should i confront her or not? need some advice

[BlueBimmer]

dami pa iba dyan bro, let her explain and if hindi ok sayo or she's not over her ex, say goodbye.

i've been through lotsa breakups and at first mahihirapan ka, thinking she's the one for you but after a week or two you'll realize andami pang available dyan. believe me.

[Horsepower]

1. How old are you and how old is she?

2. How many GFs have u had? Do you always get them from chatrooms? Ever thought of meeting one in churches, parties and the like?

[uls]

Mr. Knight, u have to separate urself from the younger guys she meets.

Since ur older, she is supposed to look up to u. She expects u to be more mature. If ur acting like guys her age, u dont separate urself. Ur just like them... un nga lang ur older.... which doesnt help.

She expects u to be a man. A pillar of strength if u will. Cool and confident and unaffected by kidstuff.

[mikmik316]

eto ang generalization ko sa mga taong nagkaroon ng relationship galing sa net....

"Don't be too serious about them... they are just for good time & to get laid... In short, pantawid gutom..."

Aheheheheh

[oldblue]

dami pa iba dyan bro, let her explain and if hindi ok sayo or she's not over her ex, say goodbye.

i've been through lotsa breakups and at first mahihirapan ka, thinking she's the one for you but after a week or two you'll realize andami pang available dyan. believe me.

and if I may add, I believe the ratio of girls over boys here in the Phils. is 3:1. Tignan mo na lang sa mga bars/restos/coffee shop, mas dami yun group of girls na nag night out. ibig sabihin lang unti-unti na tayo mga men naging rare breed. and to think some of us, are half-men, half-women pa wala sila ma-date kaya nakikipag-date na lang sila mga kaibigan nila in guise of a "get together" or "night out" ...

you can also try the groups of "disgruntled" married girls coz the husbands are looking/dating someone younger ... dont limit yourself sa internet/chatrooms/e-mail/text and fixed dates, nothing is more rewarding than a one night stand.

[JiggeR671]

walang kinalaman yan kung saan mo nakilala yung girl... kahit sa simbahan
sa chatroom sa cabaret sa club sa bar o kung saan mang lupalop ng mundo,kung magloloko talaga yan magloloko talaga....

i confront mo na kaagad to get it over with wag mo nang patagalin...ikaw nalang bahala kung valid yung excuse na ibibigay sa iyo...and if i wanna give her a second chance..

wag kang matakot mawalan ng gf kung nde talaga kyo marami pang iba dyan

[NightRock]

sakit naman... yan ang hirap sa friendster maraming nag kaka hiwalay dahil dyan hehehehe... Buti pa kunwari hindi mo alam hulihin mo nalang sa akto niloloko ka.. or find a right girl for you

[ILuvDetailing]

ignorance is bliss as they say...

[uls]

About the ratio of men to women...

thing is, even if it's true that there are more women than men, not all the women out there are hot. there are few hot women and many men who want hot women.

On the other hand, if u listen to the women, they will tell u there are few good men out there. either taken or gay daw.

so u have women, hot and not hot, looking for good men.

and men, good and not good, looking for hot women.

But it's not accurate to conclude that all hot women go to good men, or all good men go to hot women.

Coz there are hot women out there who end up with not good men.

and good men who end up with not hot women.

so bottom line is, forget the statistics. Diskarte lang yan.

[afrasay]

correct...in the end it boils down to only one.

[margaux]

the only thing i can say.... TRUST ------> COMMUNICATION ----> UNDERSTANDING -----> DECISION ----- > ACCEPTANCE

[yebo]

syota sa chat/friendster? pang biglang-liko lang yan, di dapat yan seryosohan

[doriftospeed]

Obviously she's just playing with you, just play along and enjoy the ride. hehe

[jonski]

girls would rather be right than being reasonable

[uls]

syota sa chat/friendster? pang biglang-liko lang yan, di dapat yan seryosohan

hahaha yup pang SEB... pde rin FUBU.

[wren]

i confront mo na sya. so what kung mag-away kayo, at least may resolution, di ba? besides, make-up *** is da best...you might even get the third input, like M54 suggested.

[ts1n1ta]

napaka double standard naman ng ibang replies dito. Tandaan, mas madami pa ren ratio ng guys over girls na manloloko kesa sa girls kaya ingat sa comments. Mas masakit ba talaga pag babae ang nanloloko? nde kaya ng ego?

I say makiramdam ka muna. Right now, wala mangyayare sa mga pag assume mo of things because if you confront her now she could tell you the truth or lie either way and still you won't believe her.

Are you really serious with this girl? Kase kung nde, (boys are boys, if you know what i mean) then stressing over this now is a waste of energy.

Based from your post; (1)She cannot be trusted. (2)She's a user. (since she asks total strangers for help on school projects). (3) She's still going out with her ex.

[CVT]

dami pa iba dyan bro, let her explain and if hindi ok sayo or she's not over her ex, say goodbye.

i've been through lotsa breakups and at first mahihirapan ka, thinking she's the one for you but after a week or two you'll realize andami pang available dyan. believe me.

Tama po,- not the end of the world.

Actually, your opening a door towards another dimension.....


:starwars:

[GasJunkie]

Would you like to hire a stalker?????










Edit just screw her brains out and go.....

[kate_tee29]

hi.. i somehow can relate to your story.. my husband and i met in mirc.. but i was not a chatter.. i was actually looking for a supplier for a dried mango then.. but anyway, during that time i was not totally have moved on yet fom my ex.. kasi ba naman 6 yrs of marriage (have it annulled already).. wala akong naging bf kundi sya and we have known each other for 13 yrs (the ex one).. but my current husband now was so patient with me.. there were times before that he really saw me crying pag nalalaman ko na may gf na yung ex ko na bago.. and if he would call i would immediately answer.. masasabi mo nga na sobrang tanga o sabra lang ako mahal ng asawa ko ngayon..

but i love my husband now.. and i am honest to him ever since.. kung ano man napag uusapin namin ng asawa ko dati sinasabi ko sa kanya.. we still talk kasi may anak kami..

Pero alam mo time heals.. i was very honest to him that it is not easy for me to move on.. and he waited patiently.. now, things are different.. i am emotionally more stable than before.. i dont entertain his calls anymore.. never go online just to talk to him in YM.. i know i have been unfair but i have been transparent and honest.. And i may say that our relationship with my current husband is okay.. and i feel lucky that he has been so patient with me eversince..

you are the one who can decide.. if you think she is hiding things from you.. i think you better think 2x.. confronting is not breaking up.. if she did do that.. i think she is doing something fishy kasi sya pa itong may ganang magalit.. compromise and good talk might resolve something..