Dating Apps (Tinder, Bumble, Badoo etc)

[Athrunzala]

The guy said he is a battered husband and his doctor ex wife physically abused him. He said he will show photos of his abuse and papers on his annulment. The guy does NOT message her consistently. His grand excuse is he is always busy and has a lot of out of town trips. I feel like he is juggling a lot of women or he has a main chick. Minsan kung sino pa yung CHAKA (love that word) sila pa yung player.

May kilala akong similar, type of personality disorder na they are so good at telling lies or making up stories. Parang hyperbole kasi mga story.

Annulment na naman ang excuse, mukhang yan ang pabortiong linya ng mga babaero ngayon

[Little Missy]

She is indeed naive and inexperienced. Ewan ko kung paranoid lang ako pero parati kasi reminder sakin yung "ingatan pagkababae ko" I come from a SUPER conservative traditional family at alam ko lahat ng critique ng family ko with the women my Kuya and cousins would date. I make sure not to do those.

I remember my mom making my older sister try on the baby bras she bought. She told us not to let boys touch our boobies and private areas lol.



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[dr. d]

The guy said he is a battered husband and his doctor ex wife physically abused him. He said he will show photos of his abuse and papers on his annulment. .

so he says.

i will bet,
hindi mangyayari itong showing of the photos and papers.
ever.

[misseksaherada]

Nakakatakot naman yan..
Sana huwag naman mapahamak yung friend mo Ms. Cathy..
Medyo nandiri ako sa ginawa nung lalaki, halatang walang bahid ng respect sa friend mo.. Tinanong mo ba sya kung ano naramdaman nya sa ginawa nung lalaki? Feeling violated, fear or na-turn on, iressistable?
Kung hindi niya nagustuhan, lumayo na sya.. Sa susunod susubukan na ng lalaki yung next level, hindi lang boobs at lips nya..

[_Cathy_]

My friend unmatched him last night. She did some investigation and the name the guy gave her was NOWHERE ON THE INTERNET. All variations of his name na pwede wala talaga. I think that opened her eyes na manloloko yung guy.

I don't know kung maiiyak ako or matatawa with what happened to her. She said she is NOT attracted physically talaga and did NOT want any of his s3xual advances. She said he is really short. Indeed a little over 5 foot for a guy is SUPER short. There is also something wrong with his face that she can't describe and that his pagkakalbo is weird. On photos, he doesn't look nakakalbo, but in person it is really noticeable. She said like Joey Marquez. I died LAUGHING when she told me that.

More red flags:

1. Asked for the messenger of my friend but would not give his FB because he is a private person
2. Asked for her phone number but never called her. All comms were through the dating app
3. Doesn't chat consistently
4. Warned her that he is a busy person and will always be out of town
5. Says he has a lot of connection with the police and NBI that's why he was able to check the background of his dating app ex (that he broke up with recently)

Ang nakakatawa yung "connection" thing pa reason why He Huang unmatched him kasi nakakatakot daw. LOL. Give me a break, I don't think the guy has any connections. When a guy or girl unmatches pala, the whole conversation is deleted and you won't see that person on the app anymore.

What's masakit for He Huang? Naisahan siya nung "Joey Marquez Hairline" guy. Prior to meeting him, she's only had 2 men kiss her: BF of 10 years and Mr Annulment who waited almost a year to kiss her. Si Joey only chatted her for 2 weeks and she has 3 kiss count.

Seriously, my friend was violated by that asshol3... She should have listened to me never to get in his car. Dinner at a casual resto in BGC and felt entitled to making out na.

So now my friend He Huang believes me na dating apps are full of people with issues, mga broken or manloloko. May matino pa rin but that's the minority. Weird lang kasi I never saw that guy in the app, siguro kasi basta may photo na nasa car, autopass ako

so he says.

i will bet,
hindi mangyayari itong showing of the photos and papers.
ever.

I agree doc

Nakakatakot naman yan..
Sana huwag naman mapahamak yung friend mo Ms. Cathy..
Medyo nandiri ako sa ginawa nung lalaki, halatang walang bahid ng respect sa friend mo.. Tinanong mo ba sya kung ano naramdaman nya sa ginawa nung lalaki? Feeling violated, fear or na-turn on, iressistable?
Kung hindi niya nagustuhan, lumayo na sya.. Sa susunod susubukan na ng lalaki yung next level, hindi lang boobs at lips nya..

Nung na process na niya ang nangyari - violated daw. I guess initially flattered siya sa attention and that a guy was crazy about her. Until she realized the disrespect and how the guy isn't truthful about his identity

[uls]

She said she is NOT attracted physically talaga

She said he is really short. Indeed a little over 5 foot for a guy is SUPER short.

There is also something wrong with his face that she can't describe and that his pagkakalbo is weird. On photos, he doesn't look nakakalbo, but it person it is super noticeable.

and that is why dati ko pa sinasabi pag may nakilala sa chat, meet as soon as possible

para malaman kung type

kesa ung paabutin ng buwan (or worse taon)

[_Cathy_]

and that is why dati ko pa sinasabi pag may nakilala sa chat, meet as soon as possible

para malaman kung type

kesa ung paabutin ng buwan (or worse taon)

but then again minanyak naman siya kasi hindi muna niya kinilala. I would never meet a guy na hindi ko alam full name, school, work, home and social media (if any). She doesn't even know his number. IMO she made herself too easy for this guy.

Adding salt to the wound lang ako when I said nahalikan siya ng CHAKA Na manyak siya ng midget. Tawang tawa ako how she described when he was walking towards her, parang ang liit daw [emoji23]

[uls]

kung sumunod si he huang sa gusto mo at nagchat sila nang buwan madedevelop siya sa isang guy na hindi niya type in the first place

magsasayang lang siya ng oras at may emotional attachment pa

mabuti na ung nagmeet sila at nangyari ung nangyari

at least namulat mata niya what the dating scene is really like

natapos ung short chapter niya kay 5-footer

she can move on to the next guy who she'll match with

if she didn't meet up with 5-footer she's still be chatting with him for who knows how long

[_Cathy_]

I don't mean months and months, but at least know the basic details. Who meets with a guy na hindi alam full name and number? I'm sorry but yan ang tipo ng na mu murder sa US.

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[Walter]

Guess tsikot metrics will go down 25% after this ...

[LRTan]

but then again minanyak naman siya kasi hindi muna niya kinilala. I would never meet a guy na hindi ko alam full name, school, work, home and social media (if any). She doesn't even know his number. IMO she made herself too easy for this guy.

Adding salt to the wound lang ako when I said nahalikan siya ng CHAKA Na manyak siya ng midget. Tawang tawa ako how she described when he was walking towards her, parang ang liit daw [emoji23]

has it never crossed your mind na that's the way she is talaga that's whey she doesn't attract the same kind of guys you do?

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[uls]

binaligtad kasi ng technology how we develop attachment

it used to be we see people in real life, get attracted, get to know them, and develop attachment

ung mga di natin type we never get to know coz we weren't attracted to them in the first place

now we're getting to know people we weren't supposed to know coz na-skip ung first step (seeing people in real life first)

madami nagkakadevelopan sa chat kahit di pa nagkikita in person

it's unnatural

kaya kung may nakilala ako online imimeet ko agad

para ibalik sa first step

[shadow]

What do you expect, Losers and desperate ang mga nasa dating app.


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[_Cathy_]

has it never crossed your mind na that's the way she is talaga that's whey she doesn't attract the same kind of guys you do?

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you mean easy? She's conservative naman because she sees s3x as sacred. In terms of market, when I joined the app (because I can't relate to her stories), we had different matches nga. Frustrated siya why she rarely matches with "top schools"

BTW she messaged me just now na how could 5 foot guy who is so religious treat women that way. I said, doesn't she know that some of the worst people are active in church? Hence, banal na aso, santong kabayo. She said even if it's tagalog she doesn't understand what that means, ano daw kinalaman ng aso at kabayo *FACEPALM* I told her to listen to Dong Abay and explained that it's all about hypocrisy. Minsan mahirap talaga kausap friend ko, you have to simplify and tagalog everything.

What do you expect, Losers and desperate ang mga nasa dating app.

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90% siguro but there are good specs pa rin, yung mga sumilip lang or into casual. Si ex SO ayaw talaga mag dating app HAHAHA! Ang cute naman niya when I confessed na I used his profile (signed up as a guy) and he got 150+ matches, pero parang wala lang sa kanya. Hindi siya interested

Pero may mga kilala ako na kinasal na from dating app parehong doctor pa (Dr Sister ng friend ko, Dr colleague ng cousin ko) I guess yung stack sa mid 30s and below are okay pa.

[uls]

Hence, banal na aso, santong kabayo. She said even if it's tagalog she doesn't understand what that means, ano daw kinalaman ng aso at kabayo *FACEPALM*

there's a character in Guardians of the Galaxy si Drax the Destroyer

he doesn't understand metaphors and sarcasm

ganyan si he huang

when you talk to her di ka pwede gumamit ng figures of speech

you gotta dumb down your language

masyado siya literal

gets niyo na bakit na-t-turn off mga top school guys?

how can an intelligent guy have a conversation with her?

every other sentence kailangan mo ipaliwanag ano sinabi mo

[_Cathy_]

I have the patience of a saint when it comes to conservations with He Huang 🤣

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[Sweetlucious]

Pagpangit - Manyak, and feels violated.

Pagpogi- Physical touch ang love language nya.

Hahaha

[uls]

[_Cathy_]

Pagpangit - Manyak, and feels violated.

Pagpogi- Physical touch ang love language nya.

Hahaha

unfortunately his VP position, Canadian Citizenship, and money can't compensate for his 5' height and balding head

[dr. d]

unfortunately his VP position, Canadian Citizenship, and money can't compensate for his 5' height and balding head

... even those, i am not sure they're real.