should i confront her or not? need some advice

[roninblade]

i think she's just confused like we all were when we were younger.

*gabriel knight, if you're serious about the relationship and if this situation really bothers you, talk to her. if confronting her is hard for you, give her a little bit of time and maybe she'll come around by herself and be faithful to you. if not, find somebody a little closer to your age, or at least graduate na from school, next time.

[space invader]

bro, confront her, better to tell the truth than keeping a lie all of ur life..

[Chip]

hmm wala ba syang binaggit na na-hack account nya?

kasi ako, may 2 friendster accounts na di ko na hawak. the first one was hacked , then i made another one and that got hacked too. (all right after i broke up with my ex by the way).

plus the other day, my friend messaged me that there's this chick looking for me in friendster daw, bigla akong kinabahan coz i thought my past was catching up with me hehe when i checked it out, di ko naman kilala. so malamang the one who has control of my accounts is still up to mischief.

on the bright side, it does feel good to have your own personal stalker. this loser has been going at it for almost three years. i feel like such a celebrity haha

[1D4LV]

Dude, hanap ka na ng iba.... Maybe she's not meant for you..

i offer you the same advice.

[Flagg]

papi yebo ishdat you??? :lolabove:

Oist sir chip, may baril yang si ninong...

[ARB]

serious ka, but what if shes not? if you want to marry her and she said yes and when youre married na you will be the VP of the house in other words under ka sa kanya kase alam niya na takot ka ma wala siya, even if just bf-gf palang kayo takot ka na. you will be miserable the whole time. enjoy ka ba non? always worried ka if where she is if hindi siya naka text, magiging paranoid ka. sa huli ikaw kawawa. lalaki ka boss, show it be strong. enjoy her while you still can and look for another one that deserves you better. baka pang takip butas ka lang nya. then pag nagbalikan sila bye bye.

[empy]

steal her cell phone out of her purse when she's not looking and look at the call history.

if you know all the numbers in there, maybe you're just being paranoid

if there are a few numbers there you don't recognize, maybe she's just making some business calls after hours

if there is one number you don't recognize that gets called 100 times late at night with a call length of over 30 minutes, then maybe that's just a wee bit odd.

if the ringtone for that number is "Unfaithful" by Rihanna, or "Secret Lovers" then you might want to worry just a little bit :bwahaha:

[GasJunkie]

Rihanna = mhmm mhmm mhmm

[BlueBimmer]

steal her cell phone out of her purse when she's not looking and look at the call history.

if you know all the numbers in there, maybe you're just being paranoid

if there are a few numbers there you don't recognize, maybe she's just making some business calls after hours

if there is one number you don't recognize that gets called 100 times late at night with a call length of over 30 minutes, then maybe that's just a wee bit odd.

if the ringtone for that number is "Unfaithful" by Rihanna, or "Secret Lovers" then you might want to worry just a little bit :bwahaha:

dont listen to empy, lasing nanaman yan

[Chip]

Oist sir chip, may baril yang si ninong...

:shark:

labyoo ninong yebo

[rusem]

steal her cell phone out of her purse when she's not looking and look at the call history.

if you know all the numbers in there, maybe you're just being paranoid

if there are a few numbers there you don't recognize, maybe she's just making some business calls after hours

if there is one number you don't recognize that gets called 100 times late at night with a call length of over 30 minutes, then maybe that's just a wee bit odd.

if the ringtone for that number is "Unfaithful" by Rihanna, or "Secret Lovers" then you might want to worry just a little bit :bwahaha:

:hysterical:di na paranoia yan. psychosis na yan... sick.. very sick:insomnia:

[yebo]

:shark:

labyoo ninong yebo

:gun:

gaga! kurutin kita jan e!

[Flagg]

steal her cell phone out of her purse when she's not looking and look at the call history...

Tama si sir M54... tapos compose you ng txt about meeting at some motel, tapos send to your cel...

Tapos confront mo na! :evillaugh

[k2tingx]

SHES NOT INTO YOU......PERIOD!!!

stop fooling yourself..you deserve someone..BETTER!!!

[H1Tman]

the problem with love is it is blind and lovers cannot see. you can choose to go on with it like you saw nothing and let time decide whether you made the right choice or made a fool of yourself . wherever you go, goodluck bro!

[oldblue]

hanggang ngaun ba hindi mo pa din na-confront? dapat update stage na tayo sa thread na'to

[gabriel knight]

i haven't confront her yet.

i know the fact that she's not into me and that breaks my heart considering na mag 3months na kami. i can think of five possible reasons right now, super strict parents niya, panakip butas lang ako, she's still hoping for her ex, huge age gap or she's just a player.

i don't feel like confronting her using the reason that i snooped around her email coz it could work against me and i don't want that to happen. another reason, i have to admit that i really love her. like what sir flagg and sir uls said, break up now or later, masasaktan rin naman ako.

i can't find any solid reason to break up with her right now. i cannot use the reason that she's not into me, that she don't want to introduced me to her parents, that she can't meet up as often as i want to and etc., coz she would just accused me of not understanding her since she already told me her parents are very strict and i don't want to have a break up where it will be my fault lalo na siya na nga yung may shortcomings.. it looks like i'm cornered right now and no place to go.

that, and the fact that i love her, made me decide to continue the relationship for a few weeks to a few months. by doing this, she can either start to love me na(some work on my part also) or i could discover more negative things about her and use that as a more solid reason for a breakup. of course, call me dumb but i prefer the former.

what i'm going to do is easier said than done coz i admit, ngayon pa lang nahihirapan na ako. minsan i would hope that this would end na lalo na kung niloloko lang niya ako at wala na ito pupuntahan, but there are times that nararamdaman ko pa rin na mahal ko siya and would still hope for better days. ang hirap talaga to be honest. minsan i'm wondering why she won't broke up with me yet, maybe she don't have any concrete reason to do so either and she's still enjoying me coz ako lagi humahabol but i hope things would get clearer in due time.

kaya i'm hoping and praying that she either start to love me or i would discover something that i would have a more solid reason to end it all.

[oldblue]

then you have no other choice but to experience the hurting. go through it na lang, that's the best teacher not us.

[Imau]

wow, this thread brings back sad and painful memories. the longer you wait the harder it gets. People tend to rationalize things that doesn't make sense when blinded by emotions, our logical thinking becomes impaired, we seem to ignore the obvious and we try to interpret things the other way around. I know its easier said than done, but the best thing for you to do is to dump the girl and move on with your life. It will only get worst mind you specially if she senses that you are wrapped around her fingers.

[baiskee]

sakit nito ah...pagusapan nyo mabuti relationship nyo. better talk with your gf.
wag mo itago yang nararamdaman mo. baka kung san pa lumabas yan at masamng hangin ang ilabas.

bro, kilalanin mo na lang muna mabuti mga babae.

buti na lang yung wife ko di ko nakilala sa internet/chat. ;)