against nature) kaya 3 taon ako nagtiis not to contact him.

A beta body, not alpha.
The smile is also beta.

I hope it’s only the body type.



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He is as alpha as one can get. I grew up with alpha males and I know one when I see one. He doesn't look like shawn Mendes but they both have mesomorph bodies (tall, lean and broad shoulders) I don't like gym bodies, kinda looks gay to me

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