we need more people who think like u sir zman.
Unfortunately many people dont.
I always wondered why poor people keep on having children even if they cant afford it while people with higher education and income have less children.
Yun pala it all comes down to what they think of children.
Poor, uneducated people think of children as manpower. Or livestock. Its the only wealth they have. The more children they have, the wealthier they are.
Those parents have resigned to the fact that they cant get out of poverty so aasa nalang sila sa mga anak. Baka swertehin ang isa o dalawa sa walong anak.
And coz of high infant mortality and childhood diseases in poor communities, they tend to have lots of children para at least meron ilan ang umabot ng adulthood.
Having children guarantee that there will be someone to take care of them (the parents) when they get sick or get old. Mahirap daw ung walang mag aalaga. (di nila iniisip paano nila aalagaan ung mga mag aalaga sa kanila)
The poor think children have an obligation to them coz they gave them life. Utang na loob...
If i was the kid i would answer "you didnt give me a f*#king choice! I didnt ask to be born! If u didnt bring me into this world, i wouldnt be eating scrap from garbage!"
Before having children, educated people think of everything... from hospital expenses, diapers and baby formula, to 15 or so years of education...
And educated people think of children as individuals. Individuals with personal goals and dreams. Educated parents give their children all the opportunities they can so their children will realize their full potential. Then the parents retire.




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