Dating Apps (Tinder, Bumble, Badoo etc)

[_Cathy_]

My friend He Huang called me past midnight telling me that she will meet with Mr Father of 3 later in the evening. They've only been chatting for 2 weeks and within the app (no phone numbers or full names exchanged)

I could feel that she is super kilig about a guy offering to pick her up, but I told her NEVER magpasundo or magpahatid. Balak niya to say that she is not comfortable riding in his car because it's their first time to meet I told her no need to say that and just tell him she will meet him. She is super kilig that the guy is from Laguna and willing to pick her up sa North. Then the guy said Greenbelt sila (nice venue at least) but no concrete plans on how they will spend the day (parang si Mr Annulment)

I don't know pero sakin RED FLAG si Mr Father of 3. Definitely hindi ako kikiligin, and I wouldn't even meet with a guy with that many children So she is asking me ano ba outfit niya and what perfume etc. How's that for experience/pampalipas oras lang e she is acting like she has a crush on they guy na I am really worried about her because she said the same thing about Mr Annulment that she won't fall.

Parang gusto ko na naman siyang sabihan ng have some standards. Hindi porque naman she wants to experience dating e lahat na lang ng magalok e mag yes siya? Or am I wrong?

[Little Missy]

Kung mala-Ernie Lopez why not.

https://youtu.be/B9CsU_m9_2I?si=c8Ry1_SrGNm9I7oc

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[uls]

Hindi porque naman she wants to experience dating e lahat na lang ng magalok e mag yes siya? Or am I wrong?

as if naman sampu ang nag alok and she went out with all of them

3 taon sa bumble 2nd guy who asked her out

magiging choosy pa siya?

[dr. d]

My friend He Huang called me past midnight telling me that she will meet with Mr Father of 3 later in the evening. They've only been chatting for 2 weeks and within the app (no phone numbers or full names exchanged)

I could feel that she is super kilig about a guy offering to pick her up, but I told her NEVER magpasundo or magpahatid. Balak niya to say that she is not comfortable riding in his car because it's their first time to meet I told her no need to say that and just tell him she will meet him. She is super kilig that the guy is from Laguna and willing to pick her up sa North. Then the guy said Greenbelt sila (nice venue at least) but no concrete plans on how they will spend the day (parang si Mr Annulment)

I don't know pero sakin RED FLAG si Mr Father of 3. Definitely hindi ako kikiligin, and I wouldn't even meet with a guy with that many children So she is asking me ano ba outfit niya and what perfume etc. How's that for experience/pampalipas oras lang e she is acting like she has a crush on they guy na I am really worried about her because she said the same thing about Mr Annulment that she won't fall.

Parang gusto ko na naman siyang sabihan ng have some standards. Hindi porque naman she wants to experience dating e lahat na lang ng magalok e mag yes siya? Or am I wrong?

yes, she's acting like a teenager on her first date.
sabi nga sa 'taas, "kilig na kilig dahil someone actually wants to take her out!"
so what's her long-term plan?

[uls]

so what's her long-term plan?

he huang's ultimate goal in joining bumble is to find someone who will marry her

[Walter]

or bed her ... or maybe listen to her stand-up comedy ...

[_Cathy_]

Kung mala-Ernie Lopez why not.

https://youtu.be/B9CsU_m9_2I?si=c8Ry1_SrGNm9I7oc

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kaso hindi e

as if naman sampu ang nag alok and she went out with all of them

3 taon sa bumble 2nd guy who asked her out

magiging choosy pa siya?

4 years and 3 guys. 1st was Mr Annulment in Early 2023, 2nd was a manyak guy. He tried to chancing so many times when they were together, after that nag cut comms na. 3rd is this guy.

Well, if she can see herself dating and marrying a guy with 3 kids. Most women won't touch single Dads with a 10 ft pole. Dating a single Dad is harder than a Single Mom (that's all over reddit and forums)

yes, she's acting like a teenager on her first date.
sabi nga sa 'taas, "kilig na kilig dahil someone actually wants to take her out!"
so what's her long-term plan?

like uls said, to get married

UPDATE: Nag video call sila after we talked (past midnight) She said okay magsalita so I asked kung conyo speak ba? And she said hindi naman kasi Tagalog. Kapag ba Tagalog hindi na conyo speak?

The guy is from MIT daw so I assumed MAPUA but the guy said abroad so MASSACHUSSETS INSTITUTE OF TECHNOLOGY? Battered husband daw kaya nag annul

A few hours ago date date lang pero ngayon nagbago na ihip ng hangin and she is okay being a stepmom to 3 kids. Nasa guy daw most of her checklist, he is God fearing. WOW that's just after a video call. I feel like pulling my hair out. I hope talaga this guy is not a player.

[uls]

4 years and 3 guys.

kaya wala siya sa position maging choosy

[_Cathy_]

ang takot ko lang naman yung paglaruan lang siya or gamitin ng lalaki

pump and dump, hit it and quit it, fun then run...

[uls]

Well, if she can see herself dating and marrying a guy with 3 kids.

why not

The guy is from MIT daw so I assumed MAPUA but the guy said abroad so MASSACHUSSETS INSTITUTE OF TECHNOLOGY?

if the guy went to MIT he must be very intelligent

and may kaya ang pamilya to send him to MIT

A few hours ago date date lang pero ngayon nagbago na ihip ng hangin and she is okay being a stepmom to 3 kids. Nasa guy daw most of her checklist, he is God fearing. WOW that's just after a video call. I feel like pulling my hair out. I hope talaga this guy is not a player.

sounds like the date went well

[_Cathy_]

why not



if the guy went to MIT he must be very intelligent

and may kaya ang pamilya to send him to MIT



sounds like the date went well

Why not??!?!! 3 KIDS and a crazy ex. That's why

Very few women would date a guy with 3 kids. May mga naka match ako na ganyan and I could sense it yung "desperation"

Hindi pa sila nagkikita, nag video call pa lang

Anyway, iba lang siguro values namin because my family will never allow it. Single na lang my lola says.



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[uls]

if he huang followed your advice -- maghintay dumating ang ideal guy

she's never gonna get married

[_Cathy_]

if he huang followed your advice -- mahintay dumating ang ideal guy

she's never gonna get married

Wag naman sa 3 anak. Kung 1 anak pwede pa.

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[uls]

Anyway, iba lang siguro values namin because my family will never allow it. Single na lang my lola says.

kung lahat ng tao sa pinas needed the approval of family bago mag asawa, there would be far less married people in PH

[uls]

Hindi pa sila nagkikita, nag video call pa lang

hindi ba magkikita na dapat sila kagabi?

[Little Missy]

if the guy went to MIT he must be very intelligent

and may kaya ang pamilya to send him to MIT

Nanghinayang ako bwiset
Ang tanga tanga ko. Damn childhood trauma and attachment issues lol.


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[uls]

February 18th, 2024 03:24 AM
My friend He Huang called me past midnight telling me that she will meet with Mr Father of 3 later in the evening.

so mamyang gabi?

[_Cathy_]

so mamyang gabi?

yeah mamayang gabi pa sila magkikita

Nag video call lang may thoughts of marriage and a step Mom na. Pero mukhang yun naman ang hanap ng guy, someone to mother his children since he has custody. Saka baka siya lang pumayag to date him?

[Little Missy]

Pero mukhang yun naman ang hanap ng guy, someone to mother his children since he has custody. Saka baka siya lang pumayag to date him?

Yan ang problema with dating guys with kid/s eh.
As a woman gusto mo yung someone who would add value, who will make your life better. Unless he's like Chiz Ecudero na all Heart has to do is be herself, parang lugi. Kaya ba niya to provide for his kids and then for the new woman in his life. Or the woman has to help raise his kids. Pag ganun parang mas mabuti pang single na lang and all you have to think about is yourself.

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[Little Missy]

Pero maraming ganung set up na nagwork. Joe and Jill Biden. Chiz and Heart.

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