Dating Apps (Tinder, Bumble, Badoo etc)

[_Cathy_]

sa mga lola natin, tatlo lang ang tunay na duktor: surgeon. cardiologist. ob-gyne.
the rest are also-rans or the so-called second class doctors.
heh heh.

No naman doc. Ang medyo not "bilib" sila example derma and radiologist. My Lola is very fond of our Opthalmologist (we go the same doctor)

BTT: No wonder my friend He Huang is getting few matches, ang age range 38 to 45. Her age up to 7 yrs difference. When I was there my range was as high as 56 lol

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[_Cathy_]

My friend He Huang told me that she can't date anyone of lower status than her career wise. Lalong liliit ang pool niya ngayon. I don't know if I am a bad influence to her kasi her ex is blue collar so I told her to date someone on the same level. May mina match sa kanya that works in the same prestigious company as her and she refused because he is of lower rank. I told her pwede na, at least he works in a good company, pero ayaw niya e.

[uls]

pero does she have the looks to attract men who are more successful than her

[uls]

your friend he huang lacks awareness of where she ranks sa dating pool

she's going after the top 10% of men

so she's competing with women who are younger, better looking than her

if she thinks her nice job can make up for her lack of physical attractiveness... no it doesn't work that way

it works for men but not for women

[_Cathy_]

your friend he huang lacks awareness of where she ranks sa dating pool

she's going after the top 10% of men

so she's competing with women who are younger, better looking than her

if she thinks her nice job can make up for her lack of physical attractiveness... no it doesn't work that way

it works for men but not for women

remember my hot cousin? they're the same age and my hot cousin didn't even get a "perfect guy" Her BF is a tisoy Atenean from a good family but he is heavy. He Huang was specific with me that she does NOT want an overweight BF. Hirap nyan esp since 30s and up na pool namin.

[uls]

remember my hot cousin? they're the same age and my hot cousin didn't even get a "perfect guy" Her BF is a tisoy Atenean from a good family but he is heavy. He Huang was specific with me that she does NOT want an overweight BF. Hirap nyan esp since 30s and up na pool namin.

haha

he huang would be lucky kung may overweight top school guy pumatol sa kanya

bihira nga may mag match sa kanya from top school

at kung meron mag match naglalaho naman

tapos choosy pa siya

haha

[Walter]

She could fund a boylet ...

[_Cathy_]

She could fund a boylet ...

She wants to experience the princess treatment nga and wants a man with a better career than her. Hindi siya gagastos sa lalaki [emoji23]

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[viper888]

She needs to find a partner, a friend to grow old with

Not necessarily a man who will sweep her off her feet and provide here with all her needs

[_Cathy_]

She needs to find a partner, a friend to grow old with

Not necessarily a man who will sweep her off her feet and provide here with all her needs

She always tells me that she wants a guy like the ones I dated. I feel bad that the few guys she was involved with neglected her pa. I don't fault her for wanting to be with a guy that will wine and dine her, but even in Bumble she is not getting dinner dates. Sometimes I wish I could read all her messages and listen to all her conversations with men so I could find out what is wrong.

[uls]

di yan papasa sa mga society ladies

jejemon

"mare ano ganap"

hahaha

[_Cathy_]

di yan papasa sa mga society ladies

jejemon

"mare ano ganap"

hahaha

Ang hindi ko ma take when she calls me "bakla" You know naman I am super feminine and it scandalizes me to be called bakla.

Or when she says ut0t mo [emoji23] I can't even say that word.

Though acknowledged naman niya na hindi siya prim and proper



I was telling her not to allow Mr Annulment to disrespect her with hanging out lang sa car, never had dinner etc





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[uls]

^^^

haha

"hoy bakla ano ganap"


tapos nagtataka siya bakit wala tumatagal na top school guys

[_Cathy_]

It makes me cringe talaga when she calls me bakla 😭 She adds "char" at the end of her sentences din. I don't want to correct her naman.

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[uls]

It makes me cringe talaga when she calls me bakla 😭 She adds "char" at the end of her sentences din. I don't want to correct her naman.

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sounds like a lot of fun to be with kung maganda lang siya haha

[_Cathy_]

sounds like a lot of fun to be with kung maganda lang siya haha

Unfortunately she's not the fun type, very motherly siya. She's the mother role sa friend groups. Remember umiyak siya when Mr Annulment was telling her about his childhood [emoji15]

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[_Cathy_]

Once humingi ng pera ang lalaki, RUN! Jobless ako kaya walang mangs scam sakin HAHAHA

[uls]

Once humingi ng pera ang lalaki, RUN! Jobless ako kaya walang mangs scam sakin HAHAHA

hahaha

target niya mga "strong independent woman" na searching

hahaha

[_Cathy_]

Why am I worried for He Huang?

She told me that the guy she matched last week just asked her for a meet up. They guy has 3 CHILDREN! I told He Huang that is too much baggage! Anyway, first few conversations and the guy already asked if she's looking for a serious relationship (weakness ng friend ko line na yan) I said the guy sounds like a red flag.

Also, I know ULS advises to meet kaagad pero ako kasi kung galing dating app I will NOT meet a guy na one week ko pa lang ka chat lalo na walang common friends. The guy claims to be annulled. He Huang said she wants to experience dating and asked me na on dates who sets the venue. I told her the guy should ask the girl her preferences and give options or ask her if she has any place specific. Basta sabi ko wag papasundo sa condo niya at wag sasakay sa car nung guy.

Sa Bumble it says Mapua grad at COUNTRY HEAD. Same position ni Mr Annulment. Weakness din ni He Huang yung mataas position sa corporate. That position is the new CEO ata na ang dami na using that title

[dr. d]

Why am I worried for He Huang?

She told me that the guy she matched last week just asked her for a meet up. They guy has 3 CHILDREN!

shades of kagalingan!

but i am curious,
why did she get matched with a guy with three children?

do the folks who use these apps, usually have something to hide...?