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October 14th, 2006 02:37 AM #11
yes. and stop picking gf's from chatrooms too. sa profile pa lang ng girls on chatrooms, di na dapat seryosohin. pero kung trip lang, by all means.
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October 14th, 2006 02:38 AM #12
give her a chance to explain herself. everyone deserves a chance to tell their side and be heard with an open mind.
if she lies, dump her.
if you're not satisfied with or trusting the explanation, dump her.
if she comes clean but promises not to do it again, it's your decision (and no one but you!) whether you feel you can trust her again. if not, dump her.
but before you dump her, get the buttseks first :banana3:
j/k about that last part
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October 14th, 2006 02:49 AM #15
Do not keep it bottled up because the longer you wait, the more it's gonna eat you up inside. And believe me, just thinking about it would give you sleepless nights.
Confront her. You may not like what you're going to hear but suck it up. I'm a girl and just by reading your story , it's crystal clear that she's not over him yet.
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October 14th, 2006 02:52 AM #16
Haha! Why am I such a sucker for these kinds of threads?
For curiosity's sake... what's the age gap sir?
Immaturity is wonderful... if you're still young...
Oooh, hot mama! My type of gurl... now that I'm married, that is...
No, don't... am serious.
Yes, I would take her actions with a grain of salt from now on... but still, since love mo sya, give her the benefit of the doubt. Yes, it is possible not to be paranoid. Have belief in your gandang lalake-ness.
1. Is it safe to assume that she’s coming clean now considering that the pic was dated during the 1st month of our relationship, which she’s not that into me yet, coz of the reason she gave about our age gap?
- No.
Or should I consider more what she said few days after the 1st month that she decided to continue the relationship and not confront her about my findings? If she’s coming clean then why didn’t she remove their pic yet and status is "married"?
- No confrontation.
2. If I confront her about my findings, is there a chance that she would not want to continue the relationship anymore coz she might think that I may not trust her anymore instead of explaining her side to me?
- Yes there is a major chance... and then what do you get out of it? Closure, sir, you will find very overrated.
3. Or should I wait further for any new pics to come up and go from there? - Stalking is not healthy... a lesson for sir GS...
4. Was it wrong on my part to open some of her emails in the sent folder?
- In a perfect world... yes. In our wonderful one... it's not wrong.
... pwede ba niya akong hiritan ng i don't trust her kaya i checked her emails and use it against me to break up para lumabas ako ang may mali although mas malaki mali niya?
- But of course, so don't let her use it against you. Leave it hanging. Just deny looking at anything except her classmate's e-mail.
5. If I decided to confront her about it, is it better to confront her or should I ask the ex instead about the real score between them, maybe the ex will be more honest about it?
- Do not confront and the ex is not worth your time.
If I may, sir knight... I opine that your 'December' is a whole season before my 'December-ness', judging by your questions.
With your kind leave, a little knowledge from someone who's been there, done that, as well as a whole lot worse:
1.) You will notice I advice against confrontation.
Your lady love is immature. Confrontation will only make it come out more. Then poof... just you and your hand...
2.) What will confrontation get you?
Either she begs you please, please... or more likely, say: what the hell, there's exie and a whole lot of other boys holding her pics.
Not much in the way of return, 'no?
3.) What to do?
Ah, heartless me again... (allow me to show my age... )
a.) Keep on going. Ignore your jealousy:
You are a man! She is a piece of meat now who must prove herself worthy of you. Yes sir, i am serious. What will she do for you? Will she get down on her knees? Will she act like your car's a yellow jazz? Is the library a wondrous place? You get the drift... we are after returns here. (Oh yeah, better make sure it's wondrous for her, too... a little work on your part) Btw, swallowing... wag masyadong makulit on this matter...
b.) After item a is proven exhaustively... What else is there? After boudoir service... there is domestic service. I don't mean cook & clean house. I mean little things:
She carries the tissues, not you... the pen, not you... when she sees you, a little offering: 1 jamaican pattie, or a stick of fishballs, or even 1 baggie of boy bawang... She is your cigarette supplier... You understand... It is you who must occupy her thoughts. Her main concern in life is YOUR happiness...
c.) Demand (nicely) 90% of her time... I mean it. Just one meal a week with her friends... preferably lunch. (Therefore, you better make time for her...)
d.) Demand (nicely again) to meet her parents. Yes sir, put your best foot forward with them. With parents, there's only one way to go: Money, polite wit, and good manners. They'll be yours.
After items a - d... believe me, you wouldn't even care about confronting her. You know why? You know exactly where she is... all wrapped around your pinky, sir. (Or she could be gone... which is just as well.... but I highly doubt she'd go)
Now remember, always be polite and gentle when demanding the above. Seem concerned about how she feels... look sensitive (kung love mo naman sya, it won't be a pretense)... But make sure all the above are satisfied. Then you will be satisfied. Baka she'll be the one to confess to you, pa.
Don't be a schmuck, and get rid of that schmucky jealousy. It is, you know, one of the 7 deadly sins... Use your head, sir knight...
HTH
Oh yeah, in my opinion... use her then lose her. Ehehe.Last edited by Flagg; October 14th, 2006 at 02:56 AM. Reason: Forgot last line
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October 14th, 2006 03:03 AM #17
I'd say leave an open mind and talk to her about it. tell her you saw her friendster account by searching for email or name or something. Whatever happens after that then go on and decide, don't waste your time thinking and getting jealous.
Some women are really manipulative, but i beg to disagree that chatters profile are all the same. I met my fiance through chat and she's no where near manipulative or pretentious.
Buttseks boy, are you by any chance a member of bimmerforums? I saw the same comments there. Very funny indeed.
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October 14th, 2006 03:10 AM #18If your post is true and not one of those hoax scenario....here is my opinion:
Why worry about that? Hindi mo pa naman asawa yung gf mo di ba?
Haven't you heard the saying "collect and select"....the world evolves because of natural selection...those that survive are those that are aggressive in the selection process....those that are timid will eventually lose in this world...
So why worry....you only have 2 choices to make....fight for your right for that woman or replace her...and both situation is a win-win for you!
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October 14th, 2006 03:12 AM #19Bago niya ako sinagot, she mentioned something about not totally getting over her ex yet and she would sometimes cry kung naaalala niya yung past.
does she really like you? or on the rebound?
2. If I confront her about my findings, is there a chance that she would not want to continue the relationship anymore coz she might think that I may not trust her anymore instead of explaining her side to me?
3. Or should I wait further for any new pics to come up and go from there?
baka sa susunod wedding pictures na makita mo dun.
4. Was it wrong on my part to open some of her emails in the sent folder? I don’t think I’m wrong coz I’m her boyfriend and she gave me authority to open her email account but I could be wrong. pwede ba niya akong hiritan ng i don't trust her kaya i checked her emails and use it against me to break up para lumabas ako ang may mali although mas malaki mali niya?
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