... if a person is resourceful enough, its not about "I can't do it because I dont have the financial resources", instead it would more of "Lets do it and lets find a way to get the financial resources" di ba?
I mean for example, people want to have their own business... but some say "I dont have the money to start up the business"... however, smart people will think about the business and find a way to support that business... resources like thru partnerships, loans, stock options, market studies etc. They would be smart enough to use other people's money - invite investors into the business kung baga. Another example, a person wants to be a manager someday and earn 6 digit salaries... but again they are more pessimistic and would not realise it because he believes "I'm not a leader, I was not born a leader" "gusto yun maganda ang school, ako sa tabi tabi lang nag aral" but instead should he should have initiative to upskill himslef beyond his job(and salary) like take up an MBA or something , read books, take up managerial projects and experience etc. He is lazy to do his homework, but you need to do the homework inorder that people will pay you more because you posses a unique skill that others do not have. I think some people just have too many excuses that hinders them from getting a goal like a good education for your children. true, its an advantage and success is more probable for the financially fit families with strong educational background, but that should not hinder the ordinary person right? but how could you learn and adapt if you do not try? you will not own the business of your dreams or the six digit salary if you are afraid to fail or act so narrowly.
I mean, some families are rich now because their forefathers who built the business tried and failed in the past. but they learned from their mistakes and rebuilt the lost forture back. Professional athletes are rich today but they had to undergo tremendous amount of training and failures during their childhood right? tiger woods was learning and failing to play golf since he was a child, but that learning process enabled him to master his business which is the skill of golf. same thing with basketball players, they werent instant millioanaires like most of us dream of.
I know sometimes it would be great to win the lotto(I dream of that too), but thats the easy way out. if you win the lotto, and if you loose the millions would you know how to get it back? a typical person would put the finger/blame on something. for a typical person just managing that amount would be difficult, unless you have somesort of financial management background. most likely he would be more succeptible to spending than investing.
if he would loose those millions how would he be able to regain it back? he would have to try again and spend all his money on a ticket with such a low probability of winning twice! but a person who built his fortune from the ground could answer that instantly because he knew how he became a rich. he has the educational background, financial skills, marketing skills, the network, and the knowledge how to build a business again, or how to get a high paying job. if you ask a ceo if his company goes bankrupt and how long it would take him to get it all back, he would have an idea(more or less) how to and when

it may take years to rebuild but he knows how to reach it. so there is an advantage to knowing how to becomre rich rather than marrying a rich guy/gal or betting on the lotto.