Dating Apps (Tinder, Bumble, Badoo etc)

[uls]

ang daw age ng mga anak?

[_Cathy_]

Yan ang problema with dating guys with kid/s eh.
As a woman gusto mo yung someone who would add value, who will make your life better. Unless he's like Chiz Ecudero na all Heart has to do is be herself, parang lugi. Kaya ba niya to provide for his kids and then for the new woman in his life. Or the woman has to help raise his kids. Pag ganun parang mas mabuti pang single na lang and all you have to think about is yourself.

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She will definitely help raise because he has full custody

Sa nature kasi ng babae gusto natin tayo at mga anak natin ang priority. I fell in love with a guy with one child pero I realized hindi ko talaga kaya and no matter how he was my dream guy (except for the son part) I cut him off. The mother will always be in the shadow and it's hard enough sa buo magkakapatid, what more ang half? Plus my family will never approve of him.

Kaya babad din ako dati sa forums and blogs on how it's like to date or marry a man with children, and that cemented my decision na rin. These are hundreds of feedback from women and 90% said DO NOT DO IT.

Pero maraming ganung set up na nagwork. Joe and Jill Biden. Chiz and Heart.

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I think that's more of an exception

ang daw age ng mga anak?

Hindi ko pa alam. Palagay ko naghahanap yan ng nanay sa mga anak niya





Agree ako sa 1 to 6 esp 4. The guy is specific na he only wants to date single women, so ayaw niya i share resources niya sa spawn ng ibang lalaki haha.



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[_Cathy_]

Update: The guy was based in Canada for over 20 yrs. Last year umuwi pinas at nagka GF. Nag break, now looking again. Yung kids nasa Canada pa.

I think if this date goes well, malaki pag asa ni He Huang ikasal. Dalhin siya sa Canada, taga alaga ng anak

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[Little Missy]

I once was in a talking stage with a single dad na "widower". Didn't work out, we never even made it to the first date. I did the Math and it's not Mathing.

1. I learned na hindi sila kasal ng late ex niya. I asked him why, hindi daw niya priority. I'm dating to marry and if he didn't marry the mother of his child whom he was with for 16 years, what makes me think he will change his mind for me.

2. He planned to buy the house he is renting, as in may usapan na sila ng landlord. But mukhang mapopostpone coz he needs to buy a new car (he can't let the women he dates sit on the passenger seat of their car. Siya na ang may baggage siya pa ang may ganitong arte). Dati daw may kahati siya sa ganitong plans but now wala na. Makes me think, this is a 50-50 guy. He's gonna expect his future partner to buy the house with him, pero hindi naman sila kasal. And when the time comes they both die who will have the house? His kid with the deceased partner (he also has no plans about having another child).

3. The new girl will be competing with the late partner. He brings her up so much he's almost mind conditioning na "ganito yung partner ko, ganito yung papalitan mo". It's like he wants me to perform for him and I'm not about it.

4. Okay naman siya, very decent and masarap kausap maganda boses, conyo. Generally it's misalignment of values. Ayoko na lang din patagalin knowing walang future it's just a waste of time and emotional investment.




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[_Cathy_]

I once was in a talking stage with a single dad na "widower". Didn't work out, we never even made it to the first date. I did the Math and it's not Mathing.

1. I learned na hindi sila kasal ng late ex niya. I asked him why, hindi daw niya priority. I'm dating to marry and if he didn't marry the mother of his child whom he was with for 16 years, what makes me think he will change his mind for me.

2. He planned to buy the house he is renting, as in may usapan na sila ng landlord. But mukhang mapopostpone coz he needs to buy a new car (he can't let the women he dates sit on the passenger seat of their car. Siya na ang may baggage siya pa ang may ganitong arte). Dati daw may kahati siya sa ganitong plans but now wala na. Makes me think, this is a 50-50 guy. He's gonna expect his future partner to buy the house with him, pero hindi naman sila kasal. And when the time comes they both die who will have the house? His kid with the deceased partner (he also has no plans about having another child).

3. The new girl will be competing with the late partner. He brings her up so much he's almost mind conditioning na "ganito yung partner ko, ganito yung papalitan mo". It's like he wants me to perform for him and I'm not about it.

4. Okay naman siya, very decent and masarap kausap maganda boses, conyo. Generally it's misalignment of values. Ayoko na lang din patagalin knowing walang future it's just a waste of time and emotional investment.




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Red flags all over. You made the right decision.

Ang issue ko kay He Huang ang bilis ma inlove and wears rose tinted glasses :twak:

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[_Cathy_]

2 weeks pa lang magka chat and the guy asked him what kind of wedding she wants

This looks like love bombing

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[uls]

he's taking advantage of he huang's inexperience and pagka-needy but that's not love bombing

love bombing is more like high level of attention

like imemessage mo ung girl everyday consistently without fail (kahit hindi ka type ng girl)

in time, so sobrang consistent mo, the girl becomes conditioned to expect your messages

sa sobra consistent mo (kasing consistent ng sunrise and sunset), natalo mo ibang guys na nagmemessage sa kanya

now you got the girl's attention

love bombing takes time to work

[_Cathy_]

he's taking advantage of he huang's inexperience and pagka-needy but that's not love bombing

love bombing is more like high level of attention

like imemessage mo ung girl everyday consistently without fail (kahit hindi ka type ng girl)

in time, so sobrang consistent mo, the girl becomes conditioned to expect your messages

sa sobra reliable mo, natalo mo mga ibang guys na nagmemessage sa kanya

now you got the girl's attention

love bombing takes time tow work

Feeling ko magsisimula na ng love bombing kasi daily na magka chat saka limot na ni he huang si mr annulment. Si Mr 3 kids na ang iniisip niyang asawa haha

Saka he says all she wants to hear e like serious relationship and marriage and he asked her out agad. Feeling ko pa dadalhin siya sa restaurant na maganda na for he huang. Lalo mai inlove!

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[uls]

abangan nalang namin ang kwento about the date tonight

hehe

[_Cathy_]

He Huang shows me some of her matches. Never kami nagka same match except for that one Xavier guy that went silent on her 🤣 It seems like iba market namin, plus when I see may anak na sa profile autopass ako.

She is ranting to me now about how her 10 yr ex took her for granted. Siguro dahil ngayon may experience na siya na nililibre ng guy (kahit buko juice from Mr Annulment) I swear, if this guy takes her to a restaurant kahit casual dining baka mainlove na ng sobra sobra

Siya pala gumagastos sa 10 yr ex niya pag date. I am shocked at how some women can take that. If a guy makes me pay on the first date, there won't be a second.

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[Little Missy]

Siya pala gumagastos sa 10 yr ex niya pag date. I am shocked at how some women can take that. If a guy makes me pay on the first date, there won't be a second.

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The 2010s girl boss feminism failed us.

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[uls]

He Huang shows me some of her matches. Never kami nagka same match except for that one Xavier guy that went silent on her �� It seems like iba market namin, plus when I see may anak na sa profile autopass ako.

syempre iba specs niyo eh

She is ranting to me now about how her 10 yr ex took her for granted. Siguro dahil ngayon may experience na siya na nililibre ng guy (kahit buko juice from Mr Annulment) I swear, if this guy takes her to a restaurant kahit casual dining baka mainlove na ng sobra sobra

Siya pala gumagastos sa 10 yr ex niya pag date. I am shocked at how some women can take that. If a guy makes me pay on the first date, there won't be a second.

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kaya sabi ko he huang's bar is so low that any guy who treats her better than her ex magugustuhan niya

kaya she doesn't feel offended sa car "date"

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compared to a girl who always gets princess treatment mahirap maimpress

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kaya kailangan maexperience ni he huang better treatment para tumaas ang bar niya

[_Cathy_]

He Huang and Mr 3 kids had dinner at BGC then had coffee at Starbucks. He paid for dinner and she paid for coffee.

So the guy is VP for a company (lived in Canada for 20 yrs) so he has enough money for all his children and they are all in Canada now. He is looking for a partner na lang talaga

The guy is super SHORT kasi halos ka height lang ni He Huang who is 5 foot tall!!!! I told He Huang NOT to ride his car pero matigas ulo. Again they TALKED in his car. He asked if they can have a RELATIONSHIP na. His exact words was "I will treat you like a princess" He Huang said she does not even know his name and if he is really annulled. He won't take advantage of her. He Huang said na overwhelm siya sa bilis ng guy. They've only been chatting for 2 weeks and this is the first meet up!!! He Huang also said she wants marriage and the guy said if she wants it he can give it. Is that guy for real? Parang he is just saying all she wants to hear.

He held his hand, then said let me hug you, then he kissed her ear, then he licked her ear, grabbed her boobs then kissed her lips. WTF!!! I am disappointed that my friend allowed this on the first meet up.

But now she is contemplating on dating him pa. Wala daw siya FB kasi super private his work na parang top ewan.

What do you guys think???? Ang fear ko kasi he was just use her or wants her for s3x?

[falken]

He Huang and Mr 3 kids had dinner at BGC then had coffee at Starbucks. He paid for dinner and she paid for coffee.

So the guy is VP for a company (lived in Canada for 20 yrs) so he has enough money for all his children and they are all in Canada now. He is looking for a partner na lang talaga

The guy is super SHORT kasi halos ka height lang ni He Huang who is 5 foot tall!!!! I told He Huang NOT to ride his car pero matigas ulo. Again they TALKED in his car. He asked if they can have a RELATIONSHIP na. His exact words was "I will treat you like a princess" He Huang said she does not even know his name and if he is really annulled. He won't take advantage of her. He Huang said na overwhelm siya sa bilis ng guy. They've only been chatting for 2 weeks and this is the first meet up!!! He Huang also said she wants marriage and the guy said if she wants it he can give it. Is that guy for real? Parang he is just saying all she wants to hear.

He held his hand, then said let me hug you, then he kissed her ear, then he licked her ear, grabbed her boobs then kissed her lips. WTF!!! I am disappointed that my friend allowed this on the first meet up.

But now she is contemplating on dating him pa. Wala daw siya FB kasi super private his work na parang top ewan.

What do you guys think???? Ang fear ko kasi he was just use her or wants her for s3x?

Hmm, ear licking and boob grabbing on the 1st date. Looks like she caught a perv.

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[dr. d]

He Huang and Mr 3 kids had dinner at BGC then had coffee at Starbucks. He paid for dinner and she paid for coffee.

So the guy is VP for a company (lived in Canada for 20 yrs) so he has enough money for all his children and they are all in Canada now. He is looking for a partner na lang talaga

The guy is super SHORT kasi halos ka height lang ni He Huang who is 5 foot tall!!!! I told He Huang NOT to ride his car pero matigas ulo. Again they TALKED in his car. He asked if they can have a RELATIONSHIP na. His exact words was "I will treat you like a princess" He Huang said she does not even know his name and if he is really annulled. He won't take advantage of her. He Huang said na overwhelm siya sa bilis ng guy. They've only been chatting for 2 weeks and this is the first meet up!!! He Huang also said she wants marriage and the guy said if she wants it he can give it. Is that guy for real? Parang he is just saying all she wants to hear.

He held his hand, then said let me hug you, then he kissed her ear, then he licked her ear, grabbed her boobs then kissed her lips. WTF!!! I am disappointed that my friend allowed this on the first meet up.

But now she is contemplating on dating him pa. Wala daw siya FB kasi super private his work na parang top ewan.

What do you guys think???? Ang fear ko kasi he was just use her or wants her for s3x?

the guy obviously knows what he wants.
i do not see anything good coming out of such relationship.
get out now.

[uls]

at least naka experience na si he huang ng totoong date

hehehe

[_Cathy_]

Napaisip ako. Parang nakaka degrade ginawa ni guy. It's like he felt entitled to her body after treating her out for dinner. Now I get why western women don't like when men pay for their dates. Thankful ako hindi pa ko nakakaencounter ng manyakis like that on a first date. Wow.

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[shadow]

I'm more surprised na hinde pa tinuloy nun lalake to sleep with her.


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[uls]

His exact words was "I will treat you like a princess"

baka kasi sinabi ni he huang she has never been treated like a princess haha


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tanga ni he huang she showed all her cards

that her objective is marriage

that she wants serious relationship

that she's never been treated well by men

sinabi lahat

alam tuloy ng guy lahat ng weakness ni he huang

jusko

syempre sasabihin ng guy lahat ng gusto marinig ni he huang

[papi smith]

I'm more surprised na hinde pa tinuloy nun lalake to sleep with her.


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The guy could be a master. He knows that there is a possibility na pumalag ang girl on the first date. This way he knows that in the next date, the girl is ready. Hula lang hehe...