Do you believe in second chances?

**_Cathy_** · July 7th, 2020 08:51 PM

Starting today I will not initiate texting him anymore.

He always has control on when he will call, message or see me. Para lang akong kabit, all I do is wait, wait and wait. That was okay when we were together because he would communicate often, but now even when I ask him, he says no or ignores me.

I wish my feelings for him will totally disappear na, unrequited love

Sobrang sakit, he knows I am feeling so down

Iibahin ko na ang dasal ko... I can totally relate to this scene now.

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**shadow** · July 7th, 2020 09:16 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Starting today I will not initiate texting him anymore.

He always has control on when he will call, message or see me. Para lang akong kabit, all I do is wait, wait and wait. That was okay when we were together because he would communicate often, but now even when I ask him, he says no or ignores me.

I wish my feelings for him will totally disappear na, unrequited love

Sobrang sakit, he knows I am feeling so down

Iibahin ko na ang dasal ko... I can totally relate to this scene now.

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We all have choices.

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**ray_noel** · July 7th, 2020 09:22 PM

iiyak na yan! iiyak na yan!

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**_Cathy_** · July 8th, 2020 12:03 PM

Originally Posted by shadow

We all have choices.

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Masochist yata ako. I always choose to hurt

But now it's final, I won't run after him anymore. It's all up to him. I did everything I could, lahat ng payo dito to ask him out and tell him how I feel.

Originally Posted by ray_noel

iiyak na yan! iiyak na yan!

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I've been crying since yesterday

Masama talaga loob ko kay crush, he knew very well that I'm down in the dumps and he can't even bother to reply to my short message.

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**shadow** · July 8th, 2020 12:46 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Masochist yata ako. I always choose to hurt

But now it's final, I won't run after him anymore. It's all up to him. I did everything I could, lahat ng payo dito to ask him out and tell him how I feel.

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**EQAddict** · July 8th, 2020 02:37 PM

Well no one can blame you for not trying. You can walk with your chin up and head held high. At least there was no stone that you left unturned.

Sleep easy at night knowing you did everything.

And when you say "with finality"...you have to mean it. Dont go crawling back just because he sends you an sms.

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**_Cathy_** · July 9th, 2020 03:36 PM

Originally Posted by EQAddict

Well no one can blame you for not trying. You can walk with your chin up and head held high. At least there was no stone that you left unturned.

Sleep easy at night knowing you did everything.

And when you say "with finality"...you have to mean it. Dont go crawling back just because he sends you an sms.

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Thank you. Yes, final na talaga na I won't run after him, if he wants me back, siya gumawa ng move, basta ako tapos na ko sa paghahabol :P I am not cutting him out of my life though, I am still friends with 2 of my exes.

What I like about crush is I learn a lot, I enjoy picking the brain of a high power executive kasi, plus we share the same values. When I talk to him, parang escape from my problems na rin, pero definitely not gonna initiate texting anymore (since most of the time seen zone naman ako

) and I won't be dreaming or fantasizing about us getting back together.

**Little Missy** · July 9th, 2020 04:47 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

What I like about crush is I learn a lot, I enjoy picking the brain of a high power executive kasi

Haha, I get you Cath. There's this guy that I like pero hindi ko papatulan kasi separated and that's my non nego (kasal pa rin eh). But I really like picking his brain coz I feel like some of that will rub off on me and I'm being pushed to be better. A UP Philosophy grad, works two jobs, one in IT and another as a freelance consultant. Ambitious and self made, reminds me of Hamilton actually hehe.

I actually still wanted him around but to him its either we date or not. Parang if he can't get a piece of my booty I can't get a piece of his brain. Haha joke. [emoji111][emoji16]

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**_Cathy_** · July 9th, 2020 04:58 PM

Originally Posted by Little Missy

Haha, I get you Cath. There's this guy that I like pero hindi ko papatulan kasi separated and that's my non nego (kasal pa rin eh). But I really like picking his brain coz I feel like some of that will rub off on me and I'm being pushed to be better. A UP Philosophy grad, works two jobs, one in IT and another as a freelance consultant. Ambitious and self made, reminds me of Hamilton actually hehe.

I actually still wanted him around but to him its either we date or not. Parang if he can't get a piece of my booty I can't get a piece of his brain. Haha joke. [emoji111][emoji16]

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hahaha! Pareho pala tayo, importante talaga ang substance sakin when it comes to men, deal breaker sakin a guy who is not well spoken. I also agree on your non negotiable, it's hard enough to maintain a relationship, it's even harder when there is an ex wife.

Ako naman, since I CANNOT get a piece of HIS booty, I will just get a piece HIS brain! hahaha!

**ray_noel** · July 10th, 2020 01:18 AM

Meron din pala maBoteng usapan ang mga girls na version...

Sa kanila naman, mabooty call usapan.... hehe.. [emoji3577]

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**_Cathy_** · July 10th, 2020 01:24 AM

Originally Posted by ray_noel

Meron din pala maBoteng usapan ang mga girls na version...

Sa kanila naman, mabooty call usapan.... hehe.. [emoji3577]

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I have close friends that talk to me in detail about their intimate life and then there are some that are totally tight lipped about it.

**_Cathy_** · July 13th, 2020 05:06 AM

Spoke with my wild friend for hours, she called me because she couldn't believe when I told her that I'm not on the phone with any guy and that I've been single since 2017 LOL!

I think my friend is stuck with 2004 Cathy ( this was when she left the Philippines) Dati kasi hindi ako makakatulog pag hindi ko kausap bf/mu/date ko before bed lol!

She could not believe that I would hang on to one guy for that long. "Bumaliktad" na rin, from asking me if I know another guy like crush, to telling me to start dating other guys because there is no future together

We stopped communicating regularly in the late 2000s kasi. Ang laki na pala ng pinagbago ko in over a decade, now that we're talking regularly, I'm reminded of the old me.

**EQAddict** · July 13th, 2020 12:02 PM

Why do you call her wild friend? Cant it be just "friend?"

Why label her as wild (which is negative in most conversations) when she is in fact your friend?

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**_Cathy_** · July 13th, 2020 02:42 PM

Originally Posted by EQAddict

Why do you call her wild friend? Cant it be just "friend?"

Why label her as wild (which is negative in most conversations) when she is in fact your friend?

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She knows it naman, I used to call her UCB pa nga (United Colors of Benetton) because she has been with every race ROFL! She is like a sister to me, we used to be inseparable before she left the Philippines, then we stopped communicating regularly when she got together with her BF who is married. I warned her so many times but she stayed with him 10 yrs until she was recently replaced for a younger woman

I used to be judgmental of women who go for married men, but not anymore, it was only last night when she said na she gets beaten up and raped. I thought they were happy because they travelled the world together, but behind those pictures daw were a lot of fights. I was really shocked that she put up with that, I told her when we were young she was such a free spirit and no man can hold her down, what the fck happened

She was manipulated big time, and the guy is 15 yrs older! Ex did worse things but it's too dark to discuss na. Guy sucked the youth and happiness out of her daw, he was an emotional vampire. I am glad though that she is rebuilding her life again and we talk regularly na.

**sean-archer** · July 13th, 2020 08:40 PM

Originally Posted by EQAddict

Why do you call her wild friend? Cant it be just "friend?"

Why label her as wild (which is negative in most conversations) when she is in fact your friend?

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Diversity, mam cath needs to think of labels para ma differentiate natin mga tao sa buhay nya. Help me enumerate.

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**_Cathy_** · July 14th, 2020 03:39 AM

For the past few days, there's always something that makes me fall out of love for ex-crush even more

Pababa ng pababa yung points.

How could he not tell me about his job, talagang I don't matter to him anymore.

**Little Missy** · July 14th, 2020 03:42 AM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

How could he not tell me about his job, talagang I don't matter to him anymore.

You don't know what he does for a living?

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**_Cathy_** · July 14th, 2020 03:47 AM

I do but he didn't tell me he recently got promoted. I only know his room got upgraded kasi nasa topic of conversation namin

Diba those things you share with people important to you, so I guess I really don't matter to him. I had to find out pa sa internet. I'm starting to hate him

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**travajante** · July 14th, 2020 04:05 AM

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**Little Missy** · July 14th, 2020 04:07 AM

Diba dati pa natin naestablish na "he's not there" nga, bakit may expectations pa rin?

Di ko nga gets why he still talks to you when there's nothing in it for him. Ayaw ka niya idate, he's also not in it for ***. Friendship? Pinagsamahan?

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