Dating Apps (Tinder, Bumble, Badoo etc)

[_Cathy_]

so she falls for 3-anak-guy and forgets the other one haha




gusto mo magpakipot pa siya

beggar nga tapos gusto mo mag inarte pa siya

baka mawala pa yan

habang interesado ung guy go

She went from bad to worse. From a guy with 1 kid to a guy with 3 kids.

But why would she want a guy with 3 kids interested in her? Unfair sa guy kasi he is looking for a serious relationship daw pero si He Huang told me she wants to experience dating lang. That is if she doesn't fall... masyado delikado e

eh, 'di ganun na nga! role model ka!

I told her over and over I am the wrong person kasi all my relationships are failed pero she wants lang to get treated the way the guys I dated treat me

Sent from my SM-M127F using Tapatalk

[uls]

But why would she want a guy with 3 kids interested in her?

she just wants to experience being on a date

ung may table at upuan

haha

Unfair sa guy kasi he is looking for a serious relationship daw pero si He Huang told me she wants to experience dating lang.

hayaan mo ung guy

risk niya yan sa pagsali sa bumble

[Little Missy]

Wag ka maawa dun sa guy gusto nila yan. The want the struggle, they want to work for something.

Sent from my LYA-L29 using Tsikot Forums mobile app

[uls]

kaya nga

why the concern for the guy

[uls]

what's the worse that could happen?

the guy spends a few thousand and feels used

yun lang

[_Cathy_]

Wag ka maawa dun sa guy gusto nila yan. The want the struggle, they want to work for something.

Sent from my LYA-L29 using Tsikot Forums mobile app

kaya nga

why the concern for the guy

Ayoko lang din masira mga babae in general. Alam ko din naman issue ng lalaki sa dating like yun isang friend ko yung isang dinate niya one way lahat Ghosted him.

Sent from my SM-M127F using Tapatalk

[_Cathy_]

what's the worse that could happen?

the guy spends a few thousand and feels used

yun lang

Yun na nga. Ang sama ng stereotype na women use men

Sent from my SM-M127F using Tapatalk

[Little Missy]

Yun na nga. Ang sama ng stereotype na women use men

Sent from my SM-M127F using Tapatalk

Whaaat.
Naku don't get me started shut up na ko hahaha

Sent from my LYA-L29 using Tsikot Forums mobile app

[uls]

nasira din naman mga lalake sa gawain ng kapwa lalake

"lahat ng lalake manloloko"

damay tuloy mga loyal hehe

[Little Missy]

Try to make it easy for a man and they quickly lose interest.

Sent from my LYA-L29 using Tsikot Forums mobile app

[_Cathy_]

Whaaat.
Naku don't get me started shut up na ko hahaha

Sent from my LYA-L29 using Tsikot Forums mobile app

why? hahaha! It's all over social media (reddit, youtube, podcasts etc) Meron naman talaga that do it (kawawa din mga simps minsan) Pero marami pa din matinong babae

[uls]

don't get her started

haha

[_Cathy_]

Try to make it easy for a man and they quickly lose interest.

Sent from my LYA-L29 using Tsikot Forums mobile app

Yan din ang mahirap sa pagiging babae.

Ultimately hawak pa rin talaga ng lalaki yung pace ng relationship. My elders and friends always tell me na ang babae natututo magmahal. I have friends who weren't in love when they got married, it's just that these men gave them stability (emotionally more than financially) Yung alam nilang mas mahal sila kaya hindi sila magpro problema. Ako kasi hindi ko talaga kaya I need to be in love.

[Little Missy]

Yan din ang mahirap sa pagiging babae.

Ultimately hawak pa rin talaga ng lalaki yung pace ng relationship.

Dapat icontrol ng babae ang pace.
Parang video game, pag sobrang dali they lose interest. Hindi challenging. Same pag sobrang hirap and impossible manalo sa game.

[_Cathy_]

Dapat icontrol ng babae ang pace.
Parang video game, pag sobrang dali they lose interest. Hindi challenging. Same pag sobrang hirap and impossible manalo sa game.

Sent from my LYA-L29 [/URL]

That's true kaya now that I am older, naiintindihan ko why they call marriage "paglagay sa tahimik" The dating world is a jungle talaga. But then again marriage isn't a guarantee din na magiging tahimik buhay

Kaya ayoko ma attach kasi hindi mo alam when they will lose interest kaya inuunahan ko na

Sent from my SM-N960F using Tapatalk

[uls]

That's true kaya now that I am older, naiintindihan ko why they call marriage "paglagay sa tahimik" The dating world is a jungle talaga. But then again marriage isn't a guarantee din na magiging tahimik buhay

Kaya ayoko ma attach kasi hindi mo alam when they will lose interest kaya inuunahan ko na

Sent from my SM-N960F using Tapatalk

so how can you get married if you sabotage all your relationships early on

whenever you start getting attached igoghost mo

then back to zero meet someone new, get to know each other, start getting attached, ghost

repeat

[uls]

tapos sasabihin mo:

I need to be in love.

pero pag naramdaman mo nahuhulog ka na sasabotahe mo

haha

[_Cathy_]

tapos sasabihin mo:



pero pag naramdaman mo nahuhulog ka na sasabotahe mo

haha

Kaya nga I'm fcked until I get professional help. Wala talagang tatagal

Sent from my SM-N960F using Tapatalk

[Little Missy]

Kaya nga I'm fcked until I get professional help. Wala talagang tatagal

Sent from my SM-N960F using Tapatalk

Do you know your attachment style?
I'm fearful avoidant (the worst) and I'm the same as you. I also self sabotage when I meet someone I like.

This is the closest to explain it.
The Quote Circle on Instagram: "What do you self sabotage with?

Spoken by *africabrooke

#africabrooke #lifesdelicious #selfsabotage #lifequotes"

I met someone online (Mapua+Pisay guy) and the moment I realized I like him sabi ko I don't think it will work tapos binlock ko lol.



Sent from my LYA-L29 using Tsikot Forums mobile app

[_Cathy_]

Do you know your attachment style?
I'm fearful avoidant (the worst) and I'm the same as you. I also self sabotage when I meet someone I like.

This is the closest to explain it.
The Quote Circle on Instagram: "What do you self sabotage with?

Spoken by *africabrooke

#africabrooke #lifesdelicious #selfsabotage #lifequotes"

I met someone online (Mapua+Pisay guy) and the moment I realized I like him sabi ko I don't think it will work tapos binlock ko lol.



Sent from my LYA-L29 using Tsikot Forums mobile app

I don't e kaya I wanna seek professional help kasi even in my teens ganito na ko. I want the guy crazy about me and has to be consistent. Once that tapers (?), I can't accept that. I was ghosting people even before the term was invented Lalo na pre social media ang dali mawala. Just don't answer the landline and mobile.

Even with females I do that too

Sent from my SM-N960F using Tapatalk