is physical intimacy important to a relationship?

[devdevlin]

how long is too long for you to wait?

[uls]

of course physical intimacy is important.

how long is too long to wait?

if i really like the girl, i'll wait no matter how long. Just to prove to her im patient...

As for my intimacy needs while waiting... meron ako sideline na di nya alam

hehehe

[basti08]

of course physical intimacy is important.

how long is too long to wait?

if i really like the girl, i'll wait no matter how long. Just to prove to her im patient...

As for my intimacy needs while waiting... meron ako sideline na di nya alam

hehehe

ditto.

"meron ako sideline na di nya alam"

yun yon eh...

[Lucius]

To answer the question yes. Usually it takes me 2-3 weeks to bed the girl. Pinakamatagal na yung within the 3rd week. Pag mabilisisan usually within the first week.

Kung girlfriend mo yan, nako iba yan. Unless virgin, you should understand. Pero pag di na tapos wala binibitin bitin ka? Magisip isip ka na.

[_Cathy_]

What if your GF is a virgin and she says that she wants to keep it until after marriage? Is that okay with guys? Kasi I have a guy friend who said that he won't marry a girl until he knows that they are ***ually compatible (which I guess means that he should sleep with her first)

[Lucius]

Before, I prefer virgins. Now ok lang kahit di na. IF she really is a virgin, then I'll wait then. Punta Vegas kasal na agad.

[valskie01]

What if your GF is a virgin and she says that she wants to keep it until after marriage? Is that okay with guys? Kasi I have a guy friend who said that he won't marry a girl until he knows that they are ***ually compatible (which I guess means that he should sleep with her first)

im the luckiest person if this is the kind of gf i have. tell to your guy friend na masuwerte siya sa gf niya

[IMm29]

Not giving you any? ;)

"How long is too long to wait" really depends on the couple and their maturity for physical intimacy. I don't think there's a hard and fast rule for this, na kung di ka pagbibigyan, hihiwalayan mo na lang siya. She could have her reasons for not wanting it, as you have your reasons for wanting it. Subtly get that information out of her and see what's scaring her.

[uls]

meron kasi mga girl na gusto meron sila bf pero ayaw nila ng ***.

selfish no? hehe

Gusto lang nila mag usap. Mag usap araw araw... mag usap nang matagaaal... mag usap lang... 4 life.

If i have a gf like that, di ko naman i-be-break. Maintain ko lang sya. Buti na yung may kausap lagi kesa wala diba?

Mag hanap nalang ako ng fling para sa intimacy needs ko

haha

[baludoy]

Gusto lang nila mag usap. Mag usap araw araw... mag usap nang matagaaal... mag usap lang... 4 life.

namputcha! natawa ako dito! hahaha

[lugarai]

"*** is an emotion in motion"

[cutedoc]

i agree with mickey177, *** isnt the sole basis of your unity, love is=)

and *** is a sacred thing that a couple should do after they took their vow in front of the church, respect is one of the key to a healthier relationship=)

[meledson]

Important but it is not the main basis of a relationship.

[boydapa]

pag walang um um wala din treat hehe!

pag walang ganyan ibig sabihin hindi ka tlaga type nun partner mo. mga 1 month matagal na yan. minsan nga pagsinuswerte same day ng sagot deretso biglang liko agad eh hehe

ako din sideline---hanap muna FF

[uls]

haha

dapat may sideline para walang urge pag kasama mo ung main girl mo.

It would make her think super patient and super gentleman and super decent ka.

Di nya alam kaya wala ka urge kasi naubos mo urge mo kay sideline girl

hahaha

[wewoy_romero]

Important but it is not the main basis of a relationship.

agree ako kay meledson

[gentlebreeze]

If I had a daughter, and the guys who posted their answers here were her suitors/bf, I'll throw in my support for mickey177.

[devdevlin]

the question was based on being a binata with his gf, and not based on having a daughter or son. ok lang ba mga chief na based din sana dun mga answers natin?

[uls]

i think it's better that u become physically intimate with ur partner early in the relationship so ur mind can go beyond that... then the relationship can move to a deeper level.

As long as u havent done it with her, the thought of doing it with her will remain floating around in ur mind all the time...

And as anticipition builds, so will ur expectations... syempre sa tagal mo naghintay, it better be good.

Then after months of waiting, finally pumayag na sya,

Then after kayo mag do, you say to yourself "Yan lang?!"

"Is this what i've been waiting for all this time?!"

haha

[devdevlin]

i think it's better that u become physically intimate with ur partner early in the relationship so ur mind can go beyond that... then the relationship can move to a deeper level.

As long as u havent done it with her, the thought of doing it with her will remain floating around in ur mind all the time...

And as anticipition builds, so will ur expectations... syempre sa tagal mo naghintay, it better be good.

Then after months of waiting, finally pumayag na sya,

Then after kayo mag do, you say to yourself "Yan lang?!"

"Is this what i've been waiting for all this time?!"

haha

oo nga no? havent really thought about this. how do you deal with this nga ba? lalo na if the anticipation is fueled by the assurance of satisfaction?