Dating Apps (Tinder, Bumble, Badoo etc)

[misseksaherada]

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si marian rivera din wala s3x appeal... maganda lang

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kita niyo type ng mga lalake ung tulad ni ivana alawi, aj raval

itsura palang mukhang s3x

gets niyo na?

hehehe

Di ba type mo built ni Donnalyn? Yung friend ko parang ganun ang built, more on sa tsinita side pero kaunting Chinese na lang ata.. Tapos taga-QC din..
Gusto mo makilala, Sir Uls?
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[uls]

Di ba type mo built ni Donnalyn? Yung friend ko parang ganun ang built, more on sa tsinita side pero kaunting Chinese na lang ata.. Tapos taga-QC din..
Gusto mo makilala, Sir Uls?
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haha naalala mo ung post ko re donnalyn

[_Cathy_]

hehe

si marian rivera din wala s3x appeal... maganda lang

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kita niyo type ng mga lalake ung tulad ni ivana alawi, aj raval

itsura palang mukhang s3x

gets niyo na?

hehehe

I personally know men na hindi type mga starlet beauty like Ivana and AJ. I specifically asked Ivana before.

Mataas tingin ko sa lalaki and I don't think "mukhang s3x" lang is what draws men to women. I would like to think na pwede magka s3x appeal without being cheap. Ang dating kasi parang mga car show girls, FHM models, instagram "models", tiktok "influencers", PSP lang ang may s3x appeal, pero pag may class ang babae automatic boring, walang landi or no s3x appeal? If it's "mukhang s3x" that gives a woman s3x appeal then I'd rather if I had a daughter na wala na lang siya s3x appeal.

Si Nigella Lawson ang dami ko kilalang lalaki na nagsasabi ang lakas ng s3x appeal niya.

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[uls]

it's s3x appeal that catches men's attention

men are wired that way

yeah of course there are men who don't like "those kinds of women" maybe coz they're thinking things more thoroughly

baka naghahanap sila ng asawa mas madami consideration in choosing a wife specially in higher societies where standards are very high

nakakahiya naman pag bold star ang ipakilala mo

[uls]

kaya high society men marry nice, sophisticated ladies

tapos ang mistress artista, beauty queen, those kinds of women

[_Cathy_]

Marami pa rin matinong lalaki at babae. Not all men have mistresses. Also, there are high value men na even their mistresses are high value (doctor, corporate, fashionistas etc)

I don't understand the cynicism when it comes to relationships/marrIage 😳

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[_Cathy_]

I think another reason why He Huang is not attractive to men is because she is so mentally and emotionally STABLE. It's crazy how negative traits are "rewarded" and seen as attractive by men

Crazy > Stable. That is so fcked up but I read in US forums na men do tend to get drawn to crazies. I'm not proud of it but I can't count the number of times I have been called psycho/crazy/insane since my teens (which I was so much in denial but even my girl friends said the same) I am still praying that I get my issues resolved and become a stable person because I want to be in a lasting HEALTHY relationship.

I installed bumble a few days ago as a distraction and I matched with another "true green" (lsgh/dlsu) and another Atenean asking me to meet agad both of them specified a restaurant na) When I told He Huang, she said, "Bakit hindi ako mabenta sa Atenista at Lasalista" I honestly don't know what to say

[dr. d]

I think another reason why He Huang is not attractive to men is because she is so mentally and emotionally STABLE. It's crazy how negative traits are "rewarded" and seen as attractive by men

Crazy > Stable. That is so fcked up but I read in US forums na men do tend to get drawn to crazies. I'm not proud of it but I can't count the number of times I have been called psycho/crazy/insane since my teens (which I was so much in denial but even my girl friends said the same) I am still praying that I get my issues resolved and become a stable person because I want to be in a lasting HEALTHY relationship.

I installed bumble a few days ago as a distraction and I matched with another "true green" (lsgh/dlsu) and another Atenean asking me to meet agad both of them specified a restaurant na) When I told He Huang, she said, "Bakit hindi ako mabenta sa Atenista at Lasalista" I honestly don't know what to say

there may be various "formulas", but ultimately, it's still a personal choice.
'tis probably one reason why one man's poisson is another man's elixir.

[uls]

when you see a profile of a woman sa dating app, di naman agad nalalaman kung "crazy" ang babae

men only find out a woman is crazy after getting to know her

[_Cathy_]

there may be various "formulas", but ultimately, it's still a personal choice.
'tis probably one reason why one man's poisson is another man's elixir.

He Huang is puzzled why despite of my attitude na men put up with me while she can't get anyone to go beyond matches. Napa research din ako so I came across this forum discussing a study na in general, men are drawn to the "crazy" types. I was told by an ex that I give him something like euphoric highs and suicidal lows Ex so straight out calls me a psycho and true green has called me several DSM cluster groups na ata LOL. Hindi ko na isa isahin lahat but it's a pattern I saw that is why I want to seem professional help na rin because I am tired of the failed relationships.

when you see a profile of a woman sa dating app, di naman agad nalalaman kung "crazy" ang babae

men only find out a woman is crazy after getting to know her

well yeah, I asked the recent Lasallite and Atenean and they said my photo, career and school made them swipe me. Pero I said na 3 yrs na ko jobless and they don't mind naman

pero ang issue kay He Huang, with the guys that swiped her, walang nakikipag meet or kung meron man walang effort or progress. Kaya naisip ko na maybe because she is too mentally and emotionally stable na men find her boring, no challenge or uninteresting. Kasi marami naman pangit nga pero may asawa. Si He Huang kahit magbaba ng standards wala pa rin. Even her blue collar ex treated her badly

[dr. d]

He Huang is puzzled why despite of my attitude na men put up with me while she can't get anyone to go beyond matches. (

is it possible,
men are threatehed by the strong-personality types?
... that the first date shows the men who's in control...?

[_Cathy_]

is it possible,
men are threatehed by the strong-personality types?
... that the first date shows the men who's in control...?

It's me doc na nasasabihan na strong personality ng mga tao. He huang is the submissive, nurturing and motherly type. Kaya nga we are friends because she always adjusts to me.

He Huang can't get a date nga doc Kaya I told her na she just needs to get a guy to ask her out para ma inlove sa personality niya because I always thought men like the nurturing and motherly types.

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[Walter]

or the answer could simple ... she's below par in looks ... not pretty ... or just plain ugly ... because even a simple plain Jane can get a match easily ...

[_Cathy_]

or the answer could simple ... she's below par in looks ... not pretty ... or just plain ugly ... because even a simple plain Jane can get a match easily ...

that's what is mind blowing, she is not ugly. She looks like He Huang nga. She can't get her matches to ask her out.

[uls]

di lang sa itsura yan

una, she's not attractive so she doesn't get a lot of matches

tapos those very few matches that she gets... di naman niya ma-sustain ang interest ng lalake (chat/taking stage)

kaya di umaabot sa meetup

meron something sa personality niya na nakaka turn off

so it's not only looks

personality din

[Walter]

that's what is mind blowing, she is not ugly. She looks like He Huang nga. She can't get her matches to ask her out.

That's the definition of ugly ...

[_Cathy_]

di lang sa itsura yan

una, she's not attractive so she doesn't get a lot of matches

tapos those very few matches that she gets... di naman niya ma-sustain ang interest ng lalake (chat/taking stage)

kaya di umaabot sa meetup

meron something sa personality niya na nakaka turn off

so it's not only looks

personality din

Kung pwede ko lang mabasa all her chats so I could see what is wrong, tapos ako pa yung bitch with guys [emoji23] I was advising her to cut contact na with Mr Annulment pero she still wants him to ask her out

That's the definition of ugly ...

Ugly is too harsh, average naman. Maputi siya and that's a plus for pinoys

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[_Cathy_]

Sa Bumble pag naka Ranger auto pass sakin or any photo na may katabing giant key sa dealership. Cringe lang to show the car as if that is supposed to be attractive? Pero pag big bike ok lang kasi parang ang bad boy

[Walter]

Cringe ... having picture taken with giant key ...

[_Cathy_]

And then there are those that lie about their schools or trying to pass off as Manila

Funny yung sabihin Ateneo or DLSU wala naman course like that 🤣

It's a jungle out there. Kaya when this guy claims na he lives from X village he videod his drive home as proof kasi naman he doesn't know the usual places residents go to.

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