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[yubby24]

BTT: Kapag mali spelling ng name, may addtional letters or ridiculous name- Autopass

Example: Deyveed, Jhohn, Jollyvee 😳

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Jollyvee?!

[_Cathy_]

to others, it is a sign of low status in the societal hierarchy, i.e., something to be ashamed of. a family secret, if you may. a cause of low self-esteem. the classic example of "wala sa aming lahi yan!" harrumph!

Doc, that "wala sa aming lahi" is said very often by my elders, in addition to embarrassing diseases are homos3xuality, criminal acts, even unattractiveness (they would say dugo ng spouse nakuha lol)

Jollyvee?!

Yes maraming tao na Jollibee ang pangalan (unfortunately) Some people could say it with a straight face na nga



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[dr. d]

Doc, that "wala na aming lahi" is said very often by my elders, in addition to embarrassing diseases are homos3xuality, criminal acts, even unattractiveness (they would say dugo ng spouse nakuha lol)

it would appear,
your elders and my elders might have had very similar upbringing.

[_Cathy_]

it would appear,
your elders and my elders might have had very similar upbringing.

I like older values better.

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[_Cathy_]

That's Chavit Singson

Not really. When it comes to men, power/money is greater than looks. Instinct ng babae to be attracted to males that can provide and protect. Ang babae ang importante ang youth and looks

Personally, hindi ako lookist. Turn off ako sa guy na kahit anong guapo pero wala naman sariling pera (no matter how rich the family is)

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[uls]

usually kasi mga babae pumapatol sa mas may edad na mayaman / makapangyarihan walang strong father figure at home to begin with

either wala father (single mom ung nanay), nawala ung father (died or left while daughter was young), or meron father pero poor / weak

wala sila masandalan na isang rich / powerful dad

kasi a strong father provides stability so the girl doesn't have to worry about money and protection

without having to worry about those things they can pursue their natural desires -- men their own age

pag wala, they seek a father figure outside -- kaya attracted sila sa mga lalake maganda ang career -- eh usually older mga yan

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ever heard of those rich kids (babae) who make patol mga gwapo na hindi mayaman (called slumming)

di kasi nila kailangan ng pera / protection

[_Cathy_]

I don't need a man's money but I still like powerful/successful men. I want a guy that my family will respect. Looks are secondary, mas importante background. Who would respect a guy na guapo pero walang narating sa buhay? That's called a Mimbo [emoji23]

BTT kaya sa Bumble autopass sakin gym pics na pa porma porma [emoji23] Auto swipe sakin doctor and lawyer saka Ateneans hahaha

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[uls]

tapos eto

sasagutin ko ung sinasabi ni kagalingan na madami rich powerful men naloloko ng mga younger women

kasi those older men think they can buy love -- they provide younger women with stability

eh for those girls, parang tatay ang tingin nila sa mga lalakeng yan

so once the girls have stability, they pursue their natural desires -- younger men

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it's everywhere

it's always the same story

older man has younger gf / wife

maya maya malaman may ka-affair ung babae na lalake na malapit sa edad niya

sa tulfo dami older men nagsusumbong

in society we always hear the same stories

[Little Missy]

Ang natural hardwiring ng babae is to feel safe, protected and provided for.

Yung pag hahanap ng attractive ***ual partner, that's only a temporary desire. Kapag siya nagbabayad ng dates, or 50-50, or yung fwb set up, magkakaron yan ng dissatisfied feeling and realization na nadadrain siya sa arrangement.

Dami nito sa offmychestph sa reddit lol. Paulit ulit na rants and complaints ng mga babae how hindi na sila happy sa relationship/set up.

Kung ikaw si lalaki who uses your money and power to get any women without even taking in consideration her character, don't be surprised if she ends up cheating.

Sabi nga ni Jordan Peterson, the woman of highest value is the one who can say no.

Yung sinasabi ni kags na mga babae na nagsstay kahit niloloko kasi pogi yung guy? Wala yun sa itsura nung lalaki, but rather the woman's psychology and self esteem. Baba ng self worth, nakadepende sa partner nila. One's self worth is tied to what she/he tolerates. No self respecting person ang papayag na niloloko sila.

Kags is trying to justify his kkb scheme na kesyo bakit ka gagastos sa babae, magpapogi ka kesa manlibre. Kung may pumapayag naman kags, edi good for you. You deserve each other char [emoji482].

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[dr. d]

genetics,
men are attracted to women who can give them children.
women are attracted to men who can support and protect them.

everything else beyond this, is a learned response.

[_Cathy_]

Ang natural hardwiring ng babae is to feel safe, protected and provided for.

Yung pag hahanap ng attractive ***ual partner, that's only a temporary desire. Kapag siya nagbabayad ng dates, or 50-50, or yung fwb set up, magkakaron yan ng dissatisfied feeling and realization na nadadrain siya sa arrangement.

Dami nito sa offmychestph sa reddit lol. Paulit ulit na rants and complaints ng mga babae how hindi na sila happy sa relationship/set up.

Kung ikaw si lalaki who uses your money and power to get any women without even taking in consideration her character, don't be surprised if she ends up cheating.

Sabi nga ni Jordan Peterson, the woman of highest value is the one who can say no.

Yung sinasabi ni kags na mga babae na nagsstay kahit niloloko kasi pogi yung guy? Wala yun sa itsura nung lalaki, but rather the woman's psychology and self esteem. Baba ng self worth, nakadepende sa partner nila. One's self worth is tied to what she/he tolerates. No self respecting person ang papayag na niloloko sila.

Kags is trying to justify his kkb scheme na kesyo bakit ka gagastos sa babae, magpapogi ka kesa manlibre. Kung may pumapayag naman kags, edi good for you. You deserve each other char [emoji482].

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Exactly what I am saying kahit sinong pinaka strong independent na babae, would still want to be with a man that can protect and provide. Marami mayaman na guys pero weak personality naman. It takes a real man to protect AND provide.

Para sakin yung mga babae na number one ang looks, yun ang may issue. LOL.

Bata pa lang ako sinabihan na ko ng Mommy ko to look for a man that is GALANTE just like my Dad. She said money is always an issue when it comes to marriage and if you are with a generous man, that's one issue you don't have to deal with anymore. My Mom doesn't need my Dad's money naman, her family has their own money and she INSISTED on a career. So the concept that men protect and provide, time immemorial pa that's how it works.

I also dated some guys that are not good looking by society's standards but they did the "protect and provide" so I'm good I'd rather be with someone like that than someone guapo pero weak personality tapos ako pa magbabayad sa date LOL!

BTW, para sakin low self esteem ang babae na "gumagastos" sa lalaki. Men are so sweet and thoughtful sa babae na gusto nila. Okay lang gumastos deep in a relationship, of course I would support my man all the way

[uls]

there are already men that provide protection to "strong independent women"

it's called the state

ano ba mga pulis hindi ba karamihan lalake?

the existence of government that provides law and order allowed women to be "strong and independent"

ung they can about their daily lives, pursue careers without fearing they'll get raped

noong panahon ng caveman wala batas batas

women need literally strong powerful men to protect them

kaya natural sa babae maatract sa mga matangkad at matipuno ang katawan

kahit modern times na when women don't need physically strong men to protect them from wild animals and other men

nandun parin ung instinct to be attracted to tall men with muscles

may issue mga babae who go for looks?

i think it's instinct

[Little Missy]

strong independent women pay taxes na pampasweldo sa mga pulis, so no, it's not giving the same vibe lol

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[_Cathy_]

You will never understand what it means when a woman says she feels safe and protected dahil hindi ka babae. It's not physical safety, it's more on emotional and mental. Yung peace of mind that there is a man na sasalo sayo. A man who says, what's wrong? I'll take care of it - and deliver. Not all men can do that. Kahit sinong strong independent, mayaman, maganda at lahat lahat na babae will still want a man that can protect and provide.

When I said issue ang babae who go for looks I meant how kags defined it na basta magpa guapo lang. I stand by my opinion that a normal woman would still choose a man who offer "protect and provide" over a man that only offers his good looks.

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[uls]

taken for granted ang existence ng state

one month of "the purge" will reveal how strong and independent those "strong and independent" women really are

[_Cathy_]

That's exactly why strong independent women still need a man that will PROTECT and provide

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[Little Missy]

Strong independent woman is a 2010 feminism concept that has now backfired. It's not helping women in a patriarchy.





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[uls]

The state provides protection so women.can go out and have careers and no longer need husbands for money and physical protection

the state basically made husbands useless

The state gave women the luxury to ponder what men are really useful for

Ano daw.... for mental and emotional support lang

[_Cathy_]

Bakit napunta na sa state? Again, you will NEVER understand the peace of mind that a man that protects and provides can give a woman. Even if I hired a private army to protect me and I had all the money in the world, that can't give the mental and emotional peace of mind of having a man that can protect and provide. Siempre kasama na physical, instinct naman ng lalaki yan. Brother ko nga susugurin a guy who I mentioned lang was so rude to me. I had to cry and beg him na wag na gumawa ng away.

Saka dunno what the issue is. I am saying WOMEN STILL NEED MEN BUT strong men that can protect and provide, not men that are weak and have no money and only have looks to offer 🤣 Esp those men na tuwang tuwa pa gastusan ng babae [emoji15]

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[Little Missy]

We are practically saying WE NEED MEN TO PROTECT AND PROVIDE for us and here you are saying we have the police for that we don't even need husbands. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]



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