Living with My Family while Raising my own Family

[CLAVEL3699]

Pinalaki kami nang parents ko na hindi obligasyon nang anak ang magulang. Ibig sa sabihin obligasyon na nang anak ang kanyang pamilya hindi kasama ang magulang.

Pagnag asawa na daw ako kailangan ko na bumukod sa kanila at asikasuhin ko ang aking responsibilidad ang aking bagong family. Dahil sila tapos na din ang obligasyon nila sa akin. They have there own money and property na magagamit nila sa pagtanda nila.

Ibig sabihin hindi ako pwede umasa sa kanila pag may sarili na akong pamilya... Ako mismo ang dapat pagpursigi na magkaroon nang sariling bahay, kotse at sariling ipon sa bangko. Hindi nila ako inobliga na magbigay nang pera sa kanila buwan buwan ang katwiran ang dapat ko sustentuhan ay ang aking sariling pamilya,

Pagnangailangan ako nang pera pag nangutang ako sa kanila may tubo yun at kailangan ko bayaran nang monthly sa kanila... Natuto ako maging responsable dahil alam ko na hindi ako pwede umasa sa parents ko dahil BAWAL.

Nung namatay sila naenjoy nila ang pinagpaguran nila... mga pera na naipon nila dahil maalwa ang kanilang buhay... RETIRED living kung baga. Nung nagkasakit mother ko at kailangan nang malaking halaga hindi namin pinoblema dahil may pera sila dun na lang sa huli na kinakapos na.

May mga property pa din kami namana... yun nga lang may istorya pagkatapos.

[marktams86]

Having your parents (or in-laws) living with you will cause conflict on "who is in charge" of the house and kids. Your parents cannot help themselves but to teach and spoil their grandkids. If you complain to them about it, they will reason out that they did it out of love.

Anyway, if it works out for you... then great.

BUT the majority of families experience conflict whenever the grandparents are living with them. You may not believe it until you experience it for yourself.

yup! take it from me! I'm the living example of it... My parents and I were quite close and I never thought we would have this kind of conflict... so good luck to you spirit ralf...

[marktams86]

Well one good reason kung bakit gusto ko sila makasama eh, gusto ko ipakita sa magiging anak ko kung panu ko sila aalagan, para pag tanda ko eh, sakaling manahin nila yung pagiging matubing anak sa magulang. aalagan rin nila ako un lang . hehehe...

this might actually backfire... you should also know your wife well enough if she could handle it... based on my experience, tahimik na nga lang yung wife ko, walang bisyo, walang ka artehan sa katawan, yung nga lang sobrang mahiyain.. akalain mo may nasabi pa rin masama..

yun din sana yung plan ko, para makita nang anak ko kung paano maging mabuting anak, pero in the end, na iirita na ako dahil lagi nalang akong pinang uunahan at minsan di pa maiwasan ang mga misinterpretation nang mga sinasabi...

[Retz]

Okay lang kung wala kayo munang anak ng asawa niyo pero pagnagka anak na kayo, doon na mag start ang lifetime investment niyo.

[CLAVEL3699]

this might actually backfire... you should also know your wife well enough if she could handle it... based on my experience, tahimik na nga lang yung wife ko, walang bisyo, walang ka artehan sa katawan, yung nga lang sobrang mahiyain.. akalain mo may nasabi pa rin masama..
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Natural na kasi yan... Sino ang Reyna sa bahay... ako ang matanda ako dapat masunod...

[Retz]

sa ibang family nga eh, bukod living and raising your own family pati family ng utol o relatives mo ikaw din bubuhay.

[marktams86]

just to update you guys..we just saw an apartment for rent sa may paranaque... 8k lang 2 bedrooms na with garage, tahimik rin yung community and may secondary gate with guard, so I'm looking forward to my new life with my own family... thanks sa lahat nang nag advise and nag encourage sa akin, hopefully this will be a very good start...

[falken]

just to update you guys..we just saw an apartment for rent sa may paranaque... 8k lang 2 bedrooms na with garage, tahimik rin yung community and may secondary gate with guard, so I'm looking forward to my new life with my own family... thanks sa lahat nang nag advise and nag encourage sa akin, hopefully this will be a very good start...

Good Luck!

[Retz]

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that is already a great deal sir w/ garage pa. could you pm me sir kung saan sa paranque? im looking for an apartment din.

[marktams86]

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that is already a great deal sir w/ garage pa. could you pm me sir kung saan sa paranque? im looking for an apartment din.

sir, sa better living lang, try mo el dorado townhomes or el dorado villas...

[CLAVEL3699]

just to update you guys..we just saw an apartment for rent sa may paranaque... 8k lang 2 bedrooms na with garage, tahimik rin yung community and may secondary gate with guard, so I'm looking forward to my new life with my own family... thanks sa lahat nang nag advise and nag encourage sa akin, hopefully this will be a very good start...

Good Find... Good luck balitaan mo kami pagkayo na ang nag aaway at pinalalayas kana.. hehehehe Joke!

Ayusin mo lang at tigilan ang pambabae. hehehehe

[[archie]]

That's a very good deal. Better living medyo commercial kaya medyo ma traffic din, other than that, good place to start your family life.

[vinj]

just to update you guys..we just saw an apartment for rent sa may paranaque... 8k lang 2 bedrooms na with garage, tahimik rin yung community and may secondary gate with guard, so I'm looking forward to my new life with my own family... thanks sa lahat nang nag advise and nag encourage sa akin, hopefully this will be a very good start...

Goodluck! Kahit may sekyu, implement your own safety and security measures. Lalo na't kayo lang ang nasa bahay and there will be times that your kids may be left alone with the kasambahay.

[Retz]

sir, sa better living lang, try mo el dorado townhomes or el dorado villas...

okay, thank you sir!

[CVT]

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that is already a great deal sir w/ garage pa. could you pm me sir kung saan sa paranque? im looking for an apartment din.

Sino namang iskolar ang ibabahay mo riyan, ha bro?...

E, lahat na lang hinahanap mo....

20.8K:loveshower:

[greenlyt]

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that is already a great deal sir w/ garage pa. could you pm me sir kung saan sa paranque? im looking for an apartment din.

sir, sa better living lang, try mo el dorado townhomes or el dorado villas...

from betterliving ako, bumabaha yan el dorado street
anyway welcome future kapitbahay sir marktams86 and sir Retz
sir Retz baka gusto mo Condo unit maliit nga lang inside Betterliving din

[greenlyt]

Sino namang iskolar ang ibabahay mo riyan, ha bro?...

E, lahat na lang hinahanap mo....

20.8K:loveshower:

baka yun model niya sir CVT

[marktams86]

from betterliving ako, bumabaha yan el dorado street
anyway welcome future kapitbahay sir marktams86 and sir Retz
sir Retz baka gusto mo Condo unit maliit nga lang inside Betterliving din

thanks sir! EB na mga better living tsikoteers... anyone interested in carpooling? makati via global city in the morning.

[greenlyt]

^ post ka lang pagnaka lipat ka na sir mark

[marktams86]

ayaw kami i-let go nang parents ko ah. my dad checked out the area at lahat nalang nang nakita niya ay pangit about the place. pati yung steepness nang stairs, etc. etc. etc. eh di naman niya nakita yung actual unit talaga namin eh...

kawawa daw yung anak ko kung nandoon lang buong araw at iwan namin at medyo tanga2x pa naman daw yaya namin.

bakit di nalang daw hintayin yung condo (which is a 27sqm studio unit, alangan naman magkasama kami nang yaya) nila na matapos by march which is (delaying tactic).

ewan ko ba, di ko na alam kung ano sasabihin sa kanila, if i say my piece baka masaktan lang sila, why can't they just be more supportive and see me off instead of pushing negative things..