is physical intimacy important to a relationship?

[alwayz_yummy]

this thread will show whose a MAN and a BOY

[uls]

Apart from being nervous, they said there was also physical discomfort e. Not only on the first time. It took a while before the pain went away daw?

I read a previous post saying that some girls really don't like doing it. I believe that coz I have a friend that hates doing it. She tells me that she and her hubby go for over 6 months without doing it. SHe believes that "it" should be done only for purposes of procreation and absolutely no "creativity" involved.

hahahaha

poor guy. Well, unless he also hates ***.

iba iba ang babae. I couldnt emphasize that enough.

On one end of the spectrum u have girls who totally hate *** and on the other end u have girls who love *** so much they are insatiable.

U have to find your match. Ur partner has to match ur libido.

If not, it wont be a great marriage. U may stay together, u may enjoy each other's company outside of the bedroom, u may be good friends and have a lot in common, pero sigurado may kulang if ur life in the bedroom isnt doing great.

That's why i believe in test driving muna before the purchase

hehe

[boydapa]

virgin ba kamo? nasa kapaan lng yan

[shadow]

ayos ah isang babae lang ang medyo interested sa topic, tapos puro "daw", sabi ng friends ko, experienced ng friends ko...hehehehe

wala bang mga PERSONAL experience...? hehehehe joke...

[shadow]

I read a previous post saying that some girls really don't like doing it. I believe that coz I have a friend that hates doing it. She tells me that she and her hubby go for over 6 months without doing it. SHe believes that "it" should be done only for purposes of procreation and absolutely no "creativity" involved.

I'm surprised at hinde pa sila hiwalay ng husband niya...

[_Cathy_]

I only rely on the stories of my friends. I just want to know how the perspective of guys.

[_Cathy_]

I'm surprised at hinde pa sila hiwalay ng husband niya...

Maybe the guy isn't into doing it as well??? I think it took them more than a month after the wedding before they finally did it. I trust that my friend was telling the truth kasi there's no reason for her to lie. We were talking about our other friend kasi who is into premarital and she said that she can't get why my friend even wants to do it "voluntarily" hehehe.

[shadow]

^^^if that is the case I think her husband is homo***ual....100%

[_Cathy_]

No way. I don't think so. Maybe he's just not into it or he can go beyond his physical needs.

[Flagg]

lustful guy = cannot be trusted = DUMPED with no hesitations

Hihihi... tama ka dyan! Kung lust lang nga yun...

[Flagg]

...I love to eat good apples...hehehehe

Best for apple pie = grandma apples. :rofl:

...as to the topic what if my daughter/son do it? I wouldn't know it I'm sure until they have done it....bakit yun first time niyo ba sinabi niyo sa parents niyo na gagawin niyo na yun? you decided on your own diba?

Ako may anak me. OK lang sakin whatever decision niya. Early in his/her life palang, brainwash ko na sya about responsibility.

They must not be thinking that any act is forbidden, lalo na when it is easily within their power to commit the act.

Rather, they should be thinking of their responsibility and consequences of the act. Just like me noon. Kaya, I had my good times, and also, when I became a daddy, ready na ready na ako at the time. Parang have your cake and eat it, too.

[Flagg]

...In my opinion, the answers to all of the items you posted can be extracted just by talking to your partner, without need for having actual physical contact.

Moreover, all of these problems can be solved after marriage through dialogue, prayer and counseling. Human beings aren't set in stone --we have the power to change given the right motivation.

BF: Sweetie, gusto ko yung naka-HS uniform...
GF: Oks lang sakin sweetie, pero pag kasal na tayo.

Later...
Hubby: Sweetie, nasaan na HS uniform mo... :inlove:
Wifey: Sweetie, eto, isuot mo na...

Paktay! :rofl:

[Flagg]

...and also, it might be a good idea to vaccinate your daughters against HPV before puberty.

May ganito pala? From what kind of doctor can this be obtained, boss?

[Syuryuken]

BF: Sweetie, gusto ko yung naka-HS uniform...
GF: Oks lang sakin sweetie, pero pag kasal na tayo.

Later...
Hubby: Sweetie, nasaan na HS uniform mo... :inlove:
Wifey: Sweetie, eto, isuot mo na...

Paktay! :rofl:

Flagg ikaw ba yan???

:hysterical:

[Flagg]

...I read a previous post saying that some girls really don't like doing it. I believe that coz I have a friend that hates doing it. She tells me that she and her hubby go for over 6 months without doing it. SHe believes that "it" should be done only for purposes of procreation and absolutely no "creativity" involved.

This involves a certain level of skill. Some people can drive QC to Makati in 1 hour. Others, 30 minutes.

Ganun lang yun.

[devdevlin]

I'm surprised at hinde pa sila hiwalay ng husband niya...

mas logical ba yun dahilan ng paghihiwalay ng married couple than just bf gf relationship kung ganto ang rason?

[_Cathy_]

mas logical ba yun dahilan ng paghihiwalay ng married couple than just bf gf relationship kung ganto ang rason?

I think so. Because it's part of being married. I'm not sure but I was told that when the marriage is not consumated(?) within a certain period, ground yun for annulment? Any lawyers who can verify?

[Automahn]

Apart from being nervous, they said there was also physical discomfort e. Not only on the first time. It took a while before the pain went away daw?

I read a previous post saying that some girls really don't like doing it. I believe that coz I have a friend that hates doing it. She tells me that she and her hubby go for over 6 months without doing it. SHe believes that "it" should be done only for purposes of procreation and absolutely no "creativity" involved.

I'm surprised at hinde pa sila hiwalay ng husband niya...

Maybe the guy isn't into doing it as well??? I think it took them more than a month after the wedding before they finally did it. I trust that my friend was telling the truth kasi there's no reason for her to lie. We were talking about our other friend kasi who is into premarital and she said that she can't get why my friend even wants to do it "voluntarily" hehehe.

^^^if that is the case I think her husband is homo***ual....100%

No way. I don't think so. Maybe he's just not into it or he can go beyond his physical needs.

Or maybe he's getting "it" from some other woman.

[_Cathy_]

Bantay Sarado e. Malabo. Saka mukhang good boy talaga yung hubby ng friend ko at parang patay na patay pa rin sa friend ko despite the lack of ... hehe.

[shadow]

bakla yan sigurado!!! lalaki ang gusto kaya ok lang sa kanya kahit walang *** for six months sa wife niya...