So in a relationship, pag ang girl pumayag that means gusto nyo talaga kami? But doesn't necessarily mean na love nyo kami right?
So in a relationship, pag ang girl pumayag that means gusto nyo talaga kami? But doesn't necessarily mean na love nyo kami right?
if you can tell your sons/daughters (or future sons/daughters) that it's ok to do it before marriage hehehe then so be it! hintayin ninyong magkaanak kayo. kung ok, sige pards walang problema :D yan lang usapan dyan.
Mabilis kasing sabihin na ok eh, hintayin ninyong magkaanak kayo.
if I may asked what circa are we talking about here? I mean your teenage years? hehehhe
I will respect her decision and belief.....
I love to eat good apples...hehehehe
as to the topic what if my daughter/son do it? I wouldn't know it I'm sure until they have done it....bakit yun first time niyo ba sinabi niyo sa parents niyo na gagawin niyo na yun? you decided on your own diba?
Last edited by shadow; November 13th, 2007 at 08:50 AM.
Cathy for you:
What if your GF is a virgin and she says that she wants to keep it until after marriage? Is that okay with guys? Kasi I have a guy friend who said that he won't marry a girl until he knows that they are ***ually compatible (which I guess means that he should sleep with her first)
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aha alam ko na itong linyang ito! luma na yan girl. kilala ko kayo... eto yun sinasabi ng ibang girl na may nakaraan na at nagalaw na tapos huling alas nlng nila yun line na yan para tangapin sila or buy some time. tapos sasabihin nlng na na um sila pag ikakasal na or after titignan kng tatangapin pa sila nun guy. o diba hehe
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for those dads na disagree on physical intimacy... i know these are dads na maraming atraso sa mga tsiks na ayaw nila bumalik sa kanila. wala po tayo magagawa dyan babalik at babalik talaga yan and that is the price to pay. kaya be nice hwag lang iskor tapos about face.
Last edited by boydapa; November 13th, 2007 at 09:00 AM.
So if you want to share your intimacy with only your girlfriend, why can't you wait to do it until after you are married?
Again, you still haven't clarified how you determine "***ual compatibility." Better yet, could you give us instances when you could say that you are "***ually incompatible" with someone? Ano ba ito, yung tipong 6'5" yung lalaki tapos 4'11" lang yung babae?
What difference does it make if I was born in an earlier generation? Morality does not change --only the values that people adhere to does. Before we accept these values, we must sincerely ask ourselves if they will lead us closer to what is true and holy, and not just whether they make us feel good physically.
Ya there are apples way up high on the tree nga...
And they think they are way much better than the apples low down...
They talk about the lower apples "Eeeew, ang cheap nila!"
But the lower apples dont care. The lower apples get their boys, they get pregnant, then get dumped.
The higher apples think "See what happened to them? Cheap kasi nila. Di tayo cheap. That wont happen to us."
But the lower apples dont care. Life goes on. They have their babies, they raise their babies... years pass... the kids bring much happiness to the lower apples...
The higher apples are still where they are... high up in the tree... they get ripe with age... they get so ripe they just fall off the tree.
Now boys notice them on the ground... but dont bother to pick them coz they are no longer fresh looking...
hehehe
bec. generation gap plays a big role of this matter....the taboos in your generation might be just a normal thing now...What difference does it make if I was born in an earlier generation? Morality does not change --only the values that people adhere to does. Before we accept these values, we must sincerely ask ourselves if they will lead us closer to what is true and holy, and not just whether they make us feel good physically.
uls:
The higher apples are still where they are... high up in the tree... they get ripe with age... they get so ripe they just fall off the tree.
Now boys notice them on the ground... but dont bother to pick them coz they are no longer fresh looking...
hehehe
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great! o diba! ganyan nga nangyayari tingin ng tingin pili ng pili hangang sa dumating yun point na kahit na sila na yun nagpepresent sa sarili nila ayaw na kagatin. dami ko kakilalang ganyan! hahaha
***ual compatibility:
What if the girl doesnt like ***? What if the girl thinks *** is dirty and feels guilty doing it? (maniwala kayo meron ganyan)
What if the girl doesnt enjoy *** and thinks it's a chore or a duty to the husband?
What if the girl just lays there and does nothing and the husband does all the work? Here's worse --- total lights out, under the sheets, lays there, no reaction.
I can hear the girls' reactions now "Baket? Ano ba dapat?!" haha
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Applies to women too.
What if the guy cant satisfy you?
What if the guy finishes too early all the time?
What if the guy is impotent?
There are lots of what ifs.
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Ya sure, there things more important than physical intimacy in a relationship. But problems in the bedroom can affect things outside the bedroom.