is physical intimacy important to a relationship?

[u2ykins]

Ya there are apples way up high on the tree nga...

And they think they are way much better than the apples low down...

They talk about the lower apples "Eeeew, ang cheap nila!"

But the lower apples dont care. The lower apples get their boys, they get pregnant, then get dumped.

The higher apples think "See what happened to them? Cheap kasi nila. Di tayo cheap. That wont happen to us."

But the lower apples dont care. Life goes on. They have their babies, they raise their babies... years pass... the kids bring much happiness to the lower apples...

The higher apples are still where they are... high up in the tree... they get ripe with age... they get so ripe they just fall off the tree.

Now boys notice them on the ground... but dont bother to pick them coz they are no longer fresh looking...

hehehe

+1 here. very well said. marami talagang ganyan. those apple on top of the tree ay iyong mga masyadong mataas ang standard sa pagpili ng makakasama. mostly pintasera but at the end kinakain nila ang kanilang salita and pride. sori kung may tinamaan but it's true.

[Eismann]

I guess u just have to lower your expectations.

Or prepare to be disappointed.

That way, no matter how it turns out, you'll be happy.. hehehe

Thing about doing it agad or very early in the relationship is it gets that whole lust/urge thing out of the way and u can focus on deeper stuff...

Or better yet, do your lustful stuff sa iba muna....sa AFO.... pero sa talagang "love" mo, let it flow naturally. When it comes it comes. It might be before or after marriage. Don't force the issue. It might take months or even years but don't force it. Yung **bog lilipas yan pare.

[devdevlin]

Or better yet, do your lustful stuff sa iba muna....sa AFO.... pero sa talagang "love" mo, let it flow naturally. When it comes it comes. It might be before or after marriage. Don't force the issue. It might take months or even years but don't force it. Yung **bog lilipas yan pare.

salamat chief, kw din ba if you're in the same situation you'd take ur own advise?

[Aileen]

+1 here. very well said. marami talagang ganyan. those apple on top of the tree ay iyong mga masyadong mataas ang standard sa pagpili ng makakasama. mostly pintasera but at the end kinakain nila ang kanilang salita and pride. sori kung may tinamaan but it's true.

tst tst wrong interpretation

[Lucius]

May mga good apples kasi na not good-looking at all. I only pick good-looking apples, be it fresh or not. What's inside can be changed through time, pero the looks, hindi na. Hahahaha kahit mayaman pa yan, kung di naman maganda tingnan, ganun pa din.

[_Cathy_]

im the luckiest person if this is the kind of gf i have. tell to your guy friend na masuwerte siya sa gf niya

so it's still a plus if a girl is a virgin? I have some guy friends who prefer non-virgins.

[VtEC]

so it's still a plus if a girl is a virgin? I have some guy friends who prefer non-virgins.

pisikal intimacy kailangan na kailangan yan.sangkap nayan ng isang buong relasyon.

virginity??i think nobody in this forum can tell whether a gal is still a virgin or not.anyways, virginity - madaming ibig sabihin yan
why not ask your guy friends their secrets in knowing if the gal is still a virgin or not?i'll bet my cent if one can answer you properly.suntok sa buwan lang sigurado isasagot nila sayo.

[Eismann]

salamat chief, kw din ba if you're in the same situation you'd take ur own advise?

I already did.......that was ten years ago now I'm married.
...pero paminsan-minsan nakakalusot pa din sa AFO.

[_Cathy_]

pisikal intimacy kailangan na kailangan yan.sangkap nayan ng isang buong relasyon.

virginity??i think nobody in this forum can tell whether a gal is still a virgin or not.anyways, virginity - madaming ibig sabihin yan
why not ask your guy friends their secrets in knowing if the gal is still a virgin or not?i'll bet my cent if one can answer you properly.suntok sa buwan lang sigurado isasagot nila sayo.

Bleeding? Although some girls don't bleed nga so I guess honesty? kasi my friends who are already married said that doing it for the first times really hurt and they started enjoying it only after several times. Won't the guys know if the girl is having a hard time? I don't think a girl could act it out unless best actress hahaha.

About the meaning of virgnity. My girl friends think that when a girl engages in OS even without reaching home run, the girl is a non-virgin na raw. What's your take on that?

[jedi]

just a note...

i deleted some of the post... please make this thread clean para di malock..

thanks

[shadow]

^^^ how old are your friends? if a woman's v****a was never penetrated by a p***s then she is still a virgin...kahit anong pang pag gagawin niya....



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[uls]

Bleeding? Although some girls don't bleed nga so I guess honesty? kasi my friends who are already married said that doing it for the first times really hurt and they started enjoying it only after several times. Won't the guys know if the girl is having a hard time? I don't think a girl could act it out unless best actress hahaha.

About the meaning of virgnity. My girl friends think that when a girl engages in OS even without reaching home run, the girl is a non-virgin na raw. What's your take on that?

Technically, as long as a girl has never had intercourse, then she's still a virgin.

But there are guys who dont think technically.

They use INNOCENCE as their basis.

For example: If a technically virgin girl has experienced doing things with her bf (like OS and stuff), then she's no longer innocent. So to some guys, she's no longer a virgin.

Standard nila yan e. Ang virgin para sa kanila is never been kissed, never been touched -- LITERALLY.

There are guys who have very high standards pag dating sa magiging partner in life.

[funkngruvn]

close na lang to.. hehe :pcwhack:

[Horsepower]

pisikal intimacy kailangan na kailangan yan.sangkap nayan ng isang buong relasyon.

virginity??i think nobody in this forum can tell whether a gal is still a virgin or not.anyways, virginity - madaming ibig sabihin yan
why not ask your guy friends their secrets in knowing if the gal is still a virgin or not?i'll bet my cent if one can answer you properly.suntok sa buwan lang sigurado isasagot nila sayo.

False.

An average seasoned guy would know.

I know.

Proven.

On several occasions.

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Cathy: of course it's a big plus but it shouldn't rule your life.
Out of respect to you being a female, i won't elaborate but it's really important.

Don't believe your sleazy guy "friend", he's just smooth talking you to sleep with him. Psyching you that it's okay to sleep around. Then he'll transform you into his BB (Bed buddy) so he'll have a hole when he's feeling hot.

Don't hang out with him anymore for your sake.

[valskie01]

so it's still a plus if a girl is a virgin? I have some guy friends who prefer non-virgins.

virgin or not. masuwerte ang lalaking may gf na makikipagtalik lang pagkatapos ng kanilang kasal.

how would you know if your gf is virgin or not. its a matter of being honest to each other.

i commend those woman who are honest to admit to their bf na hindi na sila virgin and have a conviction to have *** again only after the wedding.

now if you are the bf would you do the same?

[_Cathy_]

^^^ how old are your friends? if a woman's v****a was never penetrated by a p***s then she is still a virgin...kahit anong pang pag gagawin niya....

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In their mid 20s. Some lost it after marriage. Some in college. But they were all unanimous in saying that doing it wasn't pleasurable the first time.

[_Cathy_]

i commend those woman who are honest to admit to their bf na hindi na sila virgin and have a conviction to have *** again only after the wedding.

now if you are the bf would you do the same?

that I do not get. What's the use in holding it back/waiting after the wedding if she's done it previously- outside marriage?

[ghosthunter]

In their mid 20s. Some lost it after marriage. Some in college. But they were all unanimous in saying that doing it wasn't pleasurable the first time.

...and one of the biggest reasons might be because they were nervous on their first time.

[uls]

that I do not get. What's the use in holding it back/waiting after the wedding if she's done it previously- outside marriage?

nag-iinarte lang ung babae. Feeling virgin.

Maybe she has regrets that she gave herself to her former boyfriends and they dumped her...

so she promises herself when she has a new BF, she wont do it with him until after they get married.

[_Cathy_]

Apart from being nervous, they said there was also physical discomfort e. Not only on the first time. It took a while before the pain went away daw?

I read a previous post saying that some girls really don't like doing it. I believe that coz I have a friend that hates doing it. She tells me that she and her hubby go for over 6 months without doing it. SHe believes that "it" should be done only for purposes of procreation and absolutely no "creativity" involved.