Marrying a Single Mom

[MR_BIG18]

1. Kapag ba single mom mababa na market value? How about single dad?

2. Pa OT ng kunti:
May ngpayo sakin na sa age ko,34, I should settle na daw sa either single dad or sa byudo. (sila na kasi nanliligaw sakin) Atleast sila daw hindi na magdedemand ng anak sakin na bka malabo ko na daw maibigay at my age.

Sakin nmn kasi kung gusto ko ang guy, go. may anak man o wala. Pero hindi dahil sa yun na lang ang option ko.

P.S. yung nagpayo nga pala sakin nun binaon ko na sa lupa.

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Pls watch...btw this is not my opinion in anyway

TFM's Guide to ***ual Marketplace Values - YouTube

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[ninjababez]

I really admire guys na proud sa gf /wife nila. Yung iba kse nitatago.. Anyway, Good for you. Maswerte ka sa gf mo. Best wishes!

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salamat bro pero sa experience ko, never need itago kung may gf or anak or asawa ka. kung gusto ka ng tao, kahit may anak, asawa ka or gf ka, papatusin ka parin naman.

[uls]

siguro naman i-si-sikreto mo kung nag gf ka ng may asawa


sabi ni thenighcrawler meron lalake sinisikreto ang gf

may reason yan

baka ayaw mapintasan ng family and friends

baka bawal

[remzam]

siguro naman i-si-sikreto mo kung nag gf ka ng may asawa


sabi ni thenighcrawler meron lalake sinisikreto ang gf

may reason yan

baka ayaw mapintasan ng family and friends

baka bawal

Isisikreto sa asawa hahaha pero yung gf minsan alam

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[uls]

i mean pag nag gf ka ng married woman

di naman siguro kayo maglalakad sa mall diba?

di mo naman siguro i-b-broadcast sa buong mundo na yan ang gf mo

[uls]

yun nga binata mahihiya malaman ng mga kaibigan na nag gf siya ng may anak na

pintas ang aabutin niya pag nalaman

[chronicle]

yun nga binata mahihiya malaman ng mga kaibigan na nag gf siya ng may anak na

pintas ang aabutin niya pag nalaman

It takes courage sa ganyan. Block out the negatives. But it happens talaga lalo na sa barkada kasi asaran.

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[KingoftheNorth]

It takes courage sa ganyan. Block out the negatives. But it happens talaga lalo na sa barkada kasi asaran.

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Had a friend and co-worker who married a woman who had 3 kids (all of school age) from a former marriage. I was his best man at his wedding. No concerns at all. He even adopted the kids legally and had 1 of his own. Our barkada accepted his wife fully notwithstanding her background and we don't judge our friend for the choice he made.

The guy is a consultant in a BPO and production company (he attends the Cannes Film Festival) while the wife has her own business (wholesale and retail of local and imported fabrics and trimmings)

They've been together 15+ years now.

My cousin who is 50+ recently got engaged to a 40-something doctor, and they accept the fact that they will probably not have children of their own. It doesn't diminish the woman (who is lovely, by the way) in our eyes at all and our family loves her.

[chronicle]

Had a friend and co-worker who married a woman who had 3 kids (all of school age) from a former marriage. I was his best man at his wedding. No concerns at all. He even adopted the kids legally and had 1 of his own. Our barkada accepted his wife fully notwithstanding her background and we don't judge our friend for the choice he made.

The guy is a consultant in a BPO and production company (he attends the Cannes Film Festival) while the wife has her own business (wholesale and retail of local and imported fabrics and trimmings)

They've been together 15+ years now.

My cousin who is 50+ recently got engaged to a 40-something doctor, and they accept the fact that they will probably not have children of their own. It doesn't diminish the woman (who is lovely, by the way) in our eyes at all and our family loves her.

The statement is just a generalization. Of course may exception to the rule palagi like your friend which is good btw.

Buti di pumalag yung mga anak to change their surname. Afaik, maraming lalakarin din kasi to change name so good for them to push through with the process.

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[ninjababez]

yun nga binata mahihiya malaman ng mga kaibigan na nag gf siya ng may anak na

pintas ang aabutin niya pag nalaman

buti nalang wala nagsasabi sakin ng masama (atleast not in my face), siguro dahil isa rin smeagol yun ex ko na single prior to my gf with 4 kids and lot older than me. masyado naman kasi old school thinking kung ganun. kung may kaibigan ako or kakilala na ganun, tapos wala naman problema yun babae; wala na siguro ako pakialam sa decision ng kamag anak or kaibigan ko.

[KingoftheNorth]

The statement is just a generalization. Of course may exception to the rule palagi like your friend which is good btw.

Buti di pumalag yung mga anak to change their surname. Afaik, maraming lalakarin din kasi to change name so good for them to push through with the process.

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Hindi naman pumalag yung kids because napamahal di sa kanila yung friend ko, who acted as their second dad. Their biological father abandoned their mother and their family when he got into a heavy gambling debt and almost destroyed the family business.

As for the change of surname, as far as I understand it, kasama dun sa decision nung court which granted the adoption, so dinala lang yung certified true copy nung decision sa Civil Registry. The wife, by then, already had her first marriage annulled and retained custody of her kids.

[chronicle]

Hindi naman pumalag yung kids because napamahal di sa kanila yung friend ko, who acted as their second dad. Their biological father abandoned their mother and their family when he got into a heavy gambling debt and almost destroyed the family business.

As for the change of surname, as far as I understand it, kasama dun sa decision nung court which granted the adoption, so dinala lang yung certified true copy nung decision sa Civil Registry. The wife, by then, already had her first marriage annulled and retained custody of her kids.

Nice. Kids might have been traumatized by the ordeal of the previous.
How did the parents of your friend reacted when the they learned future wife have +3?
Dami tanong pero good case yang sa friend mo.

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[KingoftheNorth]

Nice. Kids might have been traumatized by the ordeal of the previous.
How did the parents of your friend reacted when the they learned future wife have +3?
Dami tanong pero good case yang sa friend mo.

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The parents of my friend were already living abroad (ME) and I think they took it positively naman since they came home for the pamamanhikan and the wedding. The kids, for them, were no issue. In fact, it was the girl who assured my friend's parents that she could more than manage to provide for her kids' needs (food, medical care, schooling, etc) kasi nga siya yung nag-worry that the parents might think negatively about their relationship. Apparently they hit it off quite well.

[chronicle]

The parents of my friend were already living abroad (ME) and I think they took it positively naman since they came home for the pamamanhikan and the wedding. The kids, for them, were no issue. In fact, it was the girl who assured my friend's parents that she could more than manage to provide for her kids' needs (food, medical care, schooling, etc) kasi nga siya yung nag-worry that the parents might think negatively about their relationship. Apparently they hit it off quite well.

Nice to hear no complications from the byenans.
I guess this case falls under true love nga dahil the girl is well off naman.

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[complex]

basta love mo walang problema

[minicarph]

buti nalang wala nagsasabi sakin ng masama (atleast not in my face), siguro dahil isa rin smeagol yun ex ko na single prior to my gf with 4 kids and lot older than me. masyado naman kasi old school thinking kung ganun. kung may kaibigan ako or kakilala na ganun, tapos wala naman problema yun babae; wala na siguro ako pakialam sa decision ng kamag anak or kaibigan ko.

di ko talaga ma-gets yun smeagol, ninja. ano ba talaga ibig sabihin nyan pangit lang ba pinaputalan mo, pero since love mo ok ka na.

[Pei Yamada]

di ko talaga ma-gets yun smeagol, ninja. ano ba talaga ibig sabihin nyan pangit lang ba pinaputalan mo, pero since love mo ok ka na.

Ano po yung smeagol? Ibang smeagol kasi alam ko..at baka kasi bagong term/slang yan at hindi ko alam..

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[ninjababez]

smeagol tawag ko sa mga mabait & understanding kunyari, hanggang sa ma lure ka nila. tapos lalabas tunay na ugali, and ofcourse pag wala na makeup ay makikita mo si ... smeagol
i think mali nga term ko, gollum yata dapat

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Smeagol



Gollum

[Pei Yamada]

smeagol tawag ko sa mga mabait & understanding kunyari, hanggang sa ma lure ka nila. tapos lalabas tunay na ugali, and ofcourse pag wala na makeup ay makikita mo si ... smeagol
i think mali nga term ko, gollum yata dapat

Yan nga yung naisip ko...si "my precious"..

Meron palang mga ganun babae..kasi di ba kung ako babae gusto ko tanggap ako anuman ako que suplada o mabait..

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