What Do You Do To Overcome Sadness?

[uls]

Ang babae lagi umaasa na di pa over

Lagi naghihintay

Lalo tuwing special occasions baka bumati si lalake

Walang bati birthday?

There's Xmas naman

Walang bati Xmas?

There's new year naman

Wala parin?

There's Valentine's day.....

[_Cathy_]

For whatever it's worth, we just want you to be happy in the end. You seem to be a very loving person.

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Naawa talaga ako sa sarili ko kasi nag iisa na lang akong anak at matanda na family members ko. I'm not the type of person to get jealous pero naiinggit ako sa malaking pamilya, yung maraming tao (naiiyak tuloy ako). Kung sino man yung magiging person for me, he will be my all talaga, his family will be my family kaya I do hope I end up with a good person.

[_Cathy_]

Cath, pag 40 ka na and Next year ba yun Diba?[emoji23] pag wala ka pa lovelife, kayong dalawa na lang ni uls magkatuluyan.


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Hindi pa. Wag mo ko patandain! hahaha!

Ang babae lagi umaasa na di pa over

Lagi naghihintay

Lalo tuwing special occasions baka bumati si lalake

Walang bati birthday?

There's Xmas naman

Walang bati Xmas?

There's new year naman

Wala parin?

There's Valentine's day.....

Naniniwala naman ako when you told me after the first month that he did not initiate communication that it's over. I am only in denial that it's not My mind says it's over but my heart wants to believe otherwise.

[sean-archer]

Naawa talaga ako sa sarili ko kasi nag iisa na lang akong anak at matanda na family members ko. I'm not the type of person to get jealous pero naiinggit ako sa malaking pamilya, yung maraming tao (naiiyak tuloy ako). Kung sino man yung magiging person for me, he will be my all talaga, his family will be my family kaya I do hope I end up with a good person.

Kailanman hindi naging nakakaawa ang taong nagmamahal. Sa pursuit natin sa ultimate happiness, we need to experience all these things, both yung masarap and masakit.

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[Wh1stl3r]

Hi Cathy,

Can i give my virtual 2 cents?

Either do something about it and take charge of your situation or just let go.

Your constant bemoaning of your fate and your wistful recollections of his perfection are slowly but surely driving you into emotional and mental hell. Yes we all know how perfect he is and how he towers over other men in stature, IQ, EQ, looks, manners, power, etc. Yet everytime you write about it, you increase the weight of depression and longing that you are already carrying.

Call him. Greet him. Say anything to him. But do something . Even forgetting him is doing something. But doing nothing will just sink you ever deeper into a black pit of depression which all of us Tsikoteers are witness to. I dont want to sound mean and condescending but your musings are getting more and more pitiful. And im using the gentlest words i can find.

As Yoda said: 'there is no try....only Do'






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+2. Couldn't have said it better.

Nike marketing also used to say: "Just do it".

[_Cathy_]

Kailanman hindi naging nakakaawa ang taong nagmamahal. Sa pursuit natin sa ultimate happiness, we need to experience all these things, both yung masarap and masakit.

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Naawa lang ako sa situation ko. Malungkot kasi yung walang kapatid. It's true that I have so much love to give. Kaya pag nag asawa ako, siya lang talaga family ko (at yung mga magiging anak namin) Wala naman akong ibang bibigyan ng attention kundi siya lang.

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+2. Couldn't have said it better.

Nike marketing also used to say: "Just do it".

so you are telling me to call him?

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Uls, please give it to me straight. Be as harsh as you can.

Should I or shouldn't I call him?

[Wh1stl3r]

so you are telling me to call him?

If only for closure. You can call him or not, but if calling him is the only path that will bring you peace, then there's no choice really.

You know where I stand re: that guy.

[_Cathy_]

If only for closure. You can call him or not, but if calling him is the only path that will bring you peace, then there's no choice really.

You know where I stand re: that guy.

My problem is if I call him and he ignores me or tells me something negative, I might have a nervous breakdown

That happened to me in 2011 and I don't think my Mom can handle that anymore.

[ninjababez]

Uls, please give it to me straight. Be as harsh as you can.

Should I or shouldn't I call him?

Wag si uls pag desisyonin mo cathy ..
Sabi nga ni ben stiller




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[uls]

Uls, please give it to me straight. Be as harsh as you can.

Know why you're extra sad now?

Coz di ka binati ng Xmas.

Kasi umaasa ka parin after how many months

Alam ko umasa ka batiin ka sa bday mo at di nangyari yun

Ano pa sign hanap mo?

Di nga para sayo

Ok sige wala pa isang taon

May nagsabi binalikan nya gf nya after a yr

Helooo ibang iba sitwasyon nyo

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Problema kasi sayo you want to believe you met the perfect man and you convinced yourself he's perfect and you told all your friends and everyone here how perfect he is

You fell in love with an exaggerated image of a man you created in your head