Living with My Family while Raising my own Family

[vinj]

Aroma Beach Resort ba bro?

Hehe... di ko na alam. Yung isa, subdivision na ngayon if i'm not mistaken. Nilalakad pa ni lolo from Paranaque (near the Las Pinas border) to Pasay para manligaw kay lola.

Another thing, control your borrowings. Don't get into debt sa credit cards and the like para dyan sa mga gadgets, etc. Ideally you should be able to make ends meet with your monthly salary tapos yung mga bonus, etc., napupunta sa savings.

[CVT]

Dati, para mag beach, lalabas lang sa bahay yung mga erpat ko at nandun na sa harapan ng compound nila sa Paranaque yung salt beds at beach... ngayon, coastal road na. :D

Bro.,- Paranaque ka pala (at least yung erpats mo)...

Baka graduate ng isang exlusive-boys' school (dati) dito sa Paranaque ang erpats mo,- aba e - ka Alumni ko siya!...

18.4K:sun:

[CVT]

Aroma Beach Resort ba bro?

Naku,- kung Aroma,- maraming kwento riyan... :naughty2:

18.4K:sun:

[mateomarco]

Correction, relihiyon nalang ang itatayo ko...sino wiling maging pastor/pari/counsel?

BTT: Can we attribute this sa marrying age ng mga tao nowadays? parang average ngyon bata pa 25 to 28 to marry and have a decent living?

[1D4LV]

Bro.,- Paranaque ka pala (at least yung erpats mo)...

Baka graduate ng isang exlusive-boys' school (dati) dito sa Paranaque ang erpats mo,- aba e - ka Alumni ko siya!...

18.4K:sun:

alumni ba tayo pre? hehehehehe.

[Retz]

Ung sa minimum wage board, paano ba nila kinukwenta or what is their basis in setting the minimum wage? paano nila napagkasya ung Php400++/day sa isang pamilya.

[CVT]

Ang hirap pala talaga maki tira sa parents mo when you're raising your family as well.. Such a tough balancing act to accomplish.. You do not know when to be the good son/ brother of your parents and siblings or the strong father and husband for your wife/daughter. I feel like i'm becoming distant to my family kahit nasa isang bahay lang kami at parang kulang lagin yung time ko sa wife and daughter ko.

Any advise on how I could get through this situation?

Sana kumita pa nang mas malaki so we can afford our own house na talaga. Hirap din kasi mag rent parang balewala yung hinuhulog mo monthly.

Honeymoon?- it only lasts for 3 months...

After that giyera na!!!...

Seriously, if you can help it, move out bro.

18.4K:sun:

[CVT]

alumni ba tayo pre? hehehehehe.

Oo nga, bro... Alumni tayo,- siyempre... Pro Deo Et Patria!!!

18.4K:sun:

[1D4LV]

Correction, relihiyon nalang ang itatayo ko...sino wiling maging pastor/pari/counsel?

BTT: Can we attribute this sa marrying age ng mga tao nowadays? parang average ngyon bata pa 25 to 28 to marry and have a decent living?

bata pa ngayon actually ang 25-28..... i think ang marrying age ngayon is 32 sa lalake, and 30 sa babae.
pero.... madami na din ngayon na naglilive-in.... in fact, ang dami kong kilala....

[1D4LV]

Ung sa minimum wage board, paano ba nila kinukwenta or what is their basis in setting the minimum wage? paano nila napagkasya ung Php400++/day sa isang pamilya.

very conservative ang computation nila pre eh.
actually, ang computation nila nga for daily food expenses is 250, for a family of 5.