
Originally Posted by
testament11
oh, ang haba na pala ng nangyayari sa yo DL! Hmmmm...
Ganito, payong matino. Based sa experience ko with my last relationship, ganyan din ako. Aaminin ko, I was stunned nung makita ko siya. Then, sinabi ko nalang sa sarili ko na I want to be close to her, tipong I want her to be a close friend of mine muna. Then after that, tska nalang yun ibang part, like courting or anything. What I did, OBSERVE and OBSERVE, THINK and THINK of the situation you will be entering. Bakit observe, ngayon ko lang nakilala yung girl, need to know how she acts, attitude, manners. Think, kasi kelangan mo mag-isip kung paano pag dumating ang mga ganung situations. Kung pass or fail, and to think of the right moves.
Now, as for the girl you're courting na broken hearted? Tanungin mo kung bakit sila nagbreak at GAANO KATAGAL SILA NG EX NYA at KUNG MAY PLANO PA BA ANG GUY BUMALIK OR THE OTHER WAY AROUND. As for me, ang binanat ko lang nung 2nd time nagdate kami is "Baka may magagalit kasi you're going out with me..." Sabi lang nya na dati, oo, nung mga time na nag-aaya ako na lumabas kami (I asked her 3 times, at yung 4th time, 1st date namin). Kasi, pag galing sa long relationship yan, better watch out, baka maging fall guy ka lang nya, which is masakit for us guys.
Tapos ganito, BE CONSISTENT! Dapat maging consistent ka sa kanya. Kung plano mo sunduin araw araw, baka magsawa yan sa yo. Well, depende yan bro, kasi sa kin kasi, we work at the same place, so we see each other all the time. Gifts, naku, wag masyado all out bro! Eto ang 1 advice, DON'T SHOW EVERYTHING. Wag masyado magarbo, wag masyado hi-end ang mga regalo or anything. As much as possible, make it simple, yet thoughtful.
Dumating din sa point na may karibal ako pero lucky for me, nung pinayagan nya ko manligaw, yung kabilang partido, hindi pinayagan, hehehe... (sinabi nya lahat yun sa kin nung minsan lumabas kami)
At eto pa ang 1 kong masasbi, wag mo isipin may karibal ka. Just do your part. Ika nga ng iba, walang pakialaman, kanya kanyang diskarte lang yan. Yun lang, panalo ang may mas magandang diskarte. Basta, don't mind the other party that much, just think of it na its one good competition, MAY THE BEST MAN WIN!
At eto pa ang 1 payo ko, just let everything GO WITH THE FLOW. LET TIME DO ITS THING. At ang best weapon para sa kin, DL, daanin mo sa dasal... Pagdasal mo siya palagi...